Imagine being able to turn a woman on so much that the very next day, all you need to do is text her these few words: “I can still taste your skin.” Also imagine that when you text her those words that she will text you these words back: “I am so fuckin’ wet right now. When can we do that again?”
Isn’t it time you learned how to turn on a woman so much that she’ll be begging you for sex instead of you begging her?
Isn’t it time to experience the kind of life where a woman after sex with you will say that she has never felt more amazing or more connected to someone in her whole life?
Don’t you want the power to become the world’s best lover for every woman you’re with and to be able to fully understand the sensuality and eroticism of women?
Women are very sensual, erotic creatures. Everything about them is slow, sensual foreplay – from the conversations to the soft, deep kisses.
When men masturbate, they want to get off. Unfortunately, most men bring those skills into the bedroom when they’re with a woman . . . and most women leave totally unfulfilled. In my ten years of coaching women, their number one complaint is that men have no clue how to bring out the naughty, erotic and sensual beings that women are.
There are many ways to turn a woman on, but in today’s blog I am going to share with you one of my favorites. This one will have her BEGGING you to come back the very next night.
Take control. When she’s in the bedroom, light the candles. Slowly undress her until she’s naked. Look her up and down showing her you are admiring her body. Always look back at her eyes after you look at her body so you can connect with her soul. This will connect you with her on a very deep level.
Then you push her very slowly to lie down on the bed. Take one of her feet and start kissing it, including sucking a little bit on her toes, and including kissing both the inside and outside of the foot.
Next start kissing up the inside of her leg from her ankle up to the inside of her calf, slowly tasting the skin. Alternate between little tastes of your tongue and little kisses of your lips. When you get to the back of her knee, kiss there with the flick of your tongue (as this is a very sensitive part of a woman’s body).
Now make your way to her thigh, kissing there softly. Work your way toward her butt, and slowly kiss her there making your way to her lower back where it’s very sensitive. Continue working your way up her back, kissing every inch.
As you get close to her neck, gently pull her hair back away from her neck and push it aside. Start kissing her neck, eventually working your way to her ear. As you are kissing her ear, press your body against hers.
Now whisper in her ear “I’ve just started with you.” Breathe in her ear. Let a little moan go in her ear. This will get her extremely hot. Feeling the pressure of your body against hers as you’re doing this will turn her on even more.
Work your way down her body and repeat the same thing on the other side. Every time you circle around her body, don’t forget to give her a deep kiss so that she feels your passion. Then slowly flip her over and do the same thing on the other side beginning with working your way up both legs.
Don’t even think about licking her pussy yet. Start kissing the whole front of her body from head to toe. Kiss her stomach. Kiss her breasts. Kiss her inner thighs.
While you’re working your way up, tell her to look in your eyes. Kiss her lips so you can feel her heat. The key to this whole part is to take your time.
When you kiss her body you want to taste every inch of it. When you kiss her breasts, slowly taste with your mouth all the way around her breasts, alternating using your tongue and your mouth as you kiss them very lightly.
When you kiss her nipples, remember that some women like them nibbled on gently, some women like them kissed, while other women like them licked. Find out how she likes her nipples sucked, kissed and licked . . . this is also part of the adventure.
Remember when you’re kissing her thighs to make sure you move up and down each leg very slowly with your mouth and tongue. Use soft little kisses and soft little tastes with your tongue. Do not slobber on her like she’s a baby-back rib.
By now after you have kissed every inch of her body – front and back – she is going to be dripping wet with anticipation. Now it’s time to hit pay dirt. Kiss her inner thighs on both sides after you’ve worked your way up both legs.
Work your way around her vagina lips by kissing them ever so slowly. Take your tongue and work it around the outside of her vagina lips on the outside, slowly circling around the entire outside of her vagina.
Now take your tongue and SLOWLY circle it on the inside of her vagina lips. Every time you circle past her clit, she will let out a sigh or a moan. Now instead of just going next to her clit and working it, kiss her whole body again from head to toe.
Make one last trip around the front of her body, and don’t forget to kiss her passionately and deeply. When you deeply kiss her, make sure to put your entire body on her body. At this point she’s going to want to have sex with you, but you’re not finished with her yet.
Grind up against her. Let her feel how turned on you are. Kiss her deeply. When you’re done kissing her, look into her eyes and smile. Then take your tongue and flick it down the front of her body until you reach her clit.
Start licking her clit ever so gently using circular side to side motions. Now start kissing her entire vagina with your lips. Alternate kissing her vagina and licking her clitoris. Take your time. The longer you take, the bigger she’s going to erupt.
Now tell her to take her hands and spread her lips apart for you. Now take your tongue and start licking her whole vagina again then go right to her clit. Alternate side to side and up and down, until you find the pressure that she likes.
Now take one finger and slip it inside her as you’re licking her. Curl it up about an inch and a half inside her and find her g-spot. Start rubbing her g-spot ever so gently while you’re licking her. Her g-spot should feel very spongy. Once you find her g-spot, increase the pressure on her g-spot and increase the pressure with your tongue.
You now have a woman who is going to explode with ecstasy. The longer you take with a woman, the better the sex is going to be.
If you desire to have ALL women thinking about you night after night, then I suggest you download this blog to your phone and keep it in your hip pocket. You’ll never know when you need to whip it out.
Check out today’s video on how to create sexual tension online.
The most powerful thing I ever learned, most powerful thing I’ve ever embraced, was when my mother’s friends sat me down when I was 18 and taught me how women want to be begged for sex.
I’ll never forget that day.
So, what I did was interviewed women and I literally asked every one of them how they want men to beg them have sex with them.
But, more importantly, these women confess in dirty, naughty details how they will actually beg a man for sex—and it’s nothing like what you think:
Great post!! Honestly, foreplay is the best part of sex. It’s flirting and sex at the same time!! It’s really nice when girls do the same too.
Hey David,
I am wondering if there are any men other than you who do this?
