Really need to know that so I don’t get it wrong:)

Speaking on behalf of women, I think Khiem is right that the woman probably thought about the situation and chickened out. She probably does want to leave he boyfriend, but she just can’t bring herself to pull the trigger.

Women get overly practical sometimes and that’s when we start thinking things like (as Khiem brought up) we already know what is wrong with our current relationship and things might be the same or worse in another one. So, some of us are more prone to stick it out and deal with the known factors rather than take a chance ont he unknown.

As my sister once said, “Relationships are like polotics, the encumbant always has an advantage.”

I’ll just do what I’ve learned from the other posts.Date date and date too see what’s good for me and only then when I will find the one with the ‘it factor’ (i’ve searched a bit for that podcast) only then I will setle down to a relationship. Sounds fair doesn’t it?

She has a b/f… and you never get another chance like “right now”.

If you liked her… and for whatever reason, she was open to you at the time, that’s when you needed to make that connection.

Once she’s home, maybe she’s not fighting with her b/f anymore… maybe she realizes she wants him and her to work out… whatever the reason… she’s not wanting to jeopardize her relationship with him for something unknown like yours.

In either case, she’d only go out with you if she was really at that breaking point with him.

For example, I’m overweight. I’m actually losing weight, but I need to lose like 50 pounds. So, if someone just looked at a picture of me he might not find me attractive. But I have a lot of charisma and sexual energy. After interacting with me for a few minutes most men find me attractive.

And it’s not because of my face or my body. And I doubt it just my voice and what I am saying.

I think it’s like the Pepsi Challenge. Maybe that was before your time, but here’s what went down. Pepsi filmed commercials of people taking a sip of Pepsi and a sip of Coke, and most folks honestly preferred the sweeter-tasting Pepsi.

Based on this, Coke reformulated their product and named it New Coke. Well, that fell flat (pun intended). It turned out that most people, when drinking a whole can or two or three–and not just one sip–preferred the more drinkable, less sweet Coke.

Guess what happened to New Coke?

Would you belive that the time we aranged a date she didn’t come and didn’t answer the phone? I just texted her that ok you got me, but you won’t get a second chance. I think you just don’t to those kind of things. Am I right?

And yeah I’ve met the ow no lots of times but I get so pissed of when I try to light up the conversation and they just sit there like someone has died.

But can anyone tell me, after such amazing chemestry why did I get hung up?

But David, you’ve must have had an incident where you met somone you didn’t think much about and over time they eventually grew on you. I know this has happened to me and I’m sure it has happened to others. Theres are instances where its night and day, and you know right away, but I think those are in the minority. What does everyone think?