Comments on: Grow Some Balls!!! http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/grow-some-balls/281/ Sex. Relationships. Dating. That's what I'm talkin' 'bout. Sat, 21 Nov 2009 09:04:02 -0600 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: Jaime http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/grow-some-balls/281/#comment-7839 Jaime Wed, 21 Nov 2007 05:17:19 +0000 http://blog.davidwygant.com/grow-some-balls/#comment-7839 Just a quick comment: you are totally right about Clooney in Ocean's Eleven. First of all, their sense of style is unbelieveable (they dress like the Brits you discussed several blogs ago). But the charisma that he and Brad Pitt exude throughout the movie is SO attractive. I've never really been into Brad Pitt, but I would tear him apart in that movie. Its also interesting to see how Matt Damon's character had picked up a lot of that energy by Ocean's 13. His evolution through the 3 movies is interesting to watch. Anyway, another great post! Just a quick comment: you are totally right about Clooney in Ocean’s Eleven. First of all, their sense of style is unbelieveable (they dress like the Brits you discussed several blogs ago). But the charisma that he and Brad Pitt exude throughout the movie is SO attractive. I’ve never really been into Brad Pitt, but I would tear him apart in that movie.

Its also interesting to see how Matt Damon’s character had picked up a lot of that energy by Ocean’s 13. His evolution through the 3 movies is interesting to watch. Anyway, another great post!

]]> By: Bertie http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/grow-some-balls/281/#comment-7833 Bertie Wed, 21 Nov 2007 03:54:24 +0000 http://blog.davidwygant.com/grow-some-balls/#comment-7833 Damn, thats where I went wrong, I should have been a university instructor. As for the I want more part...welcome to the club. The thing with dating though is that you're looking to connect on a little bit different level. The more you do the first date thing the less nerve wracking it gets. I've personally had really good luck in bookstores. Met the most attractive man behind the counter at a Barnes and Noble once. Had a lovely conversation with a nursing student in the coffee shop at Borders while I was waiting for my coffee date to show up, thank you, David. You have to keep the first date relatively short and keep your options open in case you both decide to go somewhere else and extend the date. You need to remember that going out is about meeting new people not about interviewing for a prospective partner. You meet new people, you have fun, and perhaps something with longevity happens as well. Don't sweat the first date. Damn, thats where I went wrong, I should have been a university instructor.
As for the I want more part…welcome to the club.
The thing with dating though is that you’re looking to connect on a little bit different level. The more you do the first date thing the less nerve wracking it gets. I’ve personally had really good luck in bookstores. Met the most attractive man behind the counter at a Barnes and Noble once. Had a lovely conversation with a nursing student in the coffee shop at Borders while I was waiting for my coffee date to show up, thank you, David.
You have to keep the first date relatively short and keep your options open in case you both decide to go somewhere else and extend the date. You need to remember that going out is about meeting new people not about interviewing for a prospective partner. You meet new people, you have fun, and perhaps something with longevity happens as well. Don’t sweat the first date.

]]> By: Denise http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/grow-some-balls/281/#comment-7811 Denise Wed, 21 Nov 2007 01:23:28 +0000 http://blog.davidwygant.com/grow-some-balls/#comment-7811 David, I recognize that your date had yet to arrive and so chatting with another woman wasn't going to offend her or ruin the evening, etc. But there is something else that concerns me here: It's almost as though "finding women" -- or "finding men," as this situation could clearly be reversed -- is this sort of constant, moment-to-moment search that's being conducted. You're ALREADY ON A DATE and yet you're not finished trying gals on for size for the evening? At any given point in the day, I want to have sex. Perhaps my libido is greater than what society deems women "naturally" have or something, but I want sex more than any man I've ever had sex with wanted it. But 9 moments out of those 10, I'm not LOOKING for a sex PARTNER. I have a million things to do, right? I have 150 university students to teach, I have papers to grade, I have this and I have that. Sure, I'm checking out hot boys' butts all day because that's just what I do, but I'm in no way CONSCIOUSLY seeking out anyone in the grocery store or on campus or at the bank or wherever. How are you supposed to effect change in this kind of mindset? And I can't believe you'd be calm enough on a first date to even notice anything other than your own clammy hands. David, I recognize that your date had yet to arrive and so chatting with another woman wasn’t going to offend her or ruin the evening, etc. But there is something else that concerns me here:

It’s almost as though “finding women” — or “finding men,” as this situation could clearly be reversed — is this sort of constant, moment-to-moment search that’s being conducted. You’re ALREADY ON A DATE and yet you’re not finished trying gals on for size for the evening?

