Comments on: How to Approach Women on the Street http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/how-to-approach-women-on-the-street/523/ Sex. Relationships. Dating. That's what I'm talkin' 'bout. Sat, 21 Nov 2009 09:04:02 -0600 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: Chris http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/how-to-approach-women-on-the-street/523/#comment-15991 Chris Sat, 28 Jun 2008 13:03:16 +0000 http://blog.davidwygant.com/?p=523#comment-15991 I'm enjoying this Website. Thanks, David. I would like to ask the guys how you would take it if it was the girls who start a conversation with you on the streets. I know the look of interest but guys almost never start a conversation with me on the streets. I don't quite understand why people would let chances slip them by or at least give themselves the opportunity to discover whether the chances are worthwhile. Maybe it's like what Reynold and Patrick said, that guys don't want to screw things up. So if the girls were to start talking to you on the streets, how would you take it? I'm tempted to try it out myself. I’m enjoying this Website. Thanks, David. I would like to ask the guys how you would take it if it was the girls who start a conversation with you on the streets. I know the look of interest but guys almost never start a conversation with me on the streets. I don’t quite understand why people would let chances slip them by or at least give themselves the opportunity to discover whether the chances are worthwhile. Maybe it’s like what Reynold and Patrick said, that guys don’t want to screw things up. So if the girls were to start talking to you on the streets, how would you take it? I’m tempted to try it out myself.

]]> By: Natasha http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/how-to-approach-women-on-the-street/523/#comment-15933 Natasha Thu, 26 Jun 2008 10:47:52 +0000 http://blog.davidwygant.com/?p=523#comment-15933 Dear All men… At least just’s Me will stop when the man talked like that when he’s in the church. or look at the beatiful things, and talking with the meanthings tru his thought out, Don’t be shy when you’re going to be the one of man that’s Special…. The ladies, don’t like the things is normal, its have too much Normal guys, in this world, so… please will be a Special one for us. Do somethings that’s you thinks it special,or just’s only do the things which follow your heart, even how its looks silly you are. but just only let her keep in mind that’s will be great enough Dear All men…
At least just’s Me will stop when the man talked like that when he’s in the church. or look at the beatiful things, and talking with the meanthings tru his thought out, Don’t be shy when you’re going to be the one of man that’s Special…. The ladies, don’t like the things is normal, its have too much Normal guys, in this world, so… please will be a Special one for us.
Do somethings that’s you thinks it special,or just’s only do the things which follow your heart, even how its looks silly you are. but just only let her keep in mind that’s will be great enough

]]> By: Natasha http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/how-to-approach-women-on-the-street/523/#comment-15932 Natasha Thu, 26 Jun 2008 10:32:08 +0000 http://blog.davidwygant.com/?p=523#comment-15932 Dear All men... At least just's Me will stop when the man talk like that when he's in church. or look at the beatiful things, and talking with the meanthings tru his thought out, Don't be shy when you're going to be the one of man that've Special.... The ladies, don't like the things is normal, its have too much Normal guys, in this world, so... please will be a Special one for us. Do somethings that's you thinks it special,or just's only do the things which follow your heart, even how its looks silly you are. but just only let her keep in mind that's will be great enough. Dear All men…
At least just’s Me will stop when the man talk like that when he’s in church.
or look at the beatiful things, and talking with the meanthings tru his thought out, Don’t be shy when you’re going to be the one of man that’ve Special…. The ladies, don’t like the things is normal, its have too much Normal guys, in this world, so… please will be a Special one for us.
Do somethings that’s you thinks it special,or just’s only do the things which follow your heart, even how its looks silly you are. but just only let her keep in mind that’s will be great enough.

]]> By: Brandy http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/how-to-approach-women-on-the-street/523/#comment-15928 Brandy Thu, 26 Jun 2008 05:43:26 +0000 http://blog.davidwygant.com/?p=523#comment-15928 seriously though guys, some girls will actually stop and talk. I've done it before. It doesnt have to be architecture, it could be at Hastings browsing movies and you see a girl looking at movies near you, you can say "that is such a good movie" if you've seen it. or "that looks like a good movie" soemthing like that. some girl's will say things like, "yeah i saw that! it was great!" or that's not a very good movie" even "i wanted to see that too." if she responds in any way like that...you're in luck. you can ask why it wasn't too good, or why is was good. it doesn't have to be at hastings though..i mean, do go to a hastings store to pick up women..that's a little lame. Just talk and give you're honest opinions, don't lie. seriously though guys, some girls will actually stop and talk. I’ve done it before. It doesnt have to be architecture, it could be at Hastings browsing movies and you see a girl looking at movies near you, you can say “that is such a good movie” if you’ve seen it. or “that looks like a good movie” soemthing like that. some girl’s will say things like, “yeah i saw that! it was great!” or that’s not a very good movie” even “i wanted to see that too.” if she responds in any way like that…you’re in luck. you can ask why it wasn’t too good, or why is was good. it doesn’t have to be at hastings though..i mean, do go to a hastings store to pick up women..that’s a little lame. Just talk and give you’re honest opinions, don’t lie.