Or, if not, can start a mass emailing campaign to every man with a link to this blog?!??
call me garcia at +919510566936
Gracie
Yes please do email this one to all the men
When you truely enjoy women or a woman, doesn’t this come naturally?
dylan yes it does and i really enjoy women that is why writing this was so easy:)
Hmmm … Dylan, maybe you and David are the only ones
David, I’m with Gracie …. Where ARE these men??? And let’s spread this word to the male masses!!
David — Just when I thought you couldn’t get me any hotter, you come out with this blog . . . and I came immediately
I think I will need some significant alone time today so I can reread this blog another five or six times in the company of my favorite vibrator …
I will be picturing this over and over again … and wishing I could find you and offer to show you how much I loved it …
David you are smokin’ hot … and after reading this, I’ll bet that once you’re with a woman, you can’t get rid of her!!!
Wow David … I made the “mistake” of reading this at work, and now everyone is asking me if I feel alright because I’m completely flushed! This is an amazing blog – and I’m making it my mission to find a man who has read it!!
David – This blog is unbelievable, and it gave me chills!
All I can say after reading this is that if I found a man who would do what you describe in this blog . . . I would take every opportunity to return the favor and show him just how much I appreciate it!!!!!
I have just one thing to say in response to this blog (since I need to catch my breath
) … AMEN!!!!!
David, as usual you show men EXACTLY why they should listen to you … No one could read this blog and have any doubt that you know women (and how to make them hot & sweaty)!!
Oh, oh, O!
Yes Gracie there are more than two of them out there that know what to do. The challenge is finding them….
You were so right David. I think I’m going to have to go take my 15-minute afternoon break and get me som chocolate after that. I seriously had a silent mental orgasm while I was reading that. If only you were a Christian man living in SD. We’d be a perfect love match! Hot, hottie, hot, hot.
…”Women are very sensual, erotic creatures. Everything about them is slow, sensual foreplay – from the conversations to the soft, deep kisses..”
Mmmmmmm yes we are…or we, me myself and I are..lol Damn skippy baby. If its not slow the ya gonna have to go!
Gracie;
“…I am wondering if there are any men other than you who do this?”..
Ummm well yes there is one that I know who does, and if he could write, he could have written this blog. If you stop by to read today…”Thank you baby.”
This is a very sensual sexual stimulating blog….Good job DAVID!
This is the way to ,yes make love to a woman and definetely come back for more.
Ladies, when we are with a man, there is the same power in your lips and tongue to make him think of what his manhood loked like when you were softly and so passionately pleasing him orally. I think he will want more as well. What better than 2 people with one mind.
I believe if you give a man the BJ that will blow his mind, he is definitely going to want to come back for seconds thirds fourths and fifths…..lol I am dead serious. You have made love to the mans manhood with your mouth your toungue…Do it with a passion and a fervent heat DESIRE to please
I can get so lost in the moment I forget it is actually attached to someone…lol. Honestly, it is me, cock i’ll doodle do and a lot of moaning and groaning..from his as well, but I now have smoldery eyes and cannot finish here. There is enough of a visual…
Bertie … Any suggestions on how to conduct this search??
David, I must admit, that was just stellar. Unfortunately, I, too am at work, though I’m by myself at the moment. Whew. It’s the sense of complete and total appreciation that rocks, and the sense of being gentle, but not because you assume a woman is fragile; it’s a respect thing. When a woman knows that you respect her, you both win.
David – This is awesome!!!
I’m DYING to send this along to my boyfriend … but I’m worried I’ll offend him by implying he could, er, um … improve
Any suggestions how to pass this blog along to our men????
David:
Thankx for the blog coach. I dont wanna disappoint u but today i havent learnt anything new. I can comfortably refer to this as the minimum (basic) acceptable code of turning on a woman. Come on, release the advanced version.
Bertie:
>>The challenge is finding them….>>
I do agree. The good ones may already be attached but that mediocre guy can probably become a pro if he joins us here. How do rednecks fair?
Gracie:
>>I am wondering if there are any men other than you who do this?>>
oh darling Gracie, there are so many, just keep looking.
Lou bega;
lol You are so funny
You go with your bad self!
Do you really think a lot of men do this? I am not a woman of the fast lane so I would not really know from experience…just by word of mouth…welll errrr yea that sounder really “punny!” LOL
At the risk of sounding pessimistic, I find it hard to believe that very many men would go to this much trouble. Maybe a few would try this hard on a special occassion. I don’t have a history of relationships with selfish jerks, but they never did anything like what David describes.
Joan:
>>Ummm well yes there is one that I know who does>>
I am happy for u Joan. From yo various posts, i envision a down to earth, honest, humorous, loving & caring lady loaded with tonnes of passion ready to Orga.. & clim..with the right dude.
Steven Kauffman:
Anybody heard from Steven K? I miss his posts.
Theresa;
Like I said in my previous post, I am not a woman who has had the knowing of a variety of men, but I am inclined to agree with you.
I just feel very lucky that I have met one who is caring, and gentle slow and appreciate. Believe me…I reciprocate!!!
I believe the ratio to ratio stats would show…less men take the time to go slow to please a woman. If they only knew…or care what they rob themselves of.
I think if we look at the woman as well, the women that are passionate about pleasing their man as far as orally…I believe…from hearing my friends negativity…are few and far between.
I am proud to be in that low percentage…
To me, there is no feeling like the one I get when the moans and groans are more than he…and i can take. The passion explodes and it is a wonderful thing. Ok Smoldering eyes…back to work with me! sighhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
Theresa – I have to agree with you. As David said, most men bring the Get Off tactics in and leave it at that. I’m not sure why it’s so hard, really, since there will always be the other side of the coin: send her to that kind of heaven like that and surely, she’ll repay the favor with the same genre of attention and care. Joan mentioned that above, I think.
