Comments on: How To End Every Conversation http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/how-to-end-every-conversation/1241/ Sex. Relationships. Dating. That's what I'm talkin' 'bout. Fri, 10 Feb 2012 02:15:04 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v= By: bill http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/how-to-end-every-conversation/1241/#comment-24368 bill Wed, 11 Mar 2009 09:24:56 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1241#comment-24368 Is there a way to become a content writer for the site? Is there a way to become a content writer for the site?

]]> By: Markus http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/how-to-end-every-conversation/1241/#comment-22576 Markus Mon, 02 Feb 2009 07:46:23 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1241#comment-22576 Hey Yakub, yes its me, we met in LA last year! How are you man?? Its been a while.. Hey Yakub,
yes its me, we met in LA last year! How are you man?? Its been a while..

]]> By: Johann http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/how-to-end-every-conversation/1241/#comment-22574 Johann Mon, 02 Feb 2009 04:51:41 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1241#comment-22574 Thanks, guys. I actually find your comments encouraging. I guess it shouldn't be so hard. Thanks, guys. I actually find your comments encouraging. I guess it shouldn’t be so hard.

]]> By: Coach Yakub http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/how-to-end-every-conversation/1241/#comment-22568 Coach Yakub Mon, 02 Feb 2009 02:59:17 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1241#comment-22568 yes..Markus: and you can use that name next time you see her, and it will break that stranger vibe, and she will be more comfortable around you just like a friend. Btw...are you the Markus, I met in LA? yes..Markus:

and you can use that name next time you see her, and it will break that stranger vibe, and she will be more comfortable around you just like a friend.

Btw…are you the Markus, I met in LA?

]]> By: Markus http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/how-to-end-every-conversation/1241/#comment-22555 Markus Sun, 01 Feb 2009 18:50:13 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1241#comment-22555 By the way I realized just lately that exchanging names is SO important. Even if you have a three minute conversation and have to leave - by exchanging names and then saying "Well, X, nice to meet you, see you soon" you create already a connection between each other. People are not used to that and it leaves women usually with a big smile and she will ask herself again and again during the next days, who is this guy? By the way I realized just lately that exchanging names is SO important. Even if you have a three minute conversation and have to leave – by exchanging names and then saying “Well, X, nice to meet you, see you soon” you create already a connection between each other. People are not used to that and it leaves women usually with a big smile and she will ask herself again and again during the next days, who is this guy?

]]> By: Markus http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/how-to-end-every-conversation/1241/#comment-22554 Markus Sun, 01 Feb 2009 18:47:13 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1241#comment-22554 Hey Johann I agree with Elle - I think there's actually a good way to build a nice time bridge here - without leaving any awkward feeling. You're right, there's nothing worse than leaving a woman in an awkward manner and then thinking about it a hundred times. A good way for me would be to keep control of the situation. You must be the one who ends it - and who is leading her to a next step. So you could say, "What's your Name by the way?" - "X" - "Well, X, you know it was fun talking to you but I gotta leave now. But it would be cool to continue this conversation when we have a little more time. Do you have e-mail?" She will not have the feeling that you are needy, because you are actually ending this conversation! And the question "Do you have e-mail" is quite non-threatening and nobody in these days can answer "no". Have fun next time ;-) M. Hey Johann
I agree with Elle – I think there’s actually a good way to build a nice time bridge here – without leaving any awkward feeling. You’re right, there’s nothing worse than leaving a woman in an awkward manner and then thinking about it a hundred times.

A good way for me would be to keep control of the situation. You must be the one who ends it – and who is leading her to a next step. So you could say, “What’s your Name by the way?” – “X” – “Well, X, you know it was fun talking to you but I gotta leave now. But it would be cool to continue this conversation when we have a little more time. Do you have e-mail?”

She will not have the feeling that you are needy, because you are actually ending this conversation! And the question “Do you have e-mail” is quite non-threatening and nobody in these days can answer “no”.

Have fun next time ;-)
M.

]]> By: Sandra Hutchens http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/how-to-end-every-conversation/1241/#comment-22526 Sandra Hutchens Sat, 31 Jan 2009 13:03:25 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1241#comment-22526 Oh I would like to add to what i said about the podcast. Sitting in front of this computer does not get me to work and pay my bills. So when I am work I talk to all kinds of guys from young and old. Sandra Oh I would like to add to what i said about the podcast. Sitting in front of this computer does not get me to work and pay my bills. So when I am work I talk to all kinds of guys from young and old.
Sandra

]]> By: Elle http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/how-to-end-every-conversation/1241/#comment-22514 Elle Sat, 31 Jan 2009 04:39:50 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1241#comment-22514 So...instead of feeling awkward, after she stopped herself, I think it would be way charming to turn, smile and say 'yeah, I'd like to see you soon too...do you like coffee (tea, music, dancing - which just may have been really funny - etc)?'. 23 is a great age! I remember it well! Have fun! So…instead of feeling awkward, after she stopped herself, I think it would be way charming to turn, smile and say ‘yeah, I’d like to see you soon too…do you like coffee (tea, music, dancing – which just may have been really funny – etc)?’. 23 is a great age! I remember it well! Have fun!

]]> By: Johann http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/how-to-end-every-conversation/1241/#comment-22512 Johann Sat, 31 Jan 2009 04:15:30 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1241#comment-22512 Speaking of how to close, I need some advice from fellow blog readers. Today, I was waiting for an elevator in a building at my university. A most attractive young woman walked up on crutches, wearing a cast around her leg. Without even thinking, I asked: "Did you break your leg?" To my surprise, she laughed in the timid way that girls do, and we had a fun conversation about her dangerous "adventure". (A cinder block had fallen on it while she was trying to climb a wall.) When we walked out of the elevator, I said, "Have a good day", and I walked away as if I really didn't care. Just then, she started to say, "See you--", and cut herself off, probably because she knew she wouldn't see me again. I felt disappointed, because I would have liked to continue the conversation. I believed that if I asked for her number, it would have felt awkward, needy, and too objective-oriented. This happens to me all the time. I start a great conversation with a woman, but I cannot close, and the woman is left to wonder why I gave up. The actual reason is that I would rather leave the woman with something positive than with an awkward attempt to meet again. (In case you're wondering, I am 23 years old.) Speaking of how to close, I need some advice from fellow blog readers. Today, I was waiting for an elevator in a building at my university. A most attractive young woman walked up on crutches, wearing a cast around her leg. Without even thinking, I asked: “Did you break your leg?” To my surprise, she laughed in the timid way that girls do, and we had a fun conversation about her dangerous “adventure”. (A cinder block had fallen on it while she was trying to climb a wall.) When we walked out of the elevator, I said, “Have a good day”, and I walked away as if I really didn’t care. Just then, she started to say, “See you–”, and cut herself off, probably because she knew she wouldn’t see me again. I felt disappointed, because I would have liked to continue the conversation. I believed that if I asked for her number, it would have felt awkward, needy, and too objective-oriented. This happens to me all the time. I start a great conversation with a woman, but I cannot close, and the woman is left to wonder why I gave up. The actual reason is that I would rather leave the woman with something positive than with an awkward attempt to meet again. (In case you’re wondering, I am 23 years old.)

]]> By: Elle http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/how-to-end-every-conversation/1241/#comment-22509 Elle Sat, 31 Jan 2009 03:47:20 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1241#comment-22509 Oh, and since David brought it up...GO CARDS! Oh, and since David brought it up…GO CARDS!

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