Comments on: Is There Someone For Everyone? http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/is-there-someone-for-everyone/1353/ Sex. Relationships. Dating. That's what I'm talkin' 'bout. Fri, 10 Feb 2012 02:15:04 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v= By: Nikki http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/is-there-someone-for-everyone/1353/#comment-62269 Nikki Fri, 16 Dec 2011 06:10:57 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1353#comment-62269 Hi everyone! Hi everyone!

]]> By: What's Going On http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/is-there-someone-for-everyone/1353/#comment-61726 What's Going On Sun, 11 Dec 2011 04:17:37 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1353#comment-61726 What if you are an Asian guy? There are so many stereotypes against you. Asian women have been brainwashed to worship White men. White women have been brainwashed to dislike Asian men. What if you are an Asian guy? There are so many stereotypes against you. Asian women have been brainwashed to worship White men. White women have been brainwashed to dislike Asian men.

]]> By: Natalie Marie http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/is-there-someone-for-everyone/1353/#comment-58451 Natalie Marie Tue, 25 Oct 2011 05:03:55 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1353#comment-58451 I am extremely unattractive too and I personally don't believe that there is someone out there for me at least. It gets kind of disheartening when you talk to someone online, meet them in person, and they walk away from you at the restaurant. I am extremely unattractive too and I personally don’t believe that there is someone out there for me at least. It gets kind of disheartening when you talk to someone online, meet them in person, and they walk away from you at the restaurant.

]]> By: sarah grace http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/is-there-someone-for-everyone/1353/#comment-48690 sarah grace Fri, 29 Apr 2011 02:17:50 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1353#comment-48690 to katie unattractive by who's opinion? sometimes i see a couple who obviously have good romance, and i catch myself thinking "what was he/she thinking??" well obviously, the one saw something attractive in the other. why do you say you are unattractive? looks are only a part of attractiveness. as DW says over and over, there needs to be a CONNECTION! a man needs to be attracted to not just what you look like, but who you are. attraction is very subjective. someone somewhere will think you are more attractive than your friends are. looks like your life is active: career, hobbies, traveling...this is all good. if hanging with your attractive friends gets you down, have a "me" time and enjoy yourself--without them--in a venue where you can meet men who will like the kind of woman you are. also, find something about yourself that you consider to be your best physical asset, and flaunt it. me? i'm overweight and not very active at all, but i get lots of compliments on my hair and smile. so i let my hair down as often as possible, and flash my smile (not that hard for me!) and dress in a way that flatters my body. hope this helps you feel better about yourself katie! wish you the best! :) to katie

unattractive by who’s opinion? sometimes i see a couple who obviously have good romance, and i catch myself thinking “what was he/she thinking??” well obviously, the one saw something attractive in the other.

why do you say you are unattractive? looks are only a part of attractiveness. as DW says over and over, there needs to be a CONNECTION! a man needs to be attracted to not just what you look like, but who you are. attraction is very subjective. someone somewhere will think you are more attractive than your friends are.

looks like your life is active: career, hobbies, traveling…this is all good. if hanging with your attractive friends gets you down, have a “me” time and enjoy yourself–without them–in a venue where you can meet men who will like the kind of woman you are.

also, find something about yourself that you consider to be your best physical asset, and flaunt it. me? i’m overweight and not very active at all, but i get lots of compliments on my hair and smile. so i let my hair down as often as possible, and flash my smile (not that hard for me!) and dress in a way that flatters my body.

hope this helps you feel better about yourself katie! wish you the best! :)

]]> By: katie rushton http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/is-there-someone-for-everyone/1353/#comment-48679 katie rushton Thu, 28 Apr 2011 19:59:49 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1353#comment-48679 I disagree. I am very unattractive and have extremely attractive female friends. It is highly unlikely that I will ever meet someone who will like me and not them. Therefore, I concentrate on other things that bring me happiness. Like building my career, developing hobbies, spending time with friends and family, and travel. I disagree. I am very unattractive and have extremely attractive female friends. It is highly unlikely that I will ever meet someone who will like me and not them. Therefore, I concentrate on other things that bring me happiness. Like building my career, developing hobbies, spending time with friends and family, and travel.