Joan – Yes, back to work. It’s so unfair to be reading all of this and then have to go back to paying attention and sitting still…
Lou bega;
Awee well thank you for the compliments. I know you are sincere in that and I appreciate your kind words.
Yes, you pretty much described me to the T. I am glad you see me for who I am here.
Sometimes I will be in one of those moods where life is one big funny joke, and I get ditzy with my posts. You have all witnessed it be it good bad ugly or indifferent.
I will go away thinking, “People must think_____.” I will laugh and say “Oh well I am just being me…that is all I know to be
OK Me needs to get back to work.
David;
GREAT blog today with interesting feeback, but man does it distract me from my work…LOL
Do I get compensated for time lost on the job??? LOLLLL
Wait, Joan’s getting compensated?! Where’s mine!
Coby;
“..Joan – Yes, back to work. It’s so unfair to be reading all of this and then have to go back to paying attention and sitting still…”
LOL Thats what I am saying. This does make my eyes where I have trouble seeing, and my body is very ummm figety. I am hot as hell and I will leave the rest alone…
Sighhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh Back to work…lol again
Coby;
I am only asking for pain and suffering! LOL LMBO
Joan – Fidgety?? Beyond! hahah Yes, I think we should compensated for all the pain and suffering do. And the work we don’t get done.
Great blog, today!
DW,
Only our Joan can compete with you! This article is Joan’s style article!
Joan,
Did you write it? Hmmmm….
David: I am so F*cking hot for you right now. You clearly know all the right things to do & say. If more guys knew what they were doing (or cared to learn) women would be puddy in their hands. Get ready for a hot, passionate night. I’ll be over soon!!!!!
call me at +919510566936
Lou bega;
I was thinking that the other day. Where has Steven k been?? It has been a little while, ansd yes I miss his posts as well.
Coby;
Well, i was putting it mildly when I said fidgety, but that definiyely is part of the suffering….and pain I would say! Where is the jockular judge…lets ask him! LOL
Jessica;
Well, there is the missing J!
You are funny…no I didn’t write this…and I am glad! LOL
It is one feverishly hot blog, but for a man to write it makes it a bit more spicy…for the women anyway, as opposed to a woman writing it.
D
You should have started where and how the clothes come off.
You shouldn’t be so impatient…
J
I am so patient…….this whole scenario takes over an hour.
J;
Dangggg! (As Joe dirt would say.lol) Another missing J!
Ummm yes the clothes coming off slowly with a sensual touch is a hugeeeeeeeeee turn on!
I have always heard that when a woman wears lingerie during a love making session, it makes her feel sexier…which yes for a while…then if he hasn’t ripped it off she does…LOL
A woman undressing a man??? Now I have my ways on that one and i will just say by the time he is unleashed, you can see where his jeans were wearing thin ready to explode….From his shirt may be buttons flown all around the room, or button by button is undone with the trace of a kiss on the chest as it is exposed……
A pull over shirt can be just as funtastic 
Sighhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
Ladies am I right in that once you get his shirt unbuttoned, run just your featherlight touches down his chest sides aand inside the shirt around his back as you kiss him passionately yet slow and soft.
Maybe I should have said GUYS would this be a turn on or waste of time??
It sure the heck turns me on to do it!
Jessica
This is all me and many more!!
Naughty
Cant wait to see you:)
Can you give me a sneak preview
Lou
Glad to see that you knew all of this before you are one of the few men who does.
Look at what all the ladies have written on this blog…they need more men like you and i
David;
…”I am so patient…….this whole scenario takes over an hour.”
True, if not longer. From my experience it is me who grows so impatient..not really impatient as much as a whimpering woman wanting to feel her lovers body already!
This will have a woman whispering, “Babyyyyy come hereeee kissss meeeeeeeeee.” Only to whimper some more because the “I have just begun with you” has not been completed…sighhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
seems to me david, that the ladies, should open there fucking eyes, plenty of men, like lou, you and I. out there… if they just get rid of there laundry lists, and are a little more open to conversation, wouldn’t be that hard to find one… as you all know from my past article i’m all about foreplay and oral…sometime sex it’s self can be boring.
cheers,
Joe
joe
well said!!!
its all about people being open to conversation!!
joan
always a mouthful out of you:)
bertie
love the challenge!!! do you think lou is going to take you up on it
Gracie,
The most effective way I know of is to be still for a few, I mean truly still, and think about how he treats you in general.
Lou,
I wouldn’t know. The last man I dated, an unfortunate needy woman magnet, was as far from a redneck as you could possibly get. A very attentive man, but unfortunately not real relationship material because there are far too many needy women in his life. I don’t really fit in because he has no need to fix things in my life. I’ve either fixed them, or I’m making due until I can. I’ve dated since then, but not anyone who is worth spending the night with.
Joan,
“I think if we look at the woman as well, the women that are passionate about pleasing their man as far as orally…I believe…from hearing my friends negativity…are few and far between.”
You’re kidding right? The friends I have that I talk about this sort of thing with, well we exchange secrets….but then again, we’re a special bunch….
David:
…”always a mouthful out of you:)”… LOL
Are you talkin bout the big’ns?? lol
When I think of a “mouthful,” the first thing that cums to my mind is, “mmmhmmm–good to the last drop!”
Smolder eyes ….bye bye LOL
LOL! David,
No he won’t. I’m too far away from civilization. It makes men chicken. Only a few have dared…
bertie
i say he backs down
joan
more than a mouthful is a waste:) and more than a handful can be a waste:)
glad that i have big hands…..
David,
That is a sucker’s bet, and although I’ve heard sucker used in reference to me, its never been used as a term for fool….
I’m certain he’ll back down……:(
Bertie;
No, I am not kidding! I have 3 friends who are so inti oral I tell them…well I tell them..LOL
These are the women I tried desperately to get a boot camp together way back when, in hopes they would quit choosing sorry asses.
One of them has a steady now and she is “orally” speaking to him and enjoys it, but the other 2 are almost lost causes.