]]> By: JustMe http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/how-to-approach-women-on-the-street/523/#comment-15831 JustMe Mon, 23 Jun 2008 20:31:49 +0000 http://blog.davidwygant.com/?p=523#comment-15831 THANK you for understanding my not so good comparison up there.. To me the surface material seems very similar. But I get the point now:) THANK you for understanding my not so good comparison up there..
To me the surface material seems very similar. But I get the point now:)

]]> By: Khiem http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/how-to-approach-women-on-the-street/523/#comment-15830 Khiem Mon, 23 Jun 2008 18:30:38 +0000 http://blog.davidwygant.com/?p=523#comment-15830 Sam, People are way more open minded than you think... if you allow them to be. If you are truly enthusiastic in the things you do, if you are genuinely curious about the things in your life (just like a 5 yr old kid is), people are ALWAYS open to interact and get engaged with you. Susan, It's easy to read David's advice out of context. I don't know how much of his teachings you know but try to look for his intent instead of making a judgment on one or two articles. What you criticize David for is usually what he teaches women. He doesn't lump all women in one category but you must admit that there are some trends that can be generalized just b/c you are women. Specific advice are not given in blogs, they are given in coaching based on your particular situation and the specific person you are dating. As far as getting dating advice from women, I couldn't agree more. You should ask your female friends for some feedback. You should always check with the source itself for accuracy. However, there's one caveat to that. When you ask ONE woman for dating advice, she \will tell you what SHE personally wants. Getting advice from a man who's dated all sorts of women gives you a more "big picture" take on the whole topic. The second caveat to that is that... women typically don't know what it means to truly be a man. They don't know how to describe the basic masculine core that makes a man fundamentally attractive. This is why it's good to sometimes get a "guy mentor" for certain things. Women have their "women mentor" a lot b/c they have a heavy female support group. Just look at how women share their inner most moments with their friends (aka Sex and the City anyone?). Guys don't do that... so finding a more mature man can provide that invaluable perspective to make the man more adept at whatever he's trying to become. JustMe, Mystery is a fascinating guy. I can see why your friend would love him. He's definitely is a character. From a marketing perspective, some of Mystery's material sounds like David's... however, dig deeper as David says. Mystery and David are actually quite different in what they teach. Some surface material is similar... but Mystery is more about getting ANY girl whereas David is more about being attractive and finding the "RIGHT" girl for you (or right man for that matter). Sam,

People are way more open minded than you think… if you allow them to be.

If you are truly enthusiastic in the things you do, if you are genuinely curious about the things in your life (just like a 5 yr old kid is), people are ALWAYS open to interact and get engaged with you.

Susan,

It’s easy to read David’s advice out of context. I don’t know how much of his teachings you know but try to look for his intent instead of making a judgment on one or two articles.

What you criticize David for is usually what he teaches women. He doesn’t lump all women in one category but you must admit that there are some trends that can be generalized just b/c you are women.

Specific advice are not given in blogs, they are given in coaching based on your particular situation and the specific person you are dating.

As far as getting dating advice from women, I couldn’t agree more. You should ask your female friends for some feedback. You should always check with the source itself for accuracy.

However, there’s one caveat to that. When you ask ONE woman for dating advice, she \will tell you what SHE personally wants. Getting advice from a man who’s dated all sorts of women gives you a more “big picture” take on the whole topic.

The second caveat to that is that… women typically don’t know what it means to truly be a man. They don’t know how to describe the basic masculine core that makes a man fundamentally attractive. This is why it’s good to sometimes get a “guy mentor” for certain things. Women have their “women mentor” a lot b/c they have a heavy female support group. Just look at how women share their inner most moments with their friends (aka Sex and the City anyone?).

Guys don’t do that… so finding a more mature man can provide that invaluable perspective to make the man more adept at whatever he’s trying to become.

JustMe,

Mystery is a fascinating guy. I can see why your friend would love him. He’s definitely is a character.

From a marketing perspective, some of Mystery’s material sounds like David’s… however, dig deeper as David says. Mystery and David are actually quite different in what they teach.

Some surface material is similar… but Mystery is more about getting ANY girl whereas David is more about being attractive and finding the “RIGHT” girl for you (or right man for that matter).

