Comments on: I’ve Finally Had It With Women http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/ive-finally-had-it-with-women/2724/ Sex. Relationships. Dating. That's what I'm talkin' 'bout. Tue, 22 May 2012 21:50:45 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: Khiem (DW Coach) http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/ive-finally-had-it-with-women/2724/#comment-43775 Khiem (DW Coach) Wed, 27 Oct 2010 16:23:51 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=2724#comment-43775 Ary, Have you considered coaching? There's a lot of things that could be wrong but just from your comment alone, even I wouldn't know where to start. Your situation would require that you talk more in depth about your situation. Ary,

Have you considered coaching? There’s a lot of things that could be wrong but just from your comment alone, even I wouldn’t know where to start.

Your situation would require that you talk more in depth about your situation.

]]> By: ary http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/ive-finally-had-it-with-women/2724/#comment-43719 ary Mon, 25 Oct 2010 23:41:39 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=2724#comment-43719 hi david.. please help me out here i realy dont know how to start i was in a level that i have zero skill with social intractions!! when i started! i was listening to all of these good stuff i began to think and go out it was very basic in the bigining then i my listening got beter and things goes backword and for word!! some times i loose it for few month and comes back to me ( i am a good looking person but still i am single and i found the reason for it but it is some thing internal cant change it dont know what to do ( when the persure is coming to me or when some one put me down or when i strugling with inscurity in side ) i could make any girl attracted to me but then they become angry to me and i make the situation worth so then i feel bad about it for 6 month (( this is my problem ( it just happen very quickly when i make a mistack or when i say some thing or doing i shouldnt do) hi david.. please help me out here i realy dont know how to start
i was in a level that i have zero skill with social intractions!! when i started! i was listening to all of these good stuff i began to think and go out it was very basic in the bigining then i my listening got beter and things goes backword and for word!! some times i loose it for few month and comes back to me ( i am a good looking person but still i am single and i found the reason for it but it is some thing internal cant change it dont know what to do ( when the persure is coming to me or when some one put me down or when i strugling with inscurity in side ) i could make any girl attracted to me but then they become angry to me and i make the situation worth so then i feel bad about it for 6 month (( this is my problem ( it just happen very quickly when i make a mistack or when i say some thing or doing i shouldnt do)

]]> By: Ania http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/ive-finally-had-it-with-women/2724/#comment-34783 Ania Mon, 18 Jan 2010 00:26:55 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=2724#comment-34783 Um... what kind of response were you hoping from your female readers? Don't really know how to answer the initial 'women really suck!' part of the podcast. Guess it's good to know you're a real person - who gets pissy and makes crazy generalizations, just like the rest of us. ;) Um… what kind of response were you hoping from your female readers? Don’t really know how to answer the initial ‘women really suck!’ part of the podcast. Guess it’s good to know you’re a real person – who gets pissy and makes crazy generalizations, just like the rest of us. ;)

]]> By: andrei http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/ive-finally-had-it-with-women/2724/#comment-34769 andrei Sun, 17 Jan 2010 14:59:33 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=2724#comment-34769 Hi David I really appreciate your work. Thank you for sharing your life, insights and doing what you really like. I love you man. :) Hi David

I really appreciate your work. Thank you for sharing your life, insights and doing what you really like.

I love you man. :)

]]> By: David V http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/ive-finally-had-it-with-women/2724/#comment-34752 David V Sat, 16 Jan 2010 13:33:14 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=2724#comment-34752 haha alright Colin i'll do what i can :). haha alright Colin i’ll do what i can :) .

]]> By: DanTheOriginal http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/ive-finally-had-it-with-women/2724/#comment-34726 DanTheOriginal Fri, 15 Jan 2010 21:01:24 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=2724#comment-34726 Coach Jacob: 2009 has been quite a year, parent death and 2 client deaths in December alone! So glad to see it go away. Felt so good to let it all hang out with my wife, no more secret deceiving behind her back, not fair to anyone, so the old fire has sure been rekindled to the degree I am so tired from all the sex in 2010 that I need to find a man to help me satisfy her even more:-) hehe Just kidding...well, not really Good to be back here and see old friends....maybe one day we can have a reunion in David's new palace;-) Coach Jacob:

2009 has been quite a year, parent death and 2 client deaths in December alone! So glad to see it go away. Felt so good to let it all hang out with my wife, no more secret deceiving behind her back, not fair to anyone, so the old fire has sure been rekindled to the degree I am so tired from all the sex in 2010 that I need to find a man to help me satisfy her even more:-) hehe Just kidding…well, not really

Good to be back here and see old friends….maybe one day we can have a reunion in David’s new palace;-)

]]> By: Collin http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/ive-finally-had-it-with-women/2724/#comment-34725 Collin Fri, 15 Jan 2010 20:58:01 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=2724#comment-34725 You're welcome David. Also, when you go to college, stack the odds in your favor. Pick a school that's like 60-75% women. You’re welcome David. Also, when you go to college, stack the odds in your favor. Pick a school that’s like 60-75% women.