Joe;
LOL MY eyes ARE open! It is not your eyes that need to be open for this particular activity! LMBO You gotta get “DOWN” a little lower than eye level to see what you’re doin here. lol
OK David…I will TRY,,,TRY,,, To be me quiet now. Shhhhhhhh
Bertie
Sucker….you know i can go somewhere with that one
joan
i never want you to keep quiet…never
inti?? That is supposed to say ANTI…anti oral
The i became an A and thats all I.O.U. as far as an explanation…Eeeeeeeeeeee lollllllllllll
David;
Okayyy. Your command is my wish…
Its lack of silence you like here…I will make some noise. 
lol
David,
As it was intended…..
Lets see if Lou can run with it now
Joan,
Your two other friends, well that is just sad….
Yes, I’m waiting for the next volley…..
Bertie,
>>>No he won’t. I’m too far away from civilization. It makes men chicken. Only a few have dared…>>
David,
>>Lets see if Lou can run with it now>>>
Reminds me about college days when we used to bet. I love challenges alot esp those which involve adrenaline rush. Consider yoself challenged Bertie. Am all ears. How handsome is the sucker´s bet?
Sneap preview: I am going to come over looking hot: boots, jeans, sexy tight sweater. Underneath I have on a new pink silk & black lace bra & thong. I will seduce you with my eyes, scent, smile & touch. I will tease you til you can’t take it anymore & then I will beg you to do everything you wrote about to me.
Lou
I knew you would not back down!!!!!
Naughty………..I like when you look all hot….you know i cant resist you:) But you know i can and will tease you!!!
Bertie
Lou is game your move!!! I cant wait to see what your next move is.
Lou,
No one’s ever called me handsome. How do you want your rush Lou? I’m sure I can deliver…….
Bertie;
Yes they are sad cases for sure. I am not saying you have to orally please a man to get him, but I think you might wanna learn if you want to KEEP him coming back. I may be wrong…but I think being orally pleased is a mans all time favorite thing to have done to him.
Soooooo, ladies learn to passionately just a s you make love, make love..head to head…
It is, to me, the biggest..hmmmm yea THE biggest turn on ever, and I tell them that.
They are very selfish, both of them. We don’t hang out hardly at all now. I get so frustrated when I do go with them I just want to scream.
Well Joan, I’d say that kind of depends on the man. Some are very sensitive….
On the GF front…..yeah I know those kind of people, but I try to stay away from them as much as is humanly possible. They just tend to bring you down.
I’m so excited! Tease away babe. I think I’ve finally found my match!
Bertie,
>>>How do you want your rush Lou? >>
The minimum requirement is that the rush shd be high enough to surpas the activation energy necessary to set me into motion. Patiently waiting for the delivery.
Naughty
Yes you did meet your match!!!! Do you really think you can handle a weeks worth of passion?
I’m here with the satin red trench coat and the stout, and you’ll end up with a rush like no other….I’ll deliver far beyond your sexpectations…
but I have to ask are you sure you can reciprocate?
Bertie,
>>>are you sure you can reciprocate?>>
Beyond yo wildest imaginations. U gotta be mentally & physically ready!
Bring it on over here and prove it Lou!
Bertie,
>>>I’ll deliver far beyond your sexpectations…>>>
Actions speak louder than words.
Lou,
I agree, so when are you going to act?
Bertie,
>>>so when are you going to act?<<
As soon as feasible. The idea of a sextensive care nurse is very exciting. Have a look at this.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tC9P843UzVo
Its get fun back here as always!!!!
lorim;
Hello, I am not a good looking guy…I am only good looking..LOL
Welcome to the wacky world of the Wygant community. Stick around…people come in and out, some I know for a fact read and never talk so you never know what you will find here.
well said!!!
its all about people being open to conversation!!thanks david but,
that my problem david! finding women open enough for a conversation,
i do all the things i’m suppose, good posture, eye contact, smile, but still i’ts like trying to pulling fucking teethto have a conversation with these women, cold bostonians i guess? i dont know, i dont think it’s me, i think it’s the women around here, there not very open.
cheers,
Joe
joe
tell me more about how you engage the women in conversation…..i need to know more details
let me help you out
Lou bega;
No you didn’t… I mean.. no she didn’t… i mean helllllloooooooo!!!!!
You tube never ceases to amaze and ??? me
Are you the “BigChocolateMan9000?” If not somebody took your sextensive nurse care! LOL
Lou,
Oh, you didn’t go down that naughty nurse road did you?
Sorry but I look like this at work….
myspace.com/offroadrn
Bertie,
>>you didn’t go down that naughty nurse road>>
Not yet but i am totally open to the idea. While looking at the video, i visualized u.
Joan,
It wasnt me!
Lou bega;
THATS WHAT THEY ALL SAY! LOL
Joan,
Lmdo, lol..Whaaat? Pliz believe me, i have told u nothing but the whole truth.
do you mind if i email you it david….
cheers,
Joe
fuck the email… well david i mostly do indirect approaches,observation etc. starting the converstaion is easy to me, it’s just engauging them pass the smart talk, i ask questions, keep eye contact,smile, i’m interested, i dont talk about myself that much…i’m modest… just weird…women around here…. probably me…. i’m must be doing something wrong.
cheers,
Joe
hello how are you doing tonight.iiam single.iam looking for a goodlookingguy to treat me good.
hi from the land of Mickey where I am at for a conference…Hard to keep up with all the posts while traveling.
I just wanted to say that I really enjoyed this blog, I learned a lot. I do this and I like doing it….I used to do this for hours and I loved it (as well as my wife did) before kids came along:-)
Still looking for a nice and hot unicorn…not that hard though:-)
I am also worried for Steve K….he probably wore his yankees jacket in a fundraiser in Boston and got beat up pretty bad:-)
Nice to see everyone here again.
