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How To Get Past The Opener

     

Today, I want all of you to look at this video.

What you are about to see is a very successful opener followed by complete indecision.

Do you ever feel like you are at a loss for words thirty seconds into a conversation, and all you can do is wonder how long you can keep the flow going?

Check this out. It is going to make this weekend rock for you!

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20 Responses to “How To Get Past The Opener”

  1. I absolutely love these live videos. This is exactly what we do during bootcamps!

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  2. FUCKING GREAT VIDEO!
    How many times have I done that? Too many to count, you need to know what to say to close so its on the tip of your tongue.

    David, you need to show more of these!

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  3. That guy was doing pretty good until the end like you said he should have asked for her number, she seemed interested in him.

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  4. Karen- I agree I give him a lot of credits for going out and doing this!!!

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  5. Jacob- what would you have done different?

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  6. Karen- This is late I’m falling a sleep here, I just got back from a great party. Answer to your question, I would close the deal before you knew what hit you:)

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  7. Ya i know me too almost falling asleep. I just got home as well. Did you have a good time in the party?

    Hahaha Jacob love your cocky humor:)

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  8. glad you are enjoying it:)

    oh yea the party was amazing great drinks and super nice people!

    what did you do tonight?

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  9. Let me guess you were out with your girlfriends and you well were mantrashing:)

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  10. oh boy how did you know?:) It was some great mantrashing conversation we had and as always some great food!

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  11. hmmmm that sounds good, well i am off to bed, can’t focus anymore so well and good night dear:)

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  12. Thanks Jacob and talk to you soon:)

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  13. Alot of guys don’t seem to realize…if she touches you..she’s interested. That’s when you grab her by the waist pull her right into you and say “Give me your number!!! lmao

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  14. David, I love how you broke down the whole approach! Nice touch with the Stones in the beginning and the end.

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  15. He should have introduced himself after admitting to hitting on them. Returning to the indirect question (opener) was very insincere and weird.

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  16. After watching this video Im now inspired to do some approaches and not make any excuses. Nice post. thanks David!

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  17. I think the guy did pretty good. A lot better than I would’ve done. He can think on his feet a lot better than I can, sad to say.

    Yes, he should’ve closed her. Looking back on it(because hindsight is always 20/20) I think after she said “I’ve won by default” he should’ve said, “Okay, how about later? I’m _______. Let’s go out later. What’s your number?” Or should he have said something else?

    What say you David, Kheim, Kub?

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  18. Why would she tell him to say “I’m a pussy”. That seemed a little bit too inappropiate to me for her to say that to a person whom you’ve just met.

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  19. Tony,

    If you think what she says to him was inappropriate, then you just need to get out there more and see that there are no rules in flirting and people have different boundaries. I’ve told people much worse than that and some get completely offended, while others crack up. The ones who laugh are obviously the ones I’m interested in.

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  20. Tony,

    You are right, he could have closed when she said she wont by default. A lot of times, women give you a window of opportunity to move the interaction to the next level and it’s up to you to find those opportunities and actually seize them.

    When you do it often enough, it feels like you are leading her to wonderful places.

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