Comments on: How Honest Are You REALLY?

By: Mike-Ro

Mike-Ro — Thu, 10 Dec 2009 12:49:10 +0000

I get that when I talk to people who I feel a chemestry with and as you said doing things I like, for example dancig, I teach others to dance:) so yeah that’s when I get pumped and have great energy.

But since I’m in the last year at highschool I can’t do everything I want to do. But, what can I say…I just love it when I feel that energy.I feel that I can talk to any girl and have no fear at all!

Thanks for the reply, I hope to do what I love, I mean I want to study pshichology ,even dough everybody sais it’s not a good choice but I want to do something like David does, help others with all kind of problems.And with a bit of luck I’ll have a chance to go abroad cause here,people don’t reach for help, if you go to a shrink or other kind of help you are considered a freak. Get what I mean?I get all excited talking about this

Oh yeah, I get that energy when I teach other guys the things David teaches.If I can show a guy some things, how to think and so on, I realize that I myself have leared it.Sorry for the long comment.Would really apreciate a response on this, to get you’re opinion on what I want to do

By: Khiem/Ken (DW Coach)

Khiem/Ken (DW Coach) — Thu, 10 Dec 2009 01:24:16 +0000

Mike-Ro,

You can have that energy once you find your true purpose, your true passion. When you do more of the things you love, you get energized by it and you get motivated by it… and that’s when you stop looking for other people’s approval because you know that what you do… is what you care about.

By: pete

pete — Tue, 08 Dec 2009 09:06:15 +0000

Thanks for clearing it out my friend this helps!

By: Mike-Ro

Mike-Ro — Mon, 07 Dec 2009 20:41:34 +0000

Never heard that one .George I get it but in those days when I lack that energy and confidence I get very…complacent?I don’t wanna be seen I want to hide from the world in a way till I get that energy back.And in those moments I judge myself very harsh. Anyway thanks for the reply, I’m curious if you know what I’ve talked about in this comments, those kind of feelings.Or maybe is just because I’m still very young.Who knows…I wanna have that energy EVERYDAY!:D

By: George

George — Mon, 07 Dec 2009 20:07:43 +0000

Mike-RO, I understand exactly how you feel. However, I constantly fight so I cannot wait for approvals.

It makes me very lazy, weak, and I constantly believing that their answer will solve my problems.

Don’t wait on people’s approval for you to reach your best.
Like David said “The why living your life is so hard is Because it has never been done before.”

By: Mike-Ro

Mike-Ro — Mon, 07 Dec 2009 14:48:55 +0000

David I try to be honest with myself, but sometimes I look for other persons aprovals. I have my moments when I’m the best me I can be, but I do have moments of weakness when I try to find something to get me ‘in the mood’.

Don’t know what else to say, only that I want consistency from myself.I want to wake up every day and feel like the best version of me. Usually it happens when I’m aroung people that I enjoy, I charge from them, I have great positive energy when I’m with them but it fades after 2-3 days.

Is it posible to always feel good about yourself and in the same time honest?Cause when I’m in that good spirit I’m very honest,about me,about others….

Tell me if it’s posibile and if so…how can I do that. Thanks!

By: Tony888

Tony888 — Mon, 07 Dec 2009 05:38:12 +0000

If we were more honest with ourselves, we’d all be a lot better off.

And if everyone was more honest with other people, that would double the benefits.

By: Adrian

Adrian — Sun, 06 Dec 2009 22:05:33 +0000

In the end it’s almost always my own fault, I mean there are things I can’t control, but if I take responsibility I will learn some valuable lesson and gain experience. It’s sometimes hard to get it where you were wrong and sometimes you go blame others first, but later on it catches up and you accept reality. I used to be a victim in the past, but not now.

By: James Y

James Y — Sun, 06 Dec 2009 21:58:29 +0000

While I am not 100% honest with myself all the time, I strive to be. Moreso now, than back when I was with my ex.

And the funny thing about that, is my ex does nothing but play the victim. I think that’s part of why I started being more honest with myself and others. Because I didnt like it about her. And I have found that you usually don’t like something about someone, when it’s something you either don’t like about yourself, or it’s something you didnt like about how you used to be.

Thanks, David. As always, you hit the nail on the head!