Bertie,
>>>Bring it on over here and prove it Lou!>>
I will be in L.A over the Easter period. I am taking up the challenge head-on.
Joe,
First, I know some guys with SERIOUS game who live in Boston. These are natural guys, not routine using PUAs, and I can tell you from my conversations with them, Boston is tough. So it is not just you.
As far as engaging them, it is difficult to diagnose what is going on without seeing you. You mention questions. Is that all you do, meaning the interaction looks like this:
Joe: ?
Her: response
Joe: ?
Her: response
et al.
If so, that is boring. I have a bad habit of doing it myself. A couple things that help on the verbal side are:
A. Threading. This relates to David’s he talk/she talk thing. Have you ever listened to two girls vibe? They don’t talk like guys, on the actual topic, but on the idea of what is being talked about. Guys do this:
Guy 1: I can’t wait til spring training starts.
Guy 2: Yeah man, the Sox are going all the way this year.
Guy 1: Absolutely. At least one of our teams will win a championship this year.
See, this is all very topic focused. It gets boring pretty quick. Girls need to have their emotions affected. To do that put yourself in the conversation and thread, using key words to just vibe with the girl.
Joe: I can’t wait til spring training starts.
Girl: OMG, I love the Red Sox
Joe: Me too (now think about the emotions you associate with baseball) I love going to the stadium and warm summer nights relaxing at the park with friends.
Hopefully the girl tells a story here.
Other verbal things are asking good, not boring open ended questions. Using stories about people you know in the interaction to let he know you are a real person with friends and a family you care about, not some random, lonely guy who just came to hit on her, Rewarding her for her compliance,when she tells you a good story by expressing yourself genuinely, but not over the top that you like what she told you. Speaking about your own perspective (yes talk about yourself, just don’t brag or tell her everything, be a little intriguing). Listen to her. The list could go on and on.
On the non verbal side as you mentioned, good body language is crucial. Conveying leadership and confidence too. Be the high value guy that has too much cool stuff going on in his life to be spending alot of time out meeting women, but occasionally one seems cool enough for you to stop and see what she is like.
Hopefully this helped a little. Maybe others can chime in and offer some tips.
PS I forgot the MOST important thing. Be fun. Playful. Tease her a bit, but in a fun cooperative sort of way. Nothing will make approaching more challenging, than being seen as too serious.
The video you posted here looks really nicely done. The logo at the beginning makes it look super professional, and I like the text on the screen as you say stuff. Cheers
Simon that is a great thread and some good advice for Joe!! I always say to the guys you need to be that romantic comedy and create that emotion that she can walk away with!!
Most guys need to understand how women are wired and watching women talk to each other will really help a man understand that!!
Joe go out Friday night sit at a quiet cafe where women are and just listen to them talk bring a magazine and pretend to read it and just listen and watch!
You will learn a lot
DAVID;
Nice little piece in “Cosmo” I just read..
Lou bega;
lmdo?? I can only think of one body part that starts with a “d.”
Maybe thats my gutter brain, so what is Lmdo? I believe you have tolf the truth.
That nasty naughty nurse video scared me…lol
Dan,
>>>Still looking for a nice and hot unicorn
david, simon, thankyou much for the advice, but to be honest i dont ask, boring question., i ask playful question… example….
i was at a bookstore here in boston, saw this woman, iwas attracted too. she had a bunch of books in here hands. i mean an arm full.
i was opposite to her at one of the book tables. she looked up at me, i smiled look into her eyes and playfully said… ” someones going to be doing alot of reading tonight” her response “ya” and she walked away.
no biggy. but damn…. fucking rude.
as for he talk/she talk.. i’m a she talker anyways, i grew up with women as friends so it rubbed off on me… so i have an advantage there.
i even sometime get mistaken that i’m gay, ( my love of theatre doesnt help that) because i’m so emotional. lol crazy people. i dont know i guess really need to see me in sction to get a good idea of what i’m doing right and wrong…
cheers,
JOe
Lou,
You do realize that California is a very big state right? I’m all the way up at the top!
Lou bega;
LOL Dandruff??? You are laughing your dandruff off??? Well I am lmbo..LOL You are funny. Oh may I recommend Head and Shoulders for that d..lol
Bertie,
>>You do realize that California is a very big state right?>>
Oh yes, i do. By the time i am in L.A, i wd have travelled more than 6000 miles, an extra 700 miles or so wont fatigue me beyond the elastic limit.
Joan,
Thks for the compliment. If u can laugh your b off, then its fair enough for me to laugh my d off (Lmdo).
It won’t fatigue you, but I’m pretty sure its going to fatigue your wallet to get from LA to here.
Bertie,
>>>I`m pretty sure its going to fatigue your wallet to get from LA to here.<<<<
Yaaa, for sure i expect that but i have adequate safety nets in place to neutralize the financial fatigue.
Lou,
I’ll pick you up at the airport…..
impressive stuff david truthful free info for people shows its not bull honkey.good job keet it up.
Bertie,
>>>I
Scuse me? You mean how is it like a jeep? Or what is a jeep like mechanically? Or do you mean what is the ride like? The ride around here is always bumpy….I’ve a hankering for finding some mud…I think I’ll do that tomorrow.
>>>You mean how is it like a jeep? Or what is a jeep like mechanically? Or do you mean what is the ride like?>>>
Waaw, i am impressed with yo level of imagination & inquisitiveness. I kinda of deliberately framed the question vaguely for an intrinsic purpose. U have exceeded my expectations.
Bumpy ride..Sounds quite interesting on a weekend
Thank you. As of now there are only three models of jeep being made unless you count the knock off wagons like the one my daughter drives, but its still a jeep. The typical two door model has the Sport model, the Sahara model, and the Rubicon model. My jeep has a few after market products, but essentially is the same as it was off the lot nine years ago. I was at the dealer and they were trying to interest me in a car….Puhleez…not in a million years.