]]> By: JustMe http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/how-to-approach-women-on-the-street/523/#comment-15823 JustMe Mon, 23 Jun 2008 08:39:37 +0000 http://blog.davidwygant.com/?p=523#comment-15823 Hehe, I need to change my name now and hide! Sorry, guys :) I did NOT mean to come off as a bitter person, which I am NOT at all :D and sorry, David, for offending you by comparing you to Mystery! Here's the thing, I found both your sites at the same time, well, first yours, then a friend of mine showed me Mystery! She absolutely loves him. And I started comparing you guys, just for fun:) Again, very sorry! About Susan's comment, I just found her critizism a bit amuzing, that's all.. I'm just 20, and not as experienced as the rest of you obviously are (there are 50 year olds posting here?) However, I will def dig deeper! If you guys have read some of my other posts, I am NOT bitter and I actually mostly agree with David.. but that's probably because I am so young, and have a totally different culture than you...I'm all for learning;) Peace- Hehe, I need to change my name now and hide!

Sorry, guys :) I did NOT mean to come off as a bitter person, which I am NOT at all :D and sorry, David, for offending you by comparing you to Mystery! Here’s the thing, I found both your sites at the same time, well, first yours, then a friend of mine showed me Mystery! She absolutely loves him. And I started comparing you guys, just for fun:) Again, very sorry!

About Susan’s comment, I just found her critizism a bit amuzing, that’s all..
I’m just 20, and not as experienced as the rest of you obviously are (there are 50 year olds posting here?)
However, I will def dig deeper!

If you guys have read some of my other posts, I am NOT bitter and I actually mostly agree with David.. but that’s probably because I am so young, and have a totally different culture than you…I’m all for learning;)

Peace-

]]> By: Sam http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/how-to-approach-women-on-the-street/523/#comment-15822 Sam Mon, 23 Jun 2008 07:51:49 +0000 http://blog.davidwygant.com/?p=523#comment-15822 JustMe, Patrick and Laurie, Thanks for the comments. I wasn't criticising David or his techniques, I subscribe to his teachings wholeheartedly. Confidence and inner belief are the way forward. I was just a bit sceptical about this particluar situation and the likelihood of it actually being successful. I think as Patrick stated that it would be more of a chance if you were in a group situation (like a bootcamp) as opposed to just one individual out on the street. I guess if you had enough enthusiasm and the right girl came along it could be a good opener, but i think on average it would be a difficult one to accomplish. JustMe, Patrick and Laurie,

Thanks for the comments. I wasn’t criticising David or his techniques, I subscribe to his teachings wholeheartedly. Confidence and inner belief are the way forward. I was just a bit sceptical about this particluar situation and the likelihood of it actually being successful. I think as Patrick stated that it would be more of a chance if you were in a group situation (like a bootcamp) as opposed to just one individual out on the street. I guess if you had enough enthusiasm and the right girl came along it could be a good opener, but i think on average it would be a difficult one to accomplish.

]]> By: David Wygant http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/how-to-approach-women-on-the-street/523/#comment-15821 David Wygant Mon, 23 Jun 2008 06:56:19 +0000 http://blog.davidwygant.com/?p=523#comment-15821 Susan wow....where did all your anger come from? and all of your assumptions. i really enjoy when people attack me without doing any research at all. i read your comments and it shows that you know nothing about what i teach. and if i was a betting man you don't have the guts to show up here again. now the real issue i see with you is someone who may have issues in her own dating life.......what is the real issue here susan? Susan

wow….where did all your anger come from?

and all of your assumptions.

i really enjoy when people attack me without doing any research at all. i read your comments and it shows that you know nothing about what i teach.
and if i was a betting man you don’t have the guts to show up here again.

now the real issue i see with you is someone who may have issues in her own dating life…….what is the real issue here susan?

]]> By: David Wygant http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/how-to-approach-women-on-the-street/523/#comment-15820 David Wygant Mon, 23 Jun 2008 06:52:29 +0000 http://blog.davidwygant.com/?p=523#comment-15820 Just Me You are new. You need to really dig deeper. I am the polar opposite of Mystery and not one person who really knows my teachings would ever make a statement like you did. So being new dig deeper into who I am so you can see what I am all about. Mystery is all about pickup....I am teaching attraction and how to really relate better with others...and i am all about self confidence....plus so much more.......its time for you to dig deeper!! Just Me

You are new.

You need to really dig deeper.

I am the polar opposite of Mystery and not one person who really knows my teachings would ever make a statement like you did.

So being new dig deeper into who I am so you can see what I am all about.

Mystery is all about pickup….I am teaching attraction and how to really relate better with others…and i am all about self confidence….plus so much more…….its time for you to dig deeper!!

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