Comments on: Hines Ward Or Larry The Loser? http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/hines-ward-or-larry-the-loser/2021/ Sex. Relationships. Dating. That's what I'm talkin' 'bout. Tue, 22 May 2012 09:46:16 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: Mike http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/hines-ward-or-larry-the-loser/2021/#comment-31348 Mike Sun, 13 Sep 2009 19:56:36 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=2021#comment-31348 I know that but as far as the payment...no credit card. Might as well get used to 'coment section help'. If I'm not asking too much for an email or something. If not I'll see what I can do and talk to later in other posts. To be honest I don't know how some people will look at me if I manage to join. 18...yeah pretty young but I think it's a good thing I'm trying from an early age. And Charles and Marina I really do apreciat you really answered. If at first you don't succed, try try again right?:) I know that but as far as the payment…no credit card. Might as well get used to ‘coment section help’. If I’m not asking too much for an email or something. If not I’ll see what I can do and talk to later in other posts.

To be honest I don’t know how some people will look at me if I manage to join. 18…yeah pretty young but I think it’s a good thing I’m trying from an early age.
And Charles and Marina I really do apreciat you really answered. If at first you don’t succed, try try again right?:)

]]> By: Charles http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/hines-ward-or-larry-the-loser/2021/#comment-31346 Charles Sun, 13 Sep 2009 16:51:25 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=2021#comment-31346 Mike_ Dont worry, almost in every town people look at you weird when you're trying to be friendly, because most people aren't friendly. This is why you have to keep applying the exrecises. It will get better. As far as the waitress goes, just because you didnt get the phone number, it doesnt mean it was a failure. Like Marina said, there are different reasons why she didnt give it to you, and casually giving her your number works too. Just make sure your approach is genuine and in the moment, no expectations. If you really want to join the community, David has a special going on right now for the silver membership. You can join for $1 for the first month. Check it out under the members tab. Enjoy! Mike_
Dont worry, almost in every town people look at you weird when you’re trying to be friendly, because most people aren’t friendly. This is why you have to keep applying the exrecises. It will get better. As far as the waitress goes, just because you didnt get the phone number, it doesnt mean it was a failure. Like Marina said, there are different reasons why she didnt give it to you, and casually giving her your number works too. Just make sure your approach is genuine and in the moment, no expectations. If you really want to join the community, David has a special going on right now for the silver membership. You can join for $1 for the first month. Check it out under the members tab. Enjoy!

]]> By: Mike http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/hines-ward-or-larry-the-loser/2021/#comment-31345 Mike Sun, 13 Sep 2009 10:20:27 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=2021#comment-31345 I was kinda in a hurry because the guy who had the car was presuring me to come already. The way I asked the phone number? In a demanding way like David said somewhere. I didn't ask for it like pleasa, can you give me your number? After I made the proposition I said ok give me your number. Don't know I'm always smiling and she had a huge smile every time I talked to her and ignored the rest of the guys who here hitting on her. And my friends told me that all night she was checking me out so I thought that the best way to close that night was with a phone number and after a few day I would text her with a joke that I 'made fun' of her cause she was sitting there, wanted so bad to dance but she couldn't :) Something like that but it backfired. Another thing, I don't have the actual money to be a member cause I only get my school allowance wich is about 12 US dolars. But I would apreciate if I just comment and sometimes I can get some help when I need it. Btw Marina leave a comment about my aproach and keep in mind, in my town it's kinda had when people look at you very weird when you're just trying to be friendly. I was kinda in a hurry because the guy who had the car was presuring me to come already. The way I asked the phone number? In a demanding way like David said somewhere. I didn’t ask for it like pleasa, can you give me your number? After I made the proposition I said ok give me your number. Don’t know I’m always smiling and she had a huge smile every time I talked to her and ignored the rest of the guys who here hitting on her. And my friends told me that all night she was checking me out so I thought that the best way to close that night was with a phone number and after a few day I would text her with a joke that I ‘made fun’ of her cause she was sitting there, wanted so bad to dance but she couldn’t :) Something like that but it backfired.

