How To Turn A Woman On Sexually
June 10, 2007 
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All women want to have sex with the man they’ve read about in the romance novels. Women are turned on by powerful, confident, self-assured men.
If you want to learn about women, instead of looking at pictures on an online dating site and mass emailing them with some generic email, why don’t you read through what turns them on? If you actually spent time reading what turns them on, you would actually become that man. Not one woman online is looking for a soft, wimpy, wussy man.
They are looking for a man that creates passion and desire in them. So how does a guy do this? And can any guy do this?
The answer is yes, if you actually take the time to understand women and take the time to connect with them. When a guy is confident and is able to stimulate a woman's mind and connect with her, he'll be in total control and she'll be totally turned on by him.
So what is the key to getting a woman totally connected and turned on to you? . . . it's to open your ears and listen!
Most men don’t listen. Most men buy into all the garbage that’s available on the internet of the so-called “pick up strategies” and think there’s some magic thing to say in every situation to meet a woman.
You know what the magic thing to say is? Sometimes nothing.
Sometimes when you listen to a woman carefully, and when I say carefully I mean listening to what she has to say and reacting to what she has to say. Because when you listen to what she has to say, she will open up to you and become more attracted to you as the minutes pass.
She doesn’t want to hear about the amount of money you make, or the new car you bought, or how good you are at XBox. All she wants you to do is listen and connect with her mind.
If you connect with her mind, she will give you her body. The best sex you’ll ever have is not when you’ve convinced her to have sex with you, it’s when you’ve connected with her mind and it’s her idea. If the sex is her idea, she’ll give you the best sex you’ve had in months.
So how do you turn her on? Well, don’t be a wimp and ask her to hang out with you. Tell her where to meet you . . . and make it somewhere interesting.
Don’t just make a boring reservation at a restaurant. Challenge her to a game of pool – the winner get’s a great massage. Challenge her . . . be gutsy.
Most men are so soft on this issue, and that’s why they get flaked on over and over again. It happens because they did not take control. Women will drop hints over and over again so you take control.
Recently I was IM’ing this woman, and she said to me “It’s been so long since I’ve had great sex.” Most men would change the subject or not know what to do. I said, “Well, let’s make it happen. What is great sex to you?”
We then proceeded to talk about sex for the next 25 minutes, and she gave me the roadmap to having great sex with her. All I had to do is get in the car and drive.
When they drop hints, you need to be the alpha male. You have to have the balls to ask her what she’s really thinking. You can’t play it safe. Most women don’t get turned on mentally or physically by safe.
They want sex as much, if not more, than you. It’s time you learned how to be the alpha male so you can be enjoying real connections with women every single day.
However, it’s late . . . we’ll talk more about this in a podcast.
If you want to find out what women truly desire and what they truly fantasize about, and what makes YOU the kind of man to whom women are irresistibly attracted, then you need to check out my “Girls Tell All” Audio Program
Nice issue.Nice… I would hope this goes in my case,but at 18, turning 19…not many girls are into this stuff.Or should I get an older one?:) Anyway I keep growing everyday, at least I think and the number one realization that I made over 1 year and a half since I’ve been reading the blog and so on, is that I HAVE TO BE ME. Me, not the person that people like, me, if someone doesn’t like me screw them. It sound corny and over-rated but it’s true.I found out that the best succes I’ve had is when I was myself and not when that inner voice told me what to do and beat me up.
I gotta say again thanks for the blog and for the realization.
Btw I got a gift from my ex, a stuffed animal, a bull
and she was the person I shared the most feelings with.We’re friends even now.The ideea is to remind myself who I am(when I see that bull) and to get over some situations when I sometimes think that I’m the actual problem in some situations. She told me this:”dude,keep your colors.” I think I’ve said enough. Hope you didn’t get boored reading this 
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Mike
Very powerful David. “Listen, and connect with her mind!” Its definitely about creating the environment for her where she knows I’m in total control so anything she says or does will be safe. Wednesday’s podcast should definitely continue on this subject.
Hey Mike, that realization you had sounds really profound. It’s all about being and accepting the real self, and stopping to try to be the person everybody around us would like us to be.
About age? Well, let me tell you, I would be glad if I had this kind of realizations and access to this information when I was 18. You are in the right age to begin a fantastic journey, and this community is a perfect starting point!
M.
Thanks Marcus.Well, I would love to talk to people about these kind of subjects but I don’t have many around me that actually think at this level. I really can’t join this community,I’m from Romania,Eastern Europe and I can’t afford it.But that’s alright.I will keep reading the blongs and who knows actually get to meet and talk to some interesting people
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