Is She Naughty Or Nice?
December 19, 2008 
30 Comments
‘Tis the season to be horny
Fa la la la la . . . ooh la la la
During my last weekend bootcamp, a guy wanted to know if there is a fun way to immediately start talking about sex with a woman. No, he was not asking how to have sex right away. He wanted to know how to create some playful banter and a memorable conversation.
So we went to Longs Drugs and bought Christmas stockings that we filled with candy canes, Pez dispensers and a few draedels for the Jewish women. We then headed out to Beverly Hills where we did an exercise called “Naughty Or Nice.”
In this exercise, you go out with a friend and walk around either on the streets or in a mall (depending on what the weather is like where you live). One of you is Santa and wears a Santa cap. The other one is Santa’s Helper and carries the goody bag.
Then as you walk through the streets or through the mall, you have a smile on your face and you’re playful. Women will start to notice you . . . after all, it’s not every day two grown men are walking around with a Santa cap and a stocking.
When a woman sees you, smile at her and tell her to “come here.” Women are very curious, and most will walk over to you. When one does, the one with the Santa cap will look directly in her eyes and ask her whether she was naughty or nice this year. If she confesses which one she was, she gets a present out of Santa’s Helper’s stocking.
Half of them will say they have been naughty. If a woman says she’s been naughty, then you have to ask her how naughty she has been this year. If a woman says she has been nice, then tell her “Great. I love good girls.”
It’s about being playful and having fun. Women crave conversation starters that are real, natural and something they have really never heard.
Not only that, but doing something like this show that you have a personality and a sense of humor. It also shows that you can be very playful, and being playful is part of any successful flirting.
Women love playful, fun and witty banter. All the guys who used this technique had a blast with it.
The holiday time is a good time to be a little more naughty because everybody wants to hang out with Bad Santa. Oops . . . that’s a Billy Bob movie.
So go to the mall, grab yourself a stocking, and find yourself some naughty or nice girls.
Very cute
I also saw some guys wearing Santa hats that said “I’ve been naughty” on the white furry part. Great conversation starters.
The whole idea is so fun. I remember a particular time the conversation got so dirty, one of the clients couldn’t believe it:)
I love it when the guys deliver it right when we do that exercise. There’s a way the guy has to look at her, or say it to her to really work it well.
lol, I gotta try this!
I’ll have to try this sometime
i hope i find as many naughty girls as possible : )
As a friend of mine used to say when asked if she was ready for Christmas, “Yes, I’ve hung a body stocking over the fireplace and I can’t wait to see what Santa brings for me!”
David
Do I have the right to blog here and did I understand you to say to use this site to air out differences. I did not know that we had people on this site that disrespects others points of view and has kept score cards. Lets see how many times each of you have sent some sort of email to address book since I started here. For I will spend the next few days cleaning out my hard drive.
Thanks
Sandra
Is there some problem with being nicely naughty? lol
Hey Sandra, why worry about it? We’re all just a bunch of folks you’ll probably never meet. I think Dan was only stating his opinion of people who are overtly religious. Why sweat it? You two don’t agree…no big deal if you’re not working on being his girlfriend eh?
Bertie
I would put him to the streets looking at which direction he should go.
Ok…Then why get worked up over it. Its kind of like David is always saying, you’re going to get rejection not everyone is going to like you, move on. Just my thoughts on it.
Bertie
I took it personally when I read Deb’s blogged email in my box that is all and when she said that I only can block how many times she saw fit.
Hey how would you like when your in a conversation about sex and the woman says you naughty boy. Or are you man enough to handle this.
O Bertie she even gave the ratio numbers of how many times I blogged.
David’s blog is open to everyone. David and I definitely like hearing everyone’s thoughts.
However, as a general rule, I think it’s nice to keep the comments relevant to the blog David writes about. We prefer comments that add to the understanding and the discussion of the blog topic rather than detracts from it.
Posting things that aren’t related to the blog topic, venting or bickering at one another in the comments section make it hard for everyone to really enjoy the sharing of ideas we want to foster on these blogs.
To all: don’t be shy… definitely comment on the blog but at the same time, don’t be the kid in the front of the class who just won’t shut up
It sounds great to dress up as santa. As long as you’re not doing it for the purpose of seeking attention.
Kheim
I do agree with that. Email time.
Kheim
Make a deal if anyone on this blog has something they want to discuss with me and it does not have to do with David’s blog feel free to email me at angelmouse@bellsouth.net. We will discuss there. I do agree we need to be peaceful people.
Dragonclaw
What if she wants to dress up as Mrs. Santa Claus in a nice teddy of some sort and want to be naughty with you all nite long?
You see where my mind stays in the gutter.
I’d like to play “naughty Claus” with an attractive woman this year.
Daryl
Way to go man! Like that blog.
Oh Daryl I forgot u naughty Santa you.
>>>>>>>What if she wants to dress up as Mrs. Santa Claus in a nice teddy of some sort and want to be naughty with you all nite long?
If you do that you are going to hell!
That’s where I am going and I am taking the Hell Express there:-)
I was dating a guy during the holidays a few years ago, and we found this large, plush Christmas stocking, and on one side in gold was embroidered “naughty” and when you flipped it over it read “nice”. We would take turns moving it around the house to surprise the other person, set the mood. Sometimes there was a little surprise hiding in the stocking for the other person to find. It was lots of fun. Santa was very good to me that year.
Fun little games like this one spice up a relationship and keep things interesting.
Dan The Original
If u are having any kind of problems with me you can email me at angelmouse@bellsouth.net that away I can decide if I want to report ur email as spam. This is no battle ground get it! We will settle our differences there. Also I made an agreement with Kheim if u have any problems email me there. I Dont Know you from Adam’s House Cat unless you live in Ashland City Tennessee.
I like messing with you Sandra. Don’t you ever ask me to email you again, it will never happen! We all appreciate you having slowed down your number of posts. Have you ever considered starting your own blog? Please do and you can post all your thoughts there and spare us here, thank you.
And God Bless you:-)
I’ve been coming to David’s site and reading his blogs for about 2 months now. I’ve found the information very insightful and fun. I’ve enjoyed the comments just as much until recently. I feel like I’ve walked into one of those reality show message boards and it’s getting a little uncomfortable (for me at least). I have not posted any comments in the past but I had a strong desire to post a comment asking that the comment section go back to being for comments and ideas relating to David’s blogs. I’ll probably be called on the carpet for this and that’s okay but I won’t send an email either. Done is done. “Build a bridge and get over it”. Or… maybe, I’ve missed what’s really go on here and all this is some flirting game. Either way, I think I’ll pass on the post game show and just stick to the game.
I love the idea of the Santa hat and sock – might try it sometime…just not where I currently live.
Dan
That is fine but you still have a problem with people. You can rest assured I would not answer it anyway. I don’t want to hear from you anyway. And saving people the trouble since when did this become a getto area. I agree with Strawberry Blonde and what she said.
But my philosophy in life is this burn your bridges with people and they wont forget what you said or did to them.
Sandra
Now lets just stick to blogging about what David wants us too. I will blog here 1oooo,ooooo x if I want to anyway time to play Sims 2.
Sandra, you’re way too uptight. Let others have their thoughts, stop treating them as affront’s to your ego.
Dragonclaw
Go to the next blog and read what I said. Right now I am sitting in a cold room we are going to be in the single digits and it is cold.