Another thing, I don’t have the actual money to be a member cause I only get my school allowance wich is about 12 US dolars. But I would apreciate if I just comment and sometimes I can get some help when I need it. Btw Marina leave a comment about my aproach and keep in mind, in my town it’s kinda had when people look at you very weird when you’re just trying to be friendly.

]]> By: Marina http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/hines-ward-or-larry-the-loser/2021/#comment-31344 Marina Sun, 13 Sep 2009 10:00:05 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=2021#comment-31344 Mike Thère could be a lot of reasons, when you just meet someone then you can easily get caught up in the moment and the get a bit scared. Maybe it was the Way you asked for her number. Personally i would have preferred getting the guys number indstead of giving mine. Another time if a Girl hesitate, just smile give her your number and casully say something like take your time and give mé a Call if you want to get together. Mike

Thère could be a lot of reasons, when you just meet someone then you can easily get caught up in the moment and the get a bit scared. Maybe it was the Way you asked for her number. Personally i would have preferred getting the guys number indstead of giving mine. Another time if a Girl hesitate, just smile give her your number and casully say something like take your time and give mé a Call if you want to get together.

]]> By: Mike http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/hines-ward-or-larry-the-loser/2021/#comment-31342 Mike Sun, 13 Sep 2009 09:32:03 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=2021#comment-31342 Charles thanks I'll do that but the actual problem is that I'm doing most of them only most excercises are about writing something about you.My 'problem' is that when I actually talk to somebody I don't know(and by the way it's kinda hard for an 18 year old because people look weird at you, in my city they do), I don't remember all the 'tips' , all the do's and don'ts, I get carried away and very excited :). For example last night at a weeding I tryed talking to a cute waitress. She was busy, but I dared her to dance and kid a little. When I went home I told her there's a dance friday night at some location. She was very excited when?how?how much? but when I demanded the phone number she hezitated and said nnnno. Odd because she was very excited about the ideea. So you see my problem?Hope somebody answeres to this. Charles thanks I’ll do that but the actual problem is that I’m doing most of them only most excercises are about writing something about you.My ‘problem’ is that when I actually talk to somebody I don’t know(and by the way it’s kinda hard for an 18 year old because people look weird at you, in my city they do), I don’t remember all the ‘tips’ , all the do’s and don’ts, I get carried away and very excited :) . For example last night at a weeding I tryed talking to a cute waitress. She was busy, but I dared her to dance and kid a little. When I went home I told her there’s a dance friday night at some location. She was very excited when?how?how much? but when I demanded the phone number she hezitated and said nnnno. Odd because she was very excited about the ideea. So you see my problem?Hope somebody answeres to this.

]]> By: Charles http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/hines-ward-or-larry-the-loser/2021/#comment-31339 Charles Sun, 13 Sep 2009 08:15:11 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=2021#comment-31339 Mike- The best thing I can say to you is to actually apply David's advice and exercises. One at a time, make sure you master each step before going to the next one. It will take time, but you will understand the knowledge; this is not about remembering behaviors, its about learning them until they become natural so you can become a better version of you. Hope that helps. Mike-
The best thing I can say to you is to actually apply David’s advice and exercises. One at a time, make sure you master each step before going to the next one. It will take time, but you will understand the knowledge; this is not about remembering behaviors, its about learning them until they become natural so you can become a better version of you. Hope that helps.

]]> By: Steve-O http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/hines-ward-or-larry-the-loser/2021/#comment-31324 Steve-O Sat, 12 Sep 2009 19:51:14 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=2021#comment-31324 David your right, Hines definitely let it get to him, and once he had a chance to do something about it, you could tell he really let it go. If nothing else he was going to turn a negative thing into a positive thing. He used it as additional motivation. This really can be a great lesson in the dating game too. Love the football comparisons to dating. :) David your right, Hines definitely let it get to him, and once he had a chance to do something about it, you could tell he really let it go. If nothing else he was going to turn a negative thing into a positive thing. He used it as additional motivation.

