Ho, Ho, Holiday Dating Time

December 2, 2009 14 Comments

Can you believe that we are only about three weeks away from Christmas? I always tell people that this is the time of the year, as we near the end of the year, when you look back on the past twelve months and think to yourself, “Oh my God, what did I not accomplish this year?”

You do this about your business, and you do it about your emotions. I go through a really powerful lesson emotionally every year. It is a time when you get connected to yourself.

The holiday time is probably the best time to meet people because everybody is full of emotions. Whether you’re a man or a woman, the only way you are ever really going to really connect with people is based on emotion.

We are emotional creatures. We are emotional beings. Women certainly want to connect with men emotionally. Men want to connect with women in the same way, except they just don’t want to admit it.

In today’s podcast we are going to go through something related to this that you really need to explore. It’s called getting in touch with your emotions.

You really need to do this so that this holiday season doesn’t end with you staring into the eyes of your drunken buddy on New Year’s Eve, and wondering why neither of you are kissing someone as you are counting down 5-4-3-2-1. Do you want your New Year’s Eve photo to be you embracing someone amazing, or another photo of you embracing the same group of single friends?

We are going to get you to tap into your emotions today. Once you do that, you are going to see the world in a whole different way!

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14 Responses to “Ho, Ho, Holiday Dating Time”

  1. Charles Reply December 2, 2009 at 5:03 pm 1

    Wow. Absolutely powerful finish on that one. Thanx for the tricks guys.

  2. Will of Fire Reply December 2, 2009 at 9:58 pm 2

    David! Love the podcasts every week. Thanks a million.

    One thing, this seems to happen every week. I’m in the middle of a podcast, and I either open a new page, hit the back button for some reason or another, and the podcast gets cut off. I miss the Quicktime player with the progress bar and the links to them (so I could save ‘em to my computer).

    As I submit this comment, the podcast will cut off in the middle, and I’ll have to start all over. Please consider another alternative to posting podcasts.

    I know the podcasts are free, and I really appreciate them.

    Thanks a bunch.

  3. Coach Kimberly Reply December 2, 2009 at 10:57 pm 3

    Great podcast guys! Yes, we women definitely connect to you men on an emotional level so be in tune with us. Don’t just tell us one liners…feel what you are saying and mean it.

  4. Miguel Reply December 3, 2009 at 1:04 am 4

    Will of Fire -

    http://yeshdolh.byoaudio.com/rss/david_wygants_podcast.xml

    here you go. If it’s hard playing the podcast, download it instead. this is David’s SECRET link of podcasts :D Enjoy!

  5. Miguel Reply December 3, 2009 at 1:06 am 5

    uh… it’s not there yet, the new podcast. But usually, it comes up a day after wednesday (Philippine time… I get the podcast on fridays)
    anyway, I’ll have a listen right now. :) thanks again for the podcast

  6. Charles Reply December 3, 2009 at 1:16 am 6

    TK- I missed you on todays podcast.

  7. wygant fan Reply December 3, 2009 at 1:01 pm 7

    wow, I can’t believe that this year is almost over! … and so is the decade. So let’s all make it happen over the next few weeks. May we all end the year on a high note.

    Also, I have something on my mind and I was wondering if David or Coach Kimberly or anyone else had any input. In Star Wars, did Princess Leah mean what she said to Han Solo? If so, did he say the wrong thing? … he didn’t get the girl after all. Is there something he could have done or could have said?

    Thanks for reading this post. I appreciate your thoughts ahead of time.

    … oh yeah, I am also writing a paper on Body Language that is due in the morning. I first was gonna write about how it doesn’t matter what you say, only how you come across and how you act. Now I think that you HAVE to get the words right, that you have to say the right thing BUT you have to say it the right way and the do the right thing too…

  8. Charles Reply December 3, 2009 at 1:10 pm 8

    Wygant fan-
    there are some great blogs here about body language in the archives and a few weeks ago there was a podcast called ‘ultimate passion’. Listen to it, it might help with your paper.

  9. Marcus Reply December 3, 2009 at 3:09 pm 9

    wygant fan – i think it does count a lot how you say things and how you act. But i am a big believer in that you cannot fake everything. Like confidence, for example. If you radiate insecurity and disbelief, you can try as much as you want and won’t get your body language right.

  10. wygant fan Reply December 3, 2009 at 3:19 pm 10

    Charles,

    Thanks for the advice!
    I think I have listened to that podcast once. I will listen to it again.
    For my paper I am focusing on how words matter but they don’t say everything. that words count but you have to back it up with body language. And that positive body language is so important. Positive body language displays openness, optimism, and presence. Positive body language allows one to connect well with others… and attract friends.

    I love the archives here! They are timeless so you can go back and look at them at any time and the meaning and usefullness is still there.

    have a good one Charles!

  11. Mats Reply December 3, 2009 at 9:00 pm 11

    Just a word to agree with Will; any chance of using a different format?

    It is quite cumbersome that you can’t FF or rewind it. Furthermore, I personally would prefer listening to it on my MP3, which is not an apple product, and I cannot. Perhaps this is intentional so people don’t download and take traffic from your site. In this case it is very understandable. I think though that it is possible for Ipod users to download this and listen to it on the go. Anyway. Thanks for the cast.

  12. Coach Kimberly Reply December 4, 2009 at 12:25 am 12

    Hi Charles! Don’t worry…I’ll be in more podcasts. Any topics that you might be interested in?

    Wygant Fan–great topic for your paper. Actually, 90% of communication is nonverbal so I guess what you say is really not as important as how you say it and look when saying it!…especially in first impressions. Body language and being in tune with emotions are so important in connecting with others. Love to hear more about your work!

  13. wygant fan Reply December 4, 2009 at 1:03 pm 13

    Thanks Coach Kimberly for the advice!

    I learned more about business communication from this website than I did sitting in my class all semester!

  14. Khiem/Ken (DW Coach) Reply December 4, 2009 at 3:50 pm 14

    Wygant Fan,

    I think Leia did mean what she said to Han Solo at the end. If you’ve read any of the expanded Star Wars universe books, Han Solo DO marry Leia :)

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