Comments on: How To Follow Up http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/how-to-follow-up/679/ Sex. Relationships. Dating. That's what I'm talkin' 'bout. Sat, 21 Nov 2009 09:04:02 -0600 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: Chris http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/how-to-follow-up/679/#comment-31866 Chris Sat, 26 Sep 2009 04:34:29 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=679#comment-31866 hi, just want some tips on the best way to follow up with women after getting their numbers. I tend to get numbers but not sure when is the best time to call and how to do it right, without the woman feeling like i'm pushing it. hi,
just want some tips on the best way to follow up with women after getting their numbers.
I tend to get numbers but not sure when is the best time to call and how to do it right, without the woman feeling like i’m pushing it.

]]> By: הכרויות http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/how-to-follow-up/679/#comment-21975 הכרויות Sun, 18 Jan 2009 18:04:43 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=679#comment-21975 thank you. it help me a lot. richard. thank you. it help me a lot. richard.

]]> By: Pamela http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/how-to-follow-up/679/#comment-17627 Pamela Sat, 30 Aug 2008 20:55:28 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=679#comment-17627 It's all about the energy, I have gone out with great looking guys, I have gone out with short, 'heavier' guys, (he was amazing) but the key was he was into me, oh he was into many things, but when we were together he was captivatingly into the moment and me. I was married to a man who was so good looking it was scarry, and so was my life with him. He was so into himself he didn't have time to be into me, cheating followed, he would let me know if he would be free for "his weekend" and sooner than later, I told him it was time to take his sorry ass and his mirror to his new girlfriends house, and of course he didn't want to go...because of course it was better at home...blah blah blah...point being, be yourself, be in the moment, be direct, and call and connect, because anything short of that is...actually nothing. Life is way to short to not go after what you want, in a balanced way, because the worst that can happen, is that you dust your self off and go for it again...trust me words of experience, dusting right now... EXPERIENCE is what you get, when you don't get what you wanted, Carpe Diem... It’s all about the energy, I have gone out with great looking guys, I have gone out with short, ‘heavier’ guys, (he was amazing) but the key was he was into me, oh he was into many things, but when we were together he was captivatingly into the moment and me. I was married to a man who was so good looking it was scarry, and so was my life with him. He was so into himself he didn’t have time to be into me, cheating followed, he would let me know if he would be free for “his weekend” and sooner than later, I told him it was time to take his sorry ass and his mirror to his new girlfriends house, and of course he didn’t want to go…because of course it was better at home…blah blah blah…point being, be yourself, be in the moment, be direct, and call and connect, because anything short of that is…actually nothing. Life is way to short to not go after what you want, in a balanced way, because the worst that can happen, is that you dust your self off and go for it again…trust me words of experience, dusting right now…

EXPERIENCE is what you get, when you don’t get what you wanted, Carpe Diem…

]]> By: Howie http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/how-to-follow-up/679/#comment-17617 Howie Fri, 29 Aug 2008 19:58:19 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=679#comment-17617 Yep. Once again, I was there when that conversation went down. That couple was totally into you David! Yep. Once again, I was there when that conversation went down. That couple was totally into you David!

]]> By: Rich http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/how-to-follow-up/679/#comment-17616 Rich Fri, 29 Aug 2008 18:45:38 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=679#comment-17616 Totally agree with Rey - got to have a follow up reason. Have to connect on something or you just did nothing more than ask for a phone number and get no call back. Sure its a ballsy thing to do, but its far from the only thing to do. You always have to have a decent connection or do something intrigueing. Totally agree with Rey – got to have a follow up reason. Have to connect on something or you just did nothing more than ask for a phone number and get no call back. Sure its a ballsy thing to do, but its far from the only thing to do. You always have to have a decent connection or do something intrigueing.

]]> By: DanTheOriginal http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/how-to-follow-up/679/#comment-17615 DanTheOriginal Fri, 29 Aug 2008 11:35:55 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=679#comment-17615 >>>>>>>I have seen some short bald guy with tall gorgeous women. Haven't we all! It kills me everty time I see them two together:-) >>>>>>>I have seen some short bald guy with tall gorgeous women.

Haven’t we all! It kills me everty time I see them two together:-)

]]> By: JustMe http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/how-to-follow-up/679/#comment-17613 JustMe Fri, 29 Aug 2008 06:51:53 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=679#comment-17613 "I mean, there is a reason why they are talking…" hahaha, funniest thing i've heard so far and it's 9 am here! good comment :) “I mean, there is a reason why they are talking…”

hahaha, funniest thing i’ve heard so far and it’s 9 am here! good comment :)

]]> By: Yakub http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/how-to-follow-up/679/#comment-17612 Yakub Fri, 29 Aug 2008 06:44:11 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=679#comment-17612 Mike: It seems to me that you're carrying some insecurities on your shoulder. Its no problem that she is taller than you. I have seen some short bald guy with tall gorgeous women. Its all about your attitude buddy!! Like Bertie said, you are the man, you need to take the action!! Last words: the deeper you go into her/his mind, and carry on that energy throughout, the more she/he will be craving for you! Mike:

It seems to me that you’re carrying some insecurities on your shoulder. Its no problem that she is taller than you. I have seen some short bald guy with tall gorgeous women. Its all about your attitude buddy!!

Like Bertie said, you are the man, you need to take the action!!

Last words: the deeper you go into her/his mind, and carry on that energy throughout, the more she/he will be craving for you!

]]> By: Infinity http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/how-to-follow-up/679/#comment-17611 Infinity Fri, 29 Aug 2008 03:30:02 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=679#comment-17611 David, I completely agree with this. Follow up is very important and I think when you tell men to "pay attention" to the woman that they talk to, it seems like a lot of work. But think about it. You barely listen to your friends but you always know what they are talking about, even if they say the most obscure things. You gotta try to have the same mindset and pay attention, connect and then follow up to have her get that emotion again. For example, I met a girl who was looking for a new car, and she wanted a convertible. I love cars so we hit it off right away. The next time we met up (which was about a week later), she saw me and I didn't bring it up initially. As soon as I brought it up, her energy skyrocketed and the vibes were very high, which led us to a good night overall. Connection is key and in order to establish a connection, you have to listen and follow up. I mean, there is a reason why they are talking... David, I completely agree with this. Follow up is very important and I think when you tell men to “pay attention” to the woman that they talk to, it seems like a lot of work. But think about it. You barely listen to your friends but you always know what they are talking about, even if they say the most obscure things. You gotta try to have the same mindset and pay attention, connect and then follow up to have her get that emotion again.

For example, I met a girl who was looking for a new car, and she wanted a convertible. I love cars so we hit it off right away. The next time we met up (which was about a week later), she saw me and I didn’t bring it up initially. As soon as I brought it up, her energy skyrocketed and the vibes were very high, which led us to a good night overall.

Connection is key and in order to establish a connection, you have to listen and follow up. I mean, there is a reason why they are talking…

]]> By: Bertie http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/how-to-follow-up/679/#comment-17608 Bertie Fri, 29 Aug 2008 03:09:01 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=679#comment-17608 Mike did you consider that she didn't know what else to do? Usually women/girls wait for you men to hug us. Mike did you consider that she didn’t know what else to do? Usually women/girls wait for you men to hug us.

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