>>>I was at the dealer and they were trying to interest me in a car…>>>>
I wd do the same passionately. So is it like u either have a Jeep or u get a Jeep, no more no less?
>> knock off wagons like the one my daughter drives>>
Just wondering what Veronica wd say if she saw this statement..She wd be like, Maaam, u know i love this wagon very much.
Its still a jeep, but yet its still a wagon. I wouldn’t trade mine in for even a new Rubicon. I love mine…..It’s the vehicle I’ve always wanted.
>>>I wouldn’t trade mine in for even a new Rubicon.<<<
What wd u trade it for?
This blog makes me want to have sex.
Congratulations David, you’ve managed to turn me on.
Tonight I’m going to hit the video store, the supermarket in hope I can find someone to eventually do this with.
Fantastic stuff, really.
I wouldn’t trade it for anything Lou, I love that jeep.
>>I wouldn’t trade it for anything >>> Sentimental value must be very high.
R u absolutely sure about this? Not even for yo life?
Joel,
Wish u the best. R u gona pick up someone just to…What happened to chemistry & deeper connection virtues?
Joel,
This blog turns me on as well. And this is why I keep coming back every day! It is too bad we all live in different parts of the world!
So glad I was able to turn everyone on!! Its Friday night so let’s all find someone fun to share this energy with!
I am in Memphis this weekend at a live auction right now but that is a whole different story another day!
Lou :
Thanks
and I promise that I won’t forget about chemistry and deeper connections. After all, thats what really makes the sex great anyway right?
Daisy :
Yes it is
Lol Lou so when would someone threaten my life in order to procure my jeep.
Ah, David, I’m home with the boys….trying to help one through American history which is a fair trade for his homemade pizza.
Joel,
Wish u all the best..
Bertie,
Very possible, get out of the jeep & hand over the keys or else……
Homemade pizza, mmmmnn, sounds axiologically tempting.
Not a fair trade for a lesson of American history from a scientifically-oriented Roberta.
Thanks, David,
Yes, it is indeed Friday night and I am at home alone looking at computer screen!
What a life!!!
i think there are more guys who take the long, slow, sensual approach than women realize. They’re often the nice guys who are thoughtful and happy to do little things to please a woman. It may be easy to overlook them or dismiss them as “too nice.” So for the women who bemoan the scarcity of sensual lovers, be careful not to miss the ones who may right under your nose, so to speak.
BobM,
>>>i think there are more guys who take the long, slow, sensual approach than women realize>>>
I always agree with yo comments BobM and this one is spot on..Personally i find such an approach more exciting..Instead of say meeting someone on friday nite, we have a date that same day, then another one on sunday and she is between the sheets on wednesday..Not my style at all..
Well I have to say it is very refreshing to see there are men on thi sblog who I believe are sincere in that the slow approach with consideration th ewoman as a whole…very very nice guys. You make me smile.
BobM;
“It may be easy to overlook them or dismiss them as
Joan-
You’re also a pleasure to read, and I’d love to see and experience in person some of the responses you’ve described, including the whimpers and moans.
Lou,
Thats what they made OC for. Besides a jeep is hardly the kind of vehicle one would attempt a car jacking with. Its just not made for quick getaways.
On the other part, I started out as a history major….
So Bertie-
Speaking of the Jeep, how are your zerks doing?
All taken care of friend Bob, thank you!
Now during all this I had to go to the Dealers to get a knob for the heater. Piece of plastic crap that they didn’t have at the auto parts store. They had to order it too. The guy there is totally clueless where women are concerned. He was doing all this googly-eyed smiling at me so when I went back after they called to see the part was in. I said “You called and said you had a knob for me.” I was nearly pink saying that sort of thing cause my mind was in the gutter as usual, and I was smiling as though I had vaseline on my teeth…I nearly pulled the fingernail stroke when he handed me my change. He still didn’t get it. I need an in at the parts store….lol….
BobM;
“..You’re also a pleasure to read, and I’d love to see and experience in person some of the responses you’ve described, including the whimpers and moans.”
First of all, thank you. Taking into thought that you are a seasoned writer, I esteem that compliment highly.
I am flattered as well that you would be so moved by reading saga on the “groan and moan of Joan”…lol…sounds like a cheap Soap Opera doesn’t it??
I am a little on the warm side in reading that comment, if I may say…leaning more towards the boiling point, and with too much ponering of thought…the volcanic lava level. I am not made to blush easily, but you have managed to bring a warmth to my cheeks as well. 
Lou:
D stands for dandruff….LOL
who cares for unicorns…I am still in cloud nine after seeing the B52s play live last night in Orlando… I used to have a crush on Kate when I was a kid, she still looks so delicious….and they still can rock and party.
I will go on the prowl tonight…and I may just start at a barnes & noble or starbucks instead of a club…love these business trips, make me feel 22 again:-)
Joan-
I’m going to presume to speak for everyone in the Wygant Blog Community (if there are exceptions, they can register their dissent) in saying we all enjoy your comments because they express your authentic self–raw, unfiltered and unmodulated–moans, groans and all. You leave no doubt about what’s on your mind, what you feel, or where you stand, and we appreciate and maybe even envy your freedom in expressing yourself.
Bertie-
I can feel your frustration. You must be wondering if these guys have a brain or whether their synapses have burned out. But I think they’re just incredulous that a woman they didn’t know would actually indulge in sexually suggestive banter with them. I think if you got to know this parts guy a little better, you wouldn’t have to hold up a sign for him to get it.
Bob,
How am I supposed to get to know him other than him picking up the “vibe” I laid down? Unless he’s of a mind to do something a bit unethical and look up my number from the list of new parts pick ups and call me. If he doesn’t have the chonies to flirt back with me what is the probability that he’s gonna do that. He’s just gonna go home and dream…….don’t ya think?
Yeah, you’re probably right. Your Jeep will have to get old enough to start needing more parts for that plan to work. You need to try it on someone you’ll see more often. What’s your mailman like?