]]> By: K http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/is-there-someone-for-everyone/1353/#comment-24101 K Wed, 04 Mar 2009 06:03:01 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1353#comment-24101 Kismet - Enjoy your relationship for what it is right now - if BOTH of you have not gotten over your previous relationships, then I seriously doubt that either of you are ready to dig in again. I do believe that you can work on yourself while you are in a relationship but I would hope that you're not someone who NEEDS to be in a relationship in order to feel whole or valuable, y'know? Plenty of time to turn up the heat and see if something is really there or not. Sounds like you are each other's current support group/wingman-by-proxy. If you think that he's not yet ready, then it's your intuition telling yourself that he's not ready. Stay in the moment and enjoy the moment! Kismet – Enjoy your relationship for what it is right now – if BOTH of you have not gotten over your previous relationships, then I seriously doubt that either of you are ready to dig in again. I do believe that you can work on yourself while you are in a relationship but I would hope that you’re not someone who NEEDS to be in a relationship in order to feel whole or valuable, y’know? Plenty of time to turn up the heat and see if something is really there or not. Sounds like you are each other’s current support group/wingman-by-proxy. If you think that he’s not yet ready, then it’s your intuition telling yourself that he’s not ready. Stay in the moment and enjoy the moment!

]]> By: kismet http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/is-there-someone-for-everyone/1353/#comment-24068 kismet Tue, 03 Mar 2009 20:06:17 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1353#comment-24068 David Deangelo says that when a women says she needs time to work on herself, it means she's not attracted. But I find that wrong. I need time to work on myself and would say that to a guy I'm attracted or not attracted to. Of course I would be more tempted to go into a relationship if I'm really attracted to the man, but that might just be a crash and burn. So my question is: I have this online guy friend (I'm a female) and we're two states apart. He has the whole personality package I'm attracted to and physically he is attractive also. We just started talking on the phone the other day. I'm not much of an online dater or long distance relationship person, and I've already made vows to stay single and work on my "inner game/confidence/self." Is it possible to work on yourself while being in a relationship? Should I go for it or should I give myself some time. Personally I think he needs time to get over his ex too. The other problem is, they were forced to break up by their parents, so the love he has for her is still there. If given the chance, he would be with her. Wouldn't this become an issue, especially insecurity issues? I've been going one year with no big troubles and its the best I've ever been but still need to work more on myself. Would a relationship ruin what I've built so far? David Deangelo says that when a women says she needs time to work on herself, it means she’s not attracted. But I find that wrong. I need time to work on myself and would say that to a guy I’m attracted or not attracted to. Of course I would be more tempted to go into a relationship if I’m really attracted to the man, but that might just be a crash and burn.

So my question is:

I have this online guy friend (I’m a female) and we’re two states apart. He has the whole personality package I’m attracted to and physically he is attractive also. We just started talking on the phone the other day. I’m not much of an online dater or long distance relationship person, and I’ve already made vows to stay single and work on my “inner game/confidence/self.”

Is it possible to work on yourself while being in a relationship? Should I go for it or should I give myself some time. Personally I think he needs time to get over his ex too. The other problem is, they were forced to break up by their parents, so the love he has for her is still there. If given the chance, he would be with her. Wouldn’t this become an issue, especially insecurity issues?

I’ve been going one year with no big troubles and its the best I’ve ever been but still need to work more on myself. Would a relationship ruin what I’ve built so far?

]]> By: Khiem (DW Coach) http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/is-there-someone-for-everyone/1353/#comment-24067 Khiem (DW Coach) Tue, 03 Mar 2009 19:58:08 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1353#comment-24067 I believe there is someone for everyone.... but as you said David, we need to be aware and really pay attention to the opportunities in front of us. I think Bruce Lee was the one who said: when the student is ready, the teacher will appear. I think it goes the same with in love. When we are ready (emotionally and everything else), the one meant for us will appear. I believe there is someone for everyone…. but as you said David, we need to be aware and really pay attention to the opportunities in front of us.

I think Bruce Lee was the one who said: when the student is ready, the teacher will appear. I think it goes the same with in love. When we are ready (emotionally and everything else), the one meant for us will appear.

]]> By: Sandra http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/is-there-someone-for-everyone/1353/#comment-23821 Sandra Thu, 26 Feb 2009 03:22:49 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1353#comment-23821 Thank u Yakub and a b day wish back to u. Mine is 02-24-1960. So that makes us both Pisces will these people understand us? lol Thank u Yakub and a b day wish back to u. Mine is 02-24-1960. So that makes us both Pisces will these people understand us? lol

]]> By: Roxyd http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/is-there-someone-for-everyone/1353/#comment-23785 Roxyd Thu, 26 Feb 2009 00:15:13 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1353#comment-23785 B.T.W..........I love the diary story.....funny and true! B.T.W……….I love the diary story…..funny and true!

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