I know it’s over a week until Halloween, but I wanted all of you to be prepared ahead of time. In today’s podcast I will tell you how you can make this Halloween amazing! More on that in a minute…
Halloween is the night that singles go out to talk to and meet characters who are like people they really want to meet. It’s also the night they go out as the character they’ve always wanted to become.
It’s really funny about Halloween. People get dressed up as what I like to call their “alter ego.”
Women will dress up in lingerie because they want to go out and have sex that night. Men will dress up as a super hero because they want to be a stud around women.
What’s up with the men who dress up as women? Does that mean they need to be women? Who knows.
Halloween is all about having a good time. Most of you, however, are guilty of one thing on Halloween night. You are guilty of chasing the night.
Chasing the night is looking for that one perfect party, and trying in that one night to make up for all those other nights that didn’t work out so well. It’s looking for that Halloween party that is going to deliver the most amazing people, so you can meet the most amazing person of the opposite sex.
In reality, though, Halloween is just one night. That’s it.
Today’s podcast is going to explore how to make the most of Halloween. I’m also going to share some costume ideas with you that will absolutely blow you away. These costumes are going to enable you not only to meet people, but will do something else that is amazing as well. You’ll have to listen to the podcast to find out the whole story.
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Also, if you want to learn how to stop chasing the night, and how to make wherever you are the place everyone wants to be and you the person everyone wants to meet, then be sure to check out my Men’s Mastery Series and my Women’s Mastery Series programs.
Did I miss the costume ideas?
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no QC from EU?
I know, this podcast isn’t about Halloween at all!
Hey everyone — listen to the podcast again … David switched it!!
It IS all about Halloween …. and it’s really good BTW
Check it out!
David, I think if you went as kanye west(smallcase here intentional), you might get beat up, mostly by women. Maybe by some girl dressed as taylor Swift or Pink.
When I was growing up I wanted to be Dracula. Perhaps, consciously or subconsciously because Drac got to bite girls on the neck, at least nibble a little.
Today, some part of me wants to go dressed as a Spartan warrior like King Leonidas or Maximus from Gladiator. Because inside, that’s who I want to be. Except for the dying part.
I went to a college Halloween party at the student center one year just to take pictures & got lots of fun & crazy pics.
One thing that cracked me up was this hot brunette who was dressed like a Playboy Bunny. Well, 5 guys from the men’s swim team came(pun intended) dressed as, guess what? They were all painted white, except each one of them had a big black letter marked or painted on his chest so that when they were standing as a group in the proper order, they spelled “SPERM.” Appropriate for a swim team, huh? lol
So when they spotted the Playboy Bunny girl, they started humming, jumping up & down real fast and then took off after her. When she saw them coming with a big grin on their faces, she tried to run away while laughing, but the sperm team caught her and they all started hugging her in a big huddle.
Hahaha Tony–you’re such a card!
Tony888 – That cracked me up!
That was actually funny. Hahaha.
haha the sperm costume is hilarious!!
David – might you expound upon your “alter-ego” theory and the bravery that results from men donning costumes and suggest that it might be a good tactic to assume the character of someone else when out on the prowl to give yourself that added boost of confidence?
Whew. Long sentence.
But seriously, I’ve tried doing the George Clooney grin, the Daniel Craig strut, amongst other things, and it does two miracles for me: 1) I get out of my head and just ACT with complete panache 2) Whatever happens, happens…and if the outcome, somehow, is negative…it was never my fault, but George’s or Daniel’s.
Some might have an issue with this, saying its a shirking of responsibility, but I really think that men view themselves as lowly creatures and need to heighten their confidence.
Let me know what you think!
good costume:
-make a facebook poster and wear it on your neck. have a little “add me” on the bottom of your photo. ;D I got this from Manson
Jack,
great idea. Yeah I think that acting like James Bond or some other uber-cool star is a good idea.
You have to not be worried about the outcome. All you can do is present yourself in the best light possible and not give a damn.
Of course, I am learning more about dealing with women and people in general but it seems that having a Zen-like detachment to all encounters is the way to go. You want to initially do the thing that seems hard, but the actual process of doing it should be effortless. Ok, ok. I admit it. I read a book called “Zen and the Art of Poker.” lol
I have also read that meeting women and dating are like poker in that they are Zen-like activities. Other Zen-like activities are trading stocks, playing golf, and sales.
Great, I like the Obama’s suggestion from DW.
And the importance of actually dressing in a costume that reflects your personality. Many people think that dressing in a character it’s a false thing do and just for the sake of having fun. People are not used to get embarrased, because they are ashamed sometimes to dress and talk like their idols or whatever. So Halloween is a perfect opportunity to fight this sense of embarrassment, because it is really helpful to overcome shyness.