This really can be a great lesson in the dating game too. Love the football comparisons to dating. :)

]]> By: Ashton Laurent http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/hines-ward-or-larry-the-loser/2021/#comment-31321 Ashton Laurent Sat, 12 Sep 2009 13:30:28 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=2021#comment-31321 Just a thought - Sometimes when there is a behavior you want to change, you can set a short time limit. Let me give you an example. I have a problem with clutter, so I set my timer for 15 minutes and clean like a demon for 15 minutes. Then, when the timer goes off, I stop. Later, I do it again. This way, I am making a change in my environment in small chunks and not getting overwhelmed. I think you can approach a lot of these changes you want to make the same way. If you want to meet women/men, make yourself go out to the grocery store/park/coffee shop. Make a point of talking to one person to start. Don't expect it to go anywhere. Just do it. After a while, you'll get more comfortable talking with new people and you can extend your reach. Just a thought -

Sometimes when there is a behavior you want to change, you can set a short time limit. Let me give you an example. I have a problem with clutter, so I set my timer for 15 minutes and clean like a demon for 15 minutes. Then, when the timer goes off, I stop. Later, I do it again. This way, I am making a change in my environment in small chunks and not getting overwhelmed.

I think you can approach a lot of these changes you want to make the same way. If you want to meet women/men, make yourself go out to the grocery store/park/coffee shop. Make a point of talking to one person to start. Don’t expect it to go anywhere. Just do it. After a while, you’ll get more comfortable talking with new people and you can extend your reach.

]]> By: Mike http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/hines-ward-or-larry-the-loser/2021/#comment-31316 Mike Sat, 12 Sep 2009 06:09:31 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=2021#comment-31316 Hi David. I really want you to answer me.I’ve got a question. How can I remember all the information and knoledge that you give me? In the last podcast you said no young people try to get better from a younger age. I’m just 18 and from Romania…way away and for about 8 month since I heard of you i’ve been listening all the podcasts reading the blogs and the interviews. But it’s kinda too much. Help? i really would be gratefull if you could answer me. This is what I discussed with my girlfriend yesterday. She knows me better than I do, she has more faith in me more than I do. What can I do to remember and fully know myself? I'll try the writing exercise. Hope you will answer will mean a lot to me. Thanks Hi David. I really want you to answer me.I’ve got a question. How can I remember all the information and knoledge that you give me? In the last podcast you said no young people try to get better from a younger age. I’m just 18 and from Romania…way away and for about 8 month since I heard of you i’ve been listening all the podcasts reading the blogs and the interviews. But it’s kinda too much. Help? i really would be gratefull if you could answer me. This is what I discussed with my girlfriend yesterday. She knows me better than I do, she has more faith in me more than I do. What can I do to remember and fully know myself? I’ll try the writing exercise. Hope you will answer will mean a lot to me. Thanks

]]> By: Charles http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/hines-ward-or-larry-the-loser/2021/#comment-31314 Charles Sat, 12 Sep 2009 02:51:24 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=2021#comment-31314 Hey David. Yeh thats true, what happened to that 30-day challenge on sept 1? Great blog, strong finish. How many of us are ready to play the game of life? So many of us want to change certain behaviors, but very few of us actually go through with it. Why? Since we are our toughest critic, the hardest thing to do is to look at ourselves on tape like you put it, and walk that hard but very rewarding journey. It's very inspiring for you to let us know that you too, are still working on your behaviors. Let us know your progress. Thx David. Hey David. Yeh thats true, what happened to that 30-day challenge on sept 1? Great blog, strong finish. How many of us are ready to play the game of life? So many of us want to change certain behaviors, but very few of us actually go through with it. Why? Since we are our toughest critic, the hardest thing to do is to look at ourselves on tape like you put it, and walk that hard but very rewarding journey. It’s very inspiring for you to let us know that you too, are still working on your behaviors. Let us know your progress. Thx David.

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