At any given point in the day, I want to have sex. Perhaps my libido is greater than what society deems women “naturally” have or something, but I want sex more than any man I’ve ever had sex with wanted it. But 9 moments out of those 10, I’m not LOOKING for a sex PARTNER. I have a million things to do, right? I have 150 university students to teach, I have papers to grade, I have this and I have that. Sure, I’m checking out hot boys’ butts all day because that’s just what I do, but I’m in no way CONSCIOUSLY seeking out anyone in the grocery store or on campus or at the bank or wherever. How are you supposed to effect change in this kind of mindset?

And I can’t believe you’d be calm enough on a first date to even notice anything other than your own clammy hands.

]]> By: hunter http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/grow-some-balls/281/#comment-7427 hunter Thu, 15 Nov 2007 00:35:32 +0000 http://blog.davidwygant.com/grow-some-balls/#comment-7427 to bertie, I really don't know why men ask that question. Maybe, ,,,they,,,, themselves,,,,, wonder if this world is really, as wild as we hear it is..... I have had women, volunteer the answer, without my asking. And it is usually,,,, when,,,,,,,,,,, I am driving, at 65mph, on the freeway,,,,,wrestling a semi-tractor trailer on each side of my car,,,,,,,,, looking for the correct off ramp.......they blurt this out,,,, making me wonder,,,,,,,,,, how we got to this subject in the first place.... to bertie,

I really don’t know why men ask that question. Maybe, ,,,they,,,, themselves,,,,, wonder if this world is really, as wild as we hear it is…..

I have had women, volunteer the answer, without my asking. And it is usually,,,, when,,,,,,,,,,, I am driving, at 65mph, on the freeway,,,,,wrestling a semi-tractor trailer on each side of my car,,,,,,,,, looking for the correct off ramp…….they blurt this out,,,, making me wonder,,,,,,,,,, how we got to this subject in the first place….

]]> By: David Wygant http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/grow-some-balls/281/#comment-7400 David Wygant Wed, 14 Nov 2007 18:27:45 +0000 http://blog.davidwygant.com/grow-some-balls/#comment-7400 Soriya I knew what my date looked like so i knew it was not her..... Good question though!! Soriya

I knew what my date looked like so i knew it was not her…..

Good question though!!

]]> By: Soriya http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/grow-some-balls/281/#comment-7399 Soriya Wed, 14 Nov 2007 18:22:26 +0000 http://blog.davidwygant.com/grow-some-balls/#comment-7399 David, What would happen if this lady ended up being the one you were going to meet originally? David,

What would happen if this lady ended up being the one you were going to meet originally?

]]> By: Bertie http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/grow-some-balls/281/#comment-7355 Bertie Wed, 14 Nov 2007 06:05:13 +0000 http://blog.davidwygant.com/grow-some-balls/#comment-7355 Hunter, Too few you're frigid, too many you're a slut. There's no good way to answer that one. I'm just sick of going to coffee and and being interrogated about partners. Why ask if you really don't want to know what the answer is. Is it that compelling? Its just not something I'm interested in asking a man. Why do they ask me? Hunter,
Too few you’re frigid, too many you’re a slut. There’s no good way to answer that one. I’m just sick of going to coffee and and being interrogated about partners. Why ask if you really don’t want to know what the answer is. Is it that compelling? Its just not something I’m interested in asking a man. Why do they ask me?

]]> By: hunter http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/grow-some-balls/281/#comment-7353 hunter Wed, 14 Nov 2007 05:56:43 +0000 http://blog.davidwygant.com/grow-some-balls/#comment-7353 to bertie, ...how many previous partners? That is a personal question that you need not answer... to bertie,

…how many previous partners? That is a personal question that you need not answer…

]]> By: hunter http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/grow-some-balls/281/#comment-7352 hunter Wed, 14 Nov 2007 05:50:46 +0000 http://blog.davidwygant.com/grow-some-balls/#comment-7352 to DW, That was a slick maneuver, I will keep it in mind....... to DW,

That was a slick maneuver, I will keep it in mind…….

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