]]> By: David V http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/ive-finally-had-it-with-women/2724/#comment-34720 David V Fri, 15 Jan 2010 13:13:14 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=2724#comment-34720 Colin- alright thanks man for the advice i will do what i enjoy :D. To be honest there's not much to do around here so its kinda hard for me to find what i love doing but don't worry i got a few ideas and hopefully figure more of it out later on in the future :). And by the way about "not expecting change overnight" i totally agree with you, quality takes time but i will do whatever i can to get there. I'm kinda glad in a way that it doesn't come just like that because of the journey the process of getting there. Its like testing your determination, will and commitment which is good because it can even make those quality of yours even stronger if you just pull through :D Colin- alright thanks man for the advice i will do what i enjoy :D . To be honest there’s not much to do around here so its kinda hard for me to find what i love doing but don’t worry i got a few ideas and hopefully figure more of it out later on in the future :) . And by the way about “not expecting change overnight” i totally agree with you, quality takes time but i will do whatever i can to get there. I’m kinda glad in a way that it doesn’t come just like that because of the journey the process of getting there. Its like testing your determination, will and commitment which is good because it can even make those quality of yours even stronger if you just pull through :D

]]> By: Mats http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/ive-finally-had-it-with-women/2724/#comment-34706 Mats Fri, 15 Jan 2010 03:39:17 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=2724#comment-34706 @ Sandra While your ideas and efforts about letting past things be past are commendable... You sound to me as if you are almost desperately trying to convince yourself. While we should not intentionally bring past hurts into a new relationship, acting as if you can avoid this alltogether, is in my knowledge of psychology, a sure fire way to find it coming back at you and have it explode in your face. In your very first relationship, you have brought a LOT of baggage with you; the relationship to your parents, which are an important shaping factor for all your other relationships. Instead acting like things never happened, I propose an internal dialogue with your past. Giving it a place, and when old feelings or other aspects crop up, give them some time, work with it, and then let it calm down inside you again. Most people around my age (29) have already had a serious relationship, and have gotten hurt in the process too. All too often people paint this rediculous picture of 'being over it'. But then when they are really drunk or weak, it blurts out that they still have huge problems and pain with it. Wear your scars with pride I say. They make you more beautiful then. But stay away from the camouflage stick! I think if you go into a new relationship, you have to bring along all your luggage. You don't have to unpack it and clutter your new boyfriend's room with it, but you can't act as if it is not there. @ Sandra

While your ideas and efforts about letting past things be past are commendable… You sound to me as if you are almost desperately trying to convince yourself.

While we should not intentionally bring past hurts into a new relationship, acting as if you can avoid this alltogether, is in my knowledge of psychology, a sure fire way to find it coming back at you and have it explode in your face.

In your very first relationship, you have brought a LOT of baggage with you; the relationship to your parents, which are an important shaping factor for all your other relationships.

Instead acting like things never happened, I propose an internal dialogue with your past. Giving it a place, and when old feelings or other aspects crop up, give them some time, work with it, and then let it calm down inside you again.

Most people around my age (29) have already had a serious relationship, and have gotten hurt in the process too. All too often people paint this rediculous picture of ‘being over it’. But then when they are really drunk or weak, it blurts out that they still have huge problems and pain with it.

Wear your scars with pride I say. They make you more beautiful then. But stay away from the camouflage stick!

I think if you go into a new relationship, you have to bring along all your luggage. You don’t have to unpack it and clutter your new boyfriend’s room with it, but you can’t act as if it is not there.

]]> By: Sandra http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/ive-finally-had-it-with-women/2724/#comment-34705 Sandra Fri, 15 Jan 2010 03:14:16 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=2724#comment-34705 Me mainly on face book with friends but I will come here occasionally to keep up with the blogs. Oh yeah sometimes I see David on there. Me mainly on face book with friends but I will come here occasionally to keep up with the blogs. Oh yeah sometimes I see David on there.

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