Comments on: Let It Go

By: William

William — Thu, 20 Dec 2007 22:03:32 +0000

David,

I agree with your advice, but this is about casual relationships that have lasted hours. I think it’s natural and nessecary to mourn for relationships that lasted longer then one night or 2 weeks.

It’s kind of simple to think a person in a long term relationship could or should just let go of feelings of pain from being hurt.

It’s healthy to get hurt from a relationship gone bad and to talk about it and to even cry. How do you think you learned that fire burns?

I do think that your advice is sound, but should be followed after mourning. For someone that dated a person one night, the mourning period should’nt last as long as the date did.

I personally went through heartbreak from a 4 yr relationship. I was misreble for 1.5 months. That is a long time to be sad, but it helped me understand myself.

Good advice. =)

By: Daisy

Daisy — Sun, 16 Dec 2007 23:18:43 +0000

Kevin,
I have a question for you. Do you tell your women “I

By: Kevin

Kevin — Sun, 16 Dec 2007 18:00:39 +0000

Actually I must be one of the few that will be honest and upfront with someone and tell them, I’m sorry the chemistry just wasn’t there for me, but I had a great time meeting you.

It’s all about making a decision, to treat people the way you wish to be treated.

Who knows maybe I could even start a trend!

By: Joe Rott

Joe Rott — Sun, 16 Dec 2007 03:10:28 +0000

THis was another great post. I used to take it personal when something didn’t work out. But now when that happens, I just keep going until I meet another. These days women are like tires. When one goes flat I replace it with a new one and keep driving; especially those women residing in LA or the 714 area code lmao

By: Prolific Programmer

Prolific Programmer — Sun, 16 Dec 2007 03:09:13 +0000

Mr Wygant, the video has been pulled from youtube.

By: Jessica

Jessica — Sun, 16 Dec 2007 03:06:10 +0000

Welcome to the blog, Wrex!

By: Wrex

Wrex — Sun, 16 Dec 2007 01:49:17 +0000

I couldn’t agree more. Unfortunately, I had to learn this for myself, and the hard-way.

After a 3-year committed relationship with my Ex Finance, she up-and-suddenly broke up with me, about 4.5 months ago. She was th first person in my 30-some-odd years, that I “truly” had loved. Seriously. I put my total trust and heart into that relationship and to her.

The first month was an agonizing hell of “wondering” and trying to figure out what in the hell went wrong. What “I” did wrong, etc.

So, what did I do wrong? Bottom line is: Nothing. It just ended, for reasons that only she understands. It took me over a month to come to that realization and after I did, I picked my cry-baby ass up off the ground and “got on” with my life. I have wonderful new opportunities, now, new relationships and a healthier outlook on relationships, now that I know how to deal with some people’s sudden “change of heart”. Life goes on, it doesn’t stop, and neither can I

Good write up, David. I wish I discovered this site, much sooner, heh.

By: Lexi

Lexi — Sun, 16 Dec 2007 01:48:01 +0000

Re the video-It is so amazing to me how much self-possession he lacks. It is especially apparent when he is around you, a man who is inherently confident.

By: Joan

Joan — Sun, 16 Dec 2007 01:29:37 +0000

Bertie;

….”but I don

By: Pete

Pete — Sun, 16 Dec 2007 01:24:40 +0000

I second the letting go thing.

Tonight I went out dancing, and my dance partner doesn’t cease to amaze me.
She is total fiery chaos (socially) and she is irresistibly attractive to me.

BUT
she’s taken, she SMOKES (I HATE it), and she has developed the annoying tendency to be naggy/languid unless anyone besides me extends a hand.

I am always attracted to her presence.
Her downsides are beyond what I can accept.
Now that’s a crappy combination.

You’re in the place. You feel the whole thing going on and you’re attracted like King Kong, you could eat her whole.
And the next moment you HATE what she’s doing.

SUCKS ok?

That had to go.

Let’s move on.