My mailman is a chick, who, I suspect is illiterate. Not my style either way.
BobM;
Welllllll…two blushes in one day…
I am definitely raw and unfiltered in content. Just how I like everything in my life to be…Raw and unfiltered.
Sometimes I hit the comment button while I am thinking…”Wait! Let me re-read that first.!” To late. As I try to retrieve it by hitting the red X to stop its deliverance….BAM!… there it is, in the flesh, so to speak, popping up in front of my face and I am helpless at that point.
Sometimes I really do wonder what people must think of me with some of those comments, but then I say…I am just being me…that is all I know how to be.
Bertie;
“…My mailman is a chick, who, I suspect is illiterate. Not my style either way.”
LOL Damn when are you going to start some stand up because seriously…I think you have what it takes..You sure do crack my ass up…not that my ass wasn’t already equipped with one…LOLLLLLLLLL
When did you break it?
Sorry, but my delivery is really great, but my friend Marie is the writer of some seriously funny stuff…..
We used to write Weird Al songs when we were kids…..We loved Dr Demento…
Bertie;
“…We loved Dr Demento…” lol I remember that…wasn’t it around the time Wolf Man Jack was on??
We used to get in trouble if my mom caught us listening to Dr. Dimento…she would say, “Turn that Dr. Dimented crap off, how many times do I have to tell you?!”
Well, apparently every Saturday night we are here bored off our butts…MOM! LOL
Hell NO i never talked like that to my mom…only if I felt the need for instant collagen lips via the smack of a hand.
The Back of the hand…the front really wasn’t acceptible nor did it give you quite the “puffy lips” you had bargained for when you first smarted off to begin with..LOL
Oh yeah, the dreaded backhand! My mother perfected the lefty backhand swing…she had, well still does, a lot of rings on that hand. Oh and don’t grab it in midswing cause then you’d really be asking for it.
Joan,
Shirt… Buttons… Hands?
Turn-on.
Good girl.
-wink-
I could barely believe that any man who doesn’t do these things, doesn’t because of any reason other than lack of knowledge.
I’ve never just considered the “Get Off” thing. Come on! That’s not enough!
Not just because I respect people. Much much more so because I love love LOOVE to send a girl AIRBORNE and be the one to give her these feelings.
And that’s a feeling I crave.
Without it you’re just masturbating with another body involved.
Okay, who will lend a hand? (no pun
)
I wanna make the ‘lite’ version of this blog:
I wanna do something prior to this when the sweetie in question is sitting on my lap while we’re on the couch, watching a movie at a friend’s party. I’d like to heat her up and get her verrry excited.
I know of two spots that can be very sensitive, varying per person and situation…
There is the outside edge of the pinky… you can touch it VERY liightly.
And the soft spot in the back of the neck. Japanese women actually put their hair up to reveal this. It is highly sensual.
And truly… any part of the neck, really.
Hmm… I could use more to go by
Help me out here ^^
Pete
DAVID:
“..joan
more than a mouthful is a waste:) and more than a handful can be a waste:)
glad that i have big hands…….”
Glad to see you added that last line there. As I was reading your comment what was going through my head was, “Maybe he has never been with an overly endowed in the chest woman.”
Honestly I was thinking..”To say that, he has never had the experience of having some ginormous boobs in his face.” lol Then I thought…”Naaaaaaaaa.” LOLL
Glad to see you are a waste not want not kind of guy.
Joel;
I will lend you both of my hands in applaud. Wonderful is the view you have when it comes to being a man, and how to treat a woman.
Thank you for your compliment as well referring to the shirt….You are very observant as well, which with a woman, as you know, is a score buster! Women love a man that takes note of the little things.
With all that said, honestly, touched the right way, any spot on a womans body is sensitive to the touch, and so is a mans for that matter.
The palm of the hand grazed lightly with your fingertips is a very sensitive as well as an erogeneous zone. When a man does this to a woman, she is going to feel it in many places and the hand is the least of them…I will just leave that one to the imagination, because what you imagine is more than likely where I am at with that.
The wrists, the back of the leg in the bend of the knee are very sensitive.
You know, I am sitting here trying to narrow the field to a few places to offer you for reference as far as the touch of a woman and I am finding it very difficult. My body as a whole is sensitive to the touch.
I think if you just go with the flow, be gentle and genuine in where you touch….that is what is going to really heighten the intensity of WHEREVER you touch.
I hope I was of some help there Joel. Really, it is just a matter of your attitude…which obviously is intact….and the woman you are touching.
When we were created, we were all made differently. Every woman has her own blueprint of where she likes to be touched.
Now it is your, what can be very fun mission, to decipher where.
Sweetie, my name is Pete!!
How do I make the big smiley?
But I’m eager to share with Joel, you know
Your compliments warm my heart, dear Blaze. Simply your appreciation of the way I stand in life is very meaningful to me.
Thank you for your fizzing inspiration! (no not fizzling
)
I’ll think of a way to trace this whole thing across her body, not just jumping spots but moving in a seamless wave.
What I really want to ask your opinion on now:
What shall I start with?
She’s sitting on my lap or leaning against me, one arm wrapped around her. It’s all innocent and sweet. I like a sloww build-up. I want to start with a gentle breeze. What do you say, where to start?
You rock!
And it messed up my wink.
Pete;
Hmmm I am so sorry. i am a bit bleary eyed today, so forgive me for the slip. I am not to hot when it comes to remembering names. I never forget a face i have seen once though.
Well, when I taught aerobics, i would teach one move, go to the next..then take it from the top. The way we gave that signal so the whole class could see where you were going…well i did it anyway, was pat the top of our head.
With that said, i think from the top working down would be best where you…sit.
Take your free hand and look her in the eyes as you push her hair back.
If there is chemistry between the two of you…it will take over from there…
Well, Pete,
May all your dreams come thru!
Thanks a lot!
