I like that you had the courage to ask for her number. A guy knows when it’s time to ask for her number. Some guys do it prematurely and get turned down or given a phony number. It’s happened to me once, but I didn’t care, i was at a club. I expected it to happen.

Anyhow, a guy knows when the chick is digging him because she’s smiling and asking you questions back. Don’t be afraid of girls and you’ll likely experience what Greg and so many others have. It’s easier said than done, but just have that confidence that women look for and you’ll be good.

David and his staff are the real deal. Don’t listen to these PUA retards who don’t know crap about what a quality woman. Also, don’t listen to Tom Lykis, that idiot thinks getting laid is the only satisfaction on earth. If you think like those fools, you will only date woman who are as foolish as the guys who attract them.

David’s advice is what I’ve been longing to know a long time ago. I had to learn it on my own, but eventually came across his site for reinforcement and i’m on a roll.

Now where are David’s groupies, marina and sandra. They will surely have something to say.

This principle is true when approaching women, you can not rely on validation from them for who you are. The same goes for women who approach guys, some guys are just jerks, don’t let those guys affect your self concept. The girl I’m dating now approached me, and made most of the moves initially…which is what I normally do. I am very glad she did, and I am glad she has not let past jerks she has dealt with affect her confidence.

So, to answer part of your question Marina, we do like a confident women to approach us, but just like when a guy approaches a girl, it’s a matter of how it’s done. If a girl comes on very strong (physically) if you don’t know her, that, at least for me, has been a bad sign. But if flirting is done in a friendly, fun or intriguing manner, I like it.

I also agree with not being afraid of rejection. One of the girls I dated was a customer of mine, and as she left, I asked for her phone number. I was a little nervous because I had never asked for a customers number. We dated for two months. Had I been scared of rejection, I would have not only missed out on dating a nice and beautiful girl, but lost an opportunity to learn more about dating.

David, thanks for today’s blog. There’s this chick at the gym who kinda blew me off a while back and since then I’ve been kinda hesitant to approach her again. I’m gonna do it.