I find that when you are content with your vocation in life, other things will fall into place. Feeling good about yourself inside really is the bottom line.

Everyone has there own thing to improve on and I am no exception. My issue has long been having too much time on my hands and not using it wisely. Though I have had a ‘semi-full time’ music career going for a number of years, I am turning 25 soon and am not finding myself making a reasonable living at this. It seemed that when I was working very hard at music, ie in my late teens, I was a real introvert. Now as a young adult I realize what I’ve missed out on socially and am working hard to make up for the lost time. My passion seems to be more in socializing and less on hard work.

I’m a healthy guy in good shape, and though I still can improve, confident in meeting women. I am not happy with where I am at right now, however and am taking a good look at what I value to better use my time.

My point is, though yes you need to work hard, perhaps of greater importance is finding where to apply that hard work.

What does this have to do with todays blog?

A new phenomenon has in recent years as Internet-based singles groups. Many individuals groups who are existence as a church group or a social group from an e-mail format moved to a Yahoo Groups, or have created their own web sites to list activities. The latest development for Singles Meet Up is the kind of group. There are thousands of Meet ups all over the world. We see arrive; take the logs and e-mail activities and events for the group in question. There are groups that are in place markets, hobby, general retail and social groups.

It is a false sense of security only with the application for a single group on the Internet. Singles looking for singles events and activities have to wonder about the quality of the groups and people, they are reviewing the Internet. Quality single professionals tend to connect to charity, nonprofit, professional and hobby-based organizations in their city. Singles, who do not have time to quality organizations to join or not to spend the money, usually includes socially inept, geeky types, click here and subscribe for free for everything.

The singles can now meet up with the kind of individual they want, by only updating there profile which are matched and meet up is arranged for them making it more popular.

Picnic at the creek: Prepare something edible in a cool bottle of wine and enjoy the day with your dating partner.

A film: Let others choose the film. It’s a nice gesture if you do not have the same taste in movies. Select a special film made to promote the ambience. Before the beginning of the movie take something to eat and drinks so that you both can enjoy the movie on dating.

Whether big or small – everyone loves theme parks. Roller coaster or bumper cars are Ideal place for the child in us.

Home to eat: Show off your cooking skills and invite the partner to dinner. Please do not overdo the candles and music. Indoor ice-skating or roller blade in the park, you can lean on each other for balance and warmth.

A sporting event that you love: Are you a football fan? Then have a look together for a game. Send up kites. It’s more fun than you imagine

A visit to the zoo: Everyone loves animals. A zoo may be the perfect place for a first contact. Looking for a nice zoo, where there are nice and clean enclosures for the animals. A nice restaurant in the zoo would always have something to drink.

These are the most effective tips for a perfect date with your partner.

That no one has it totally easy.

And that while some things do come more easily to some than others, that you still have to believe you CAN achieve anything you want if you are willing to work hard enough to get it.

And to be honest… I am happy that I figured it out.

And now, I am seeing bullshit all over the place, when dealing with family and friends.

Any advice on how to get them to understand the bullshit they are spewing? Cause I am getting sick of holding my tongue with them.