How You Can Do It Too
July 26, 2010 
14 Comments
Come to one of my Bootcamps and get coached by my coaches and I, and we will give you every skill you need to be successful. We will kick your ass. You will have every bit of information you need to create total success in your dating life.
That by itself, though, is not enough for you to actually become successful. You need to be persistent and you need to believe in yourself.
Look at the most successful professional sports teams, and you will see that each one has these two qualities. Take last year’s New York Jets as a great example. 52 players who all believed in their coach, believed in their team and believed in themselves, and they achieved so much more than anyone thought they ever could.
Mark Sanchez was a nervous rookie, but he is going to be a great quarterback because of the experience he gained playing in the playoffs during his first year. There were probably 25 quarterbacks who were better players than Mark Sanchez at the time he was playing in the playoffs, but there he was as one of only four quarterbacks playing in those playoffs.
It’s about being prepared and sticking with your plan. It’s called persistence. It’s called believing in yourself and the people with whom you surround yourself.
What do you want out of life? Write it down. Learn the skills to get it. Then be persistent and believe.
I am saving up for the bootcamp now. It will be a honor to meet you and the coaches some day. I only hear great things about the bootcamp.
It is the simple things that helps the most David. I am now writing up the answers to your question in my journal. Wanted to give you a sincere thank you from my heart~
It looks like I gotta work bottom to up since i don’t have a solid inner game. What is the next step for me??
Being persistent and believing is what I live my life by in each moment. I guess sometimes when you make the same mistakes over and over, it is painful. You don’t want to be part of those pain so you do anything to get out of it. I started to work on myself, and the whole self improvement for past 5 years, and I am proudly able to tell you guys that persistence and believing in oneself does really pay off in the end.
Rick- what were soem of your pains if you don’t mind sharing??
anonymous-
It was painful not able to understand women. It was painful not having my life all together, everything was a mess, everywhere I went was a mess, life wasn’t as peaceful, everyday seemed like a battle to prepare for a great war.
Rick
I always enjoy reading about your story! I told you few years back that the pains are part of the process:)
wow Rick i think i can relate to that, i feel the world is not all pretty and lots of hate, fear, and not enough love is in the air.
Thank you Jacob!! I owe you and David so much and how can I repay such debt my fried. Few years back I was so blind, and I have saved all the things I have learned and looking back it was an incredible journey!! I will be soon joining you guys to get a view from the top, you know what I mean?:)
anonymous-
The world may not be all pretty but you got to change. You can’t wait for the world to change, which will not happen anytime soon. I have waited a long time in the past and I will tell you it was not worth it.
Rick
I know what you mean:) The you deserve to see the view from the top!
You’re welcome and all the best:)
Hey, I think you’re right. You just need to get yourself out there and don’t give up! I am practicing approaching men I don’t know and it really works. Every time I feel more confident and I see good results. Like tonight, I went to this bar and I really liked the doorman. I started talking to him and then I went inside and he followed me.When I left I said good night like if I didn’t care and he looked at me with a big smile. I think next time when I go to this same bar he will remember me and he will start talking to me. Now I have a question for guys , how come a hot woman like m has been single for 5 years in the city of Boston? what’s wrong with guys here? I hear this all the time, Boston is a city with plenty of single lonely people and no one talks to each other. This is why eveyone is on match.com. I tried it and hated it!! I’m moving to Argentina next year!
Boy David Wy-Gant. I don’t know what’s been happening to you…but lately, your blogs have been quite inspirational. Life must be good! It really shows….even if you’re just typing a blog.
Anonymous Jr. (not the other Anonymous)
Monica,
That’s interesting. A woman who thinks about approaching…the natural thinking is that women have it easy because they just have to stand there. To answer your question, I think most people (guys) are just afraid to put themselves out there. It’s not even a conscious choice…more like the mind says yes, but the body says no. It takes a lot of courage to break that barrier and try to connect with people, even if you face that invisible wall of social pressure.
Anonymous Jr.