“Life is about experiencing this kind of magic.”

I’m happy for you and I hope things work out. Listening to your heart and going through these things by yourself are the only ways to truly learn your purpose in life, what you really want and how you are going to go after the goals you set in life.

Last night, I went out with a woman. And the connection we made was incredible and we were clearly just having so much fun.

When we finally kissed, it was something that I have not felt in such a long time. I was so lost in the moment that I almost forgot where we were and when the kiss was over, we both had that “sigh” that we all know and love.

When we kissed again, it was the same thing. Incredible. The taste of the kiss lingered and I cherished every moment and it was one of those kisses I will not forget for a long time.

We all strive to have these stories to tell. This time, two years ago, I would never have a story like this to tell. But with all the work, reading and experience I have put myself through, isn’t it worth it?

And even when you think you get there…you’ll want more.

I know I do.

Amen.

Ok lets make it a few more.

3 years working on myself + 4 and a half day’s of full immersion in London = a fire in the belly that’s like a coal mine fire that burns for thousands of years and never go’s out.

You are right it does take a hell of a lot to just let go of the feelings you have for a person like that. I find it so hard to comprehend how you can be that close to someone, share your secrets and inner most feelings, your bodies, your time, practically everything you have with this person, then one day it all just counts for nothing and they leave. I understand that people fall in AND out of love, but if you still love them when its all over it can be a doomsday feeling that lasts for a very long time.

Its not all bad though, the one big lesson she did teach me which may sound obvious to many people is that the people in your life ARE your life. She taught me to value the people you love above physical possessions or selfish wants and desires. I guess i was quite immature not to be aware of this previously, but i’m definitely up to speed now. So whenever something happens within my current relationships or friendships, i just step back and evaluate the big picture; is this argument/difference/whatever worth losing this person? invariably the answer is no and i make the decision to maintain my relationship. Without great people in our lives we really have nothing. They are the ones that make us get up in the morning and have a zest for life. It’s important to value yourself too, but sharing life with loved ones is really what it’s all about.

David

Thanks I am keeping my chin up, positivity is the way forward. I just have my down times. But picking myself up is becoming easier. And that really is in no small part due to your website, videos and blogs. The messages you give everybody really are life changing and inspiring. You probably don’t even realise how much you have helped people you’ve never met, but i thank you for the work you do and the hope you bring people.

I was 18 that time, very confused and was also going through other difficult personal issues.

I was separated from my childhood male bestfriend that same semester during school. We were studying in a college that was a 5-hour drive from our own hometown, a private campus. His parents started betraying my parents, and at first it was fine for me and my bestfriend. And then his mom started talking shit about my brother, so my mom didn’t want me to talk to my bestfriend anymore. 2 weeks after which was a month before I cheated on my boyfriend, that was when my bestfriend’s dad suddenly came to school and took my bestfriend away from me and transferred him to another school that is very far from me. I only had 10minutes to see him for the last time before they left. What was more devastating is that my bestfriend himself chose to do what his parents wanted him to do, to stop the communication also. You know it was like choose between family or friends. So yeah, I wasn’t allowed to talk to him in person, I couldn’t at least take a glimpse of him anymore since he was taken away without being warned first, and I couldn’t even reach him anymore by phone or email. It really broke me into pieces, it felt like life wasn’t that worth it to embrace anymore.

Good thing I still had my female bestfriend around. If not for her, I wouln’t have survived it. It did affected my studies, It affected my eating appetite (heck I lost about 25-30lbs in a month), I was trying to rebuild myself, and my boyfriend wasn’t around that whole time I was struggling. That is why I was mistakenly led to seek short companionship from someone else, thinking that it might be what I have been looking for to finally relieve myself from my own dilemma. But it didn’t help. I thought of not telling my boyfriend about it, but as days went, it was killing me more inside. At least I admitted to him and did what I could to make our relationship go normal right? past is past. I have moved on from everything.

It’s totally not true that women are on the whole cold and unfriendly. Some women’s personalities are naturally cold and unfriendly, to them it’s normal. Some act that way depends on their current situation, some are just too nice and very accomodating, and some react that way depends on other people’s approach to them. I do think it was either because on how you approached them, or your mind was set to be responded by women that way. You know when you think negatively, you tend to get brainwashed by your thoughts. And since your negative thoughts may start to control you, you become somewhat determined that that’s what’s gonna happen to you everytime you approach women.

You should check out David’s videos, David’s products and David’s blogs. You will surely get straightforward answers and will learn a lot. Start thinking positively, and keep in mind that every woman differ in so many ways.

May i ask whose bootcamps you took?

That may be part of the problem.