You know, I get asked this question all the time from women: “David, what is the one thing I can do to make a guy want me more on a date but won’t make me seem overly desperate?” The answer to that question is definitely yes. I also know that there are a lot of guys who are going to thank me for writing this blog.
One of the absolute best things you can do to make a guy want you more on a date, is at the end of the date to lean in toward him letting your lips touch his ear as you whisper “I had a great time tonight.” Then you walk away.
Let his eyes follow you as you leave. He will follow the shape of your body as you walk away, and you will leave him wanting more.
You didn’t kiss him on the lips. You didn’t kiss him on the cheek. You didn’t give him a hug or a handshake. You didn’t do anything except whisper in his ear.
Do you know why this works? It works because it clearly and unambiguously communicates exactly what you want to him, i.e., that you are interested in him (and in him wanting you) but in a way that doesn’t seem at all desperate.
Think about the alternatives. None of them achieve both these objectives. If you kiss him on the cheek, then he will immediately think you are putting him in the friend zone. If you kiss him just on the lips (and don’t involve at least a little bit of tongue), then is going to be wondering if you might just be friendly.
If you whisper in his ear, however, he will get so turned on that from that moment forward he will be just like a puppy dog coming after you. What happens when someone whispers in your ear – even if it’s to say “I’ll be right back” or “It’s so great to see you” or whatever it may be – it immediately makes you remember some great sex you had with someone who whispered certain things in your ear.
So this is one little trick you can use to not only fill a guy with desire for you, but which will get that guy to call you right away. Doing this will not in any way make a guy think you are going to sleep with him right at that moment. The only thing you will lead a guy to think when you do this is that you are one cool woman.
Are you wondering how I know this? I know this because every time a woman has ever done it to me, I couldn’t get my head out of the clouds for hours.
Great blog, David!
Every time I hear the words “I will be back” I think about the movie Terminator. Now I know it can have another meaning!
Well I know that I certainly have this reaction when a guy whispers in my ear. Because I think it is such a “sexually” related gesture, though, I wonder about if a guy would perceive this is as being even more sexual than a kiss …
Nice tip-I’ll definitely try it next time I’m out-in fact I have a first date on Friday night….
David,
I can see how this would really work. I know that it’s gestures like this that a guy will do on a date – or at the end of a date – that will have me thinking about him (and fantasizing about him) nonstop until I can see him again.
Like recently I went out with this guy on a date. During the date he kept really looking in my eyes and would occasionally make a seemingly casual and meaningless gesture — like brushing my hair off my face or putting his hand on my arm when he was leaning in to talk to me — and I was so turned on by him all night. Then at the end of the date he took my hand and whispered in my ear “I can’t wait to see you again.”
At that point I was sure he was going to kiss me, but he didn’t … he just looked in my eyes, smiled and walked away! I was stunned. But I can tell you that I can’t remember being so turned on, and by the next date I could hardly keep myself from jumping on him!
So I give two thumbs up to this technique!
This actually works both ways, which is great.
Susan, have fun on your date coming up.
Kristen, if done the right way, it could be highly sexual. There’s something that can be said about someone that’s able to turn you on doing other things than kissing.
Jane, there’s nothing better than being able establish those other kinds of connections and just knowing that when the kiss happens…it’s so natural, it feels like we’ve kissed already because we’ve already done things so much more…
I hope that makes sense.
love the imagery of this blog. pay attention to how it makes you feel. Spread that on a date and it will be golden.
these blogs are getting sexier all the time, David.
Erika
I am in place in my life where everything is sexier……so i am sharing all of y energy with you guys.
this thing is just evil!!
ladies don’t do this, it will drive me up the wall!
Better to be driven up the wall by something sexy than than left in the dust with nary a whisper…
David,
You can’t give this secret away like this! Now everyone in the damn world will know about this and you and I won’t get to be so special anymore
Oh well, time to try something new ^^
Hello David,
Would this just work after a date? Or can you do it during any time of the day? For instance, a person that works at the mall that happens to be my first kiss. We had gone out sunday night after my work and his and we ended up kissing because he wanted to be my first kiss. but now it seems like he doesn’t care for me? Nor hasn’t texted. Please hellpp. I really like this guy. And I’ve never been in a relationship.
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