I like it. A pat on the head ^^
Must… try… this……
Pete;
LOL No pat on the head…shes not a dog
I am a lucky man to have learned something very similar to this years ago. There are many factors of why I enjoy it so much, but the top one being that I just love giving the lady I am intimate with as much pleasure as I can. I am still waiting patiently to enact this on the woman I am infatuated with.
Man… I go away for the weekend and this place ERUPTS.
Brad:
,,,,”Man… I go away for the weekend and this place ERUPTS.”
Like Mt. Mt St. Helens right??? It is one volcanic explosion, oozing with magma! LOL
david………..wow you hit the nail on the head with this one. Granted this is one of the most exceptional strategies to use, but what do you do for foreplay if the woman in question does not like to be licked down south? while i have found it rare, it does happen. what are your thoughts/what would you do in that type of situation?
Joan
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>>Pete;
>>LOL No pat on the head…shes not a dog
—
LOL. Not literally you creep!
I meant more like an aai over de bol.
What’s that.
Like a caressing on the head, through her hair.
After which I’d enjoy stroking my fingers through it for a while.
And smelling it, ooooh dear… it’s difficult to stop that once you’ve taken one little sniff.
Hey you know, people always ask me why I am smelling at food or my drink. Lol. Often.
I’ll tell them I want to make sure the cognac in my soda isn’t too strong, but well…
Hello! I’m about to consume something that tastes very good. I always savor the fragrance…
Before and whilst I have the first sip…
Or bite.
Yes indeed,… I tried this one years ago on my gf she was ready to explode before I was done with her! She indeed practically begged me—”STICK IT IN ME!!!” talk about -ego boost…
Any girls reading this, you reckon I should surprise my girlfriend with this or email her this URL and let her soak it in before I next see her on Friday? Wanna make it a great night!
Reply would be greatly appreciated!
Hi! Punda sheithi good punda…
This all sounds great, as long as she ain’t got hairy legs or a garden the size of Fangorn forest.
Heck, my bf needs to read this!
thank you!!!! saving this for the next willing guy who needs a tutorial.
Hey Anonymous on August 17!
DON’T email this to your girlfriend ahead of time!! Why ruin the fun surprise?
Just roll it over in your own head, get yourself nice and turned on thinking about her all day, keep it SPONTANEOUS, and unleash your sexual beast on her when the time is right!
Hello David. I wonder how can I “present” this information/teach a guy who is in fact a very manly guy. And I don’t think the trick “send him an email” will work. He’s perfect in bed but sometimes I need it this gentle way as you described.
Thank you a lot.
David,
That is all so true.. but how about you give us girls the same kinda tips about what to do with men exactly?
Wow, this advice totally rules!!!
I will apply something similar, I love this idea to get turned on my girl…
This is incredible, may I ask though is this the approach to take on any girl the first time? Would any girl want this – meaning more reserved girls compared to perhaps openly turned on ones?
Thankyou for any tips
David, I agree. Works every time, even just describing what and how you are going to do to them – before you even get to the bedroom
Damn! That was good!
I have to admit that this description – albeit inspiring – and the topic of “the perfect lover” tends to bring up a sense of inadequaciy for me. Not the devastating burry-your-head-in-the-sand kind, but still enough to affect my mood and confidence during love-making.
While I’m not clumsy in the sheets, I’m no Casanova either and feeling inadequate doesn’t get me there faster.
How can I overcome these feelings and instead enjoy the ride and the learning experience?
Instead of saying you are no Casanova you should be aspiring to become one… There is only one way to learn practice, practice, practice… And if you have a girl willing to be your playground I am sure this is one lesson she wouldn’t mind you repeating until you feel more comfortable
Isnt this obvious?? Ive been doing this with my girl for 4 years (maybe thats why weve lasted so long) im only 21. but we all know, well should! that foreplay is the most important tool. And if you truly love and respect a woman I believe those men would want to take their time to discover and touch the woman of their dreams. Perhaps the men who dont do this dont love their woman enough? Maybe its not to do with love at all but for me, im so into my girl, i make sex worthwile for her, in return shes so into me. 4 years later and its as good as ever. But yeah still seems like it should be common sense. Ive only been with this girl. Didnt take me many women or blogs to learn. Anyways regardless, you too have it right my man
you are a F****** god man!!!! i thought i was god at everything til i tried this tactic. the whole thing with going down on them for a sec really gets them started for a great orgasm. i teased the fuck out of her more then on here. i though i could make my gf scream until i tried this. after i went down on her she was like a f****** animal. going insane with barely even a touch. then i barely even moved during sex and she would be screaming. it really gets them going teasing their heads. GREAT POST! im always gonna base sex in a way of this.
but answering a question from above, most guys when they give oral they keep mixing it up. yeah in the beginning you do, one to tease her, two to find “the spot” but once you find a motion they like, stick to it!!! intensify it more as you go.
Thanks for the tips
but im just wondering, why all these wonderful ladies are searching this stuff up at work
Thankyou
David,
this blog is awesome! it gave me chills!! and so true! nothing like a man making me feel desire in every single possible way, for me to want to return the favor!….
this is so true! I have got me a man that do nearly the same things… and to be honest I never had eny better lover! I hate it when a man thinks that the only thing he need to do is to stick it in, and so complains about that I am dry… well, if I am going to suck or lick eny of his bodyparts, he have to do something for me to! if he does not, sex is a wery meaningsless thing for me..
this is exactly what more men need to do! my motto is “take your time, don’t skip anything” that is all the fun!
Awesome article! It does seem a little bit like an act of “warfare”. Who could resist such sensuality? I hope the only goal, however, is not to hold a woman captive to the caresses and the desires that are built up inside. Sex as a weapon….it never goes out of style.
In any case, if a sexual interlude is that good, every one benefits!
Hmmm hmmm David, you’re my kinda guy.. Slow n steady wit d foreplay thing.. I wonder y these ‘she’s’ making a complete jerk like they’ve never experienced even better.