Comments on: How To Never Bar Crawl http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/how-to-never-bar-crawl/1584/ Sex. Relationships. Dating. That's what I'm talkin' 'bout. Tue, 22 May 2012 21:12:44 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: David Gideon http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/how-to-never-bar-crawl/1584/#comment-27670 David Gideon Sun, 17 May 2009 15:28:20 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1584#comment-27670 We attract the same energy we put out. Why? The reason for this is the capacity we all have for empathy.. When we see sadness WE actually FEEL the sadness. When we see people laughing it triggers laughter in us.. etc. It's the reason we cry at movies (not me personally.. wink) or start yelling when a football team, comprised of guys we don't even know, gets cheated by the referee. So, if you are having fun, feeling good, and enjoying a positive outlook on life.. people will experience those things TOO as they interact with you.. They'll want more.. They'll feel attraction. David Gideon We attract the same energy we put out. Why? The reason for this is the capacity we all have for empathy.. When we see sadness WE actually FEEL the sadness. When we see people laughing it triggers laughter in us.. etc. It’s the reason we cry at movies (not me personally.. wink) or start yelling when a football team, comprised of guys we don’t even know, gets cheated by the referee.

So, if you are having fun, feeling good, and enjoying a positive outlook on life.. people will experience those things TOO as they interact with you.. They’ll want more.. They’ll feel attraction.

David Gideon

]]> By: Jason Tsang http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/how-to-never-bar-crawl/1584/#comment-27666 Jason Tsang Sun, 17 May 2009 09:00:34 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1584#comment-27666 Great video, I agree. I prefer not to be a predator. I find chat up lines cheesy and they are so obvious, the women know what you're about. Its not really just about chatting up women, but its nice to use observations for a bit of small talk and cement the relationship with people you know and get to know them a bot better. Great video, I agree. I prefer not to be a predator. I find chat up lines cheesy and they are so obvious, the women know what you’re about. Its not really just about chatting up women, but its nice to use observations for a bit of small talk and cement the relationship with people you know and get to know them a bot better.

]]> By: Sandra http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/how-to-never-bar-crawl/1584/#comment-27096 Sandra Mon, 04 May 2009 01:44:35 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1584#comment-27096 Oh getting caught was visiting relatives that came in from a different state that I had not seen in awhile. Oh getting caught was visiting relatives that came in from a different state that I had not seen in awhile.

]]> By: Sandra http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/how-to-never-bar-crawl/1584/#comment-27095 Sandra Mon, 04 May 2009 01:43:57 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1584#comment-27095 Did you know that I had a dream when I was with my ex husband that I went bald headed and he left me because of it. Sometimes I wonder if our dreams tell us things to look for. My dreams are stupid at times and some them seem real. Did you know that I had a dream when I was with my ex husband that I went bald headed and he left me because of it. Sometimes I wonder if our dreams tell us things to look for. My dreams are stupid at times and some them seem real.

]]> By: Charlie http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/how-to-never-bar-crawl/1584/#comment-27040 Charlie Sat, 02 May 2009 07:21:44 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1584#comment-27040 Great post, Lifes about stepping up and having the courage to share our best with others Great post,
Lifes about stepping up and having the courage to
share our best with others

]]> By: Vlad http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/how-to-never-bar-crawl/1584/#comment-27036 Vlad Sat, 02 May 2009 03:56:47 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1584#comment-27036 To all those folk who are gonna say ... "David! What the hell? You've posted this video already and I have already seen it! You suck, you and your sunglasses!" ... here is my response. I have also seen this video a number of times (at least three). And every single time I watch it, I have learned something new. Everything David says is obvious, but just because it is obvious does not imply it's simple. It may appear simple and stupid to "beginners". But behind this "simplicity" lies great depth. It is from this great depth of simplicity, that you actually learn how to talk and connect with women. The simplest and most obvious things in life take the most amount of mastery. Have a great weekend everyone! To all those folk who are gonna say …

“David! What the hell? You’ve posted this video already and I have already seen it! You suck, you and your sunglasses!”

… here is my response.

I have also seen this video a number of times (at least three). And every single time I watch it, I have learned something new. Everything David says is obvious, but just because it is obvious does not imply it’s simple. It may appear simple and stupid to “beginners”. But behind this “simplicity” lies great depth. It is from this great depth of simplicity, that you actually learn how to talk and connect with women. The simplest and most obvious things in life take the most amount of mastery.

Have a great weekend everyone!

]]> By: Taras http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/how-to-never-bar-crawl/1584/#comment-27032 Taras Fri, 01 May 2009 23:14:15 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1584#comment-27032 This is the second time I've read about standing in the middle of the bar and talking animatedly. lol, now I HAVE to give it a try! This is the second time I’ve read about standing in the middle of the bar and talking animatedly. lol, now I HAVE to give it a try!

]]> By: Valentino Smith http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/how-to-never-bar-crawl/1584/#comment-27027 Valentino Smith Fri, 01 May 2009 21:27:18 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1584#comment-27027 LMAO! at your response marina. if i were there i wouldve yelled "FAIL!!" But i want to respond to the end of the blogg where it says that we attracted who we are not what we want. I couldnt agree more with you more. Im not your average 18 year old black guy, i swim for my college and a club team over the summer. I listen to alternative rock just as much as i do hip-hop. Im finding myself wearing shirts that fit me more often than tall tees, which use to be my thing. However, i do sagg my pants and say slang words and wat not but wat teen doesnt? Andre 3000 says in a song "Throw some D's"-the remix, "Aint a hood nigga but a nigga from da hood." This is one of my favorite quote because that describes who i am. Im from the hood by im no hood nigga. My mom fusses at me all the time for not dating enough black girls but, u may or may not know this David, alot of black girls my age are hood-rats (translation-ghetto girls). And thats not who i am. Its hard to find a black girl like me and if so she prolly already has a boy friend. LMAO! at your response marina. if i were there i wouldve yelled “FAIL!!”

But i want to respond to the end of the blogg where it says that we attracted who we are not what we want. I couldnt agree more with you more. Im not your average 18 year old black guy, i swim for my college and a club team over the summer. I listen to alternative rock just as much as i do hip-hop. Im finding myself wearing shirts that fit me more often than tall tees, which use to be my thing. However, i do sagg my pants and say slang words and wat not but wat teen doesnt? Andre 3000 says in a song “Throw some D’s”-the remix, “Aint a hood nigga but a nigga from da hood.” This is one of my favorite quote because that describes who i am. Im from the hood by im no hood nigga. My mom fusses at me all the time for not dating enough black girls but, u may or may not know this David, alot of black girls my age are hood-rats (translation-ghetto girls). And thats not who i am. Its hard to find a black girl like me and if so she prolly already has a boy friend.

]]> By: Marina http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/how-to-never-bar-crawl/1584/#comment-27025 Marina Fri, 01 May 2009 20:39:02 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1584#comment-27025 I got a story to tell about spin bikes and it does involve me making an ass out of myself, as if that have never happen to me before. Since I was 7 I have been biking the streets of Copenhagen, so when I was asked by my stepson and his friend to join them in a Spin class, I said sure no problem. We get there and it’s all full of to the brim, all of them looking like seasoned spinners. Granted I used to be in tip top shape, not so much anymore, but hey this should be easy for a biker. With a healthy does of I can do this attitude-read like “a know it all” and not paying attention to the teacher-I start biking. I am “showing” off to the younger ones..no way are they going to say I could not keep up..Kinda competitive at heart. Now, So I am taking a break as you do when you are on a regular bike standing up on the pedals with stretched legs, my favorite as a kid going down the hill...Ouch...bad idea if I had paid attention to the teacher I would have picked on the little...the peddles never stop they keep on going around unlike a bike...Yep with in a split of a second I flew of the bike..no style points, but a lot of clumsy points and scraped legs. Laying on the ground with a bunch of faces that read, see that fat chick interfering with our class and having two teen hysterical laughing their ass off. Yes this was my first attempt into spin biking, and my last not for reasons of being a klutz, but it’s might just be one of the most boring exercise classes I have ever had. Lesson learned, If I had only been Observant and In the Moment I would have saved my honor...Nah, I don’t care besides, it was a wonderful laugh and the teens spared no chances retelling the story. I got a story to tell about spin bikes and it does involve me making an ass out of myself, as if that have never happen to me before. Since I was 7 I have been biking the streets of Copenhagen, so when I was asked by my stepson and his friend to join them in a Spin class, I said sure no problem. We get there and it’s all full of to the brim, all of them looking like seasoned spinners. Granted I used to be in tip top shape, not so much anymore, but hey this should be easy for a biker. With a healthy does of I can do this attitude-read like “a know it all” and not paying attention to the teacher-I start biking. I am “showing” off to the younger ones..no way are they going to say I could not keep up..Kinda competitive at heart. Now, So I am taking a break as you do when you are on a regular bike standing up on the pedals with stretched legs, my favorite as a kid going down the hill…Ouch…bad idea if I had paid attention to the teacher I would have picked on the little…the peddles never stop they keep on going around unlike a bike…Yep with in a split of a second I flew of the bike..no style points, but a lot of clumsy points and scraped legs. Laying on the ground with a bunch of faces that read, see that fat chick interfering with our class and having two teen hysterical laughing their ass off. Yes this was my first attempt into spin biking, and my last not for reasons of being a klutz, but it’s might just be one of the most boring exercise classes I have ever had.

Lesson learned, If I had only been Observant and In the Moment I would have saved my honor…Nah, I don’t care besides, it was a wonderful laugh and the teens spared no chances retelling the story.

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