Comments on: Grow Some Balls http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/grow-some-balls-2/1454/ Sex. Relationships. Dating. That's what I'm talkin' 'bout. Tue, 22 May 2012 09:46:16 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: Khiem (DW Coach) http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/grow-some-balls-2/1454/#comment-25398 Khiem (DW Coach) Tue, 31 Mar 2009 02:48:25 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1454#comment-25398 Kismet, How about you put your fears aside and just ask him out once or twice even though he told you it'd be best to stay friends. Even if you guys don't go out, you will know that you went after what you wanted. So there will be no regrets. Kismet,

How about you put your fears aside and just ask him out once or twice even though he told you it’d be best to stay friends.

Even if you guys don’t go out, you will know that you went after what you wanted. So there will be no regrets.

]]> By: Sandra http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/grow-some-balls-2/1454/#comment-25331 Sandra Mon, 30 Mar 2009 22:04:30 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1454#comment-25331 In a better mood now grow some balls we have too many guys on this blog that they have balls bigger than their heads lol In a better mood now grow some balls we have too many guys on this blog that they have balls bigger than their heads lol

]]> By: kismet http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/grow-some-balls-2/1454/#comment-25311 kismet Mon, 30 Mar 2009 19:47:00 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1454#comment-25311 I told him several times and gave reasons why it wouldn't matter if he goes to the marines and suggest he could do national guard instead--which he agreed to. Asking him out...would that make sense after he asked me then told me its best to stay friends? I told him several times and gave reasons why it wouldn’t matter if he goes to the marines and suggest he could do national guard instead–which he agreed to. Asking him out…would that make sense after he asked me then told me its best to stay friends?

]]> By: Khiem (DW Coach) http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/grow-some-balls-2/1454/#comment-25309 Khiem (DW Coach) Mon, 30 Mar 2009 19:40:19 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1454#comment-25309 What do you mean you gave him your word? Just because you told him once you'd date him doesn't mean he really got the message. He bases his decision on your reaction more than just your words. And if you hesitated... then it made him have more reservations. Maybe you should reach out to him and actually ask him out. Sometimes, you got to lead first :) What do you mean you gave him your word?

Just because you told him once you’d date him doesn’t mean he really got the message. He bases his decision on your reaction more than just your words.

And if you hesitated… then it made him have more reservations.

Maybe you should reach out to him and actually ask him out. Sometimes, you got to lead first :)

]]> By: kismet http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/grow-some-balls-2/1454/#comment-25305 kismet Mon, 30 Mar 2009 19:36:33 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1454#comment-25305 Khiem: Thanks. We are still talking although I thought we would ignore eachother after his decision. Right now we're just in a gray zone, not dating but not just friends either. Its confusing because I don't know where to set the lines for him and me, for me and other guys. (But that doesn't mean I will do anything to disrespect our current relationship). Well I gave him my word and he won't take it but we'll see how things go from here. =) Khiem:
Thanks. We are still talking although I thought we would ignore eachother after his decision. Right now we’re just in a gray zone, not dating but not just friends either. Its confusing because I don’t know where to set the lines for him and me, for me and other guys. (But that doesn’t mean I will do anything to disrespect our current relationship). Well I gave him my word and he won’t take it but we’ll see how things go from here. =)

]]> By: Khiem (DW Coach) http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/grow-some-balls-2/1454/#comment-25299 Khiem (DW Coach) Mon, 30 Mar 2009 19:25:18 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1454#comment-25299 Kismet, I hear a lot of what your potential guy wants... what do you want? Just because he told you he might not want to hurt you doesn't mean you can't tell him that you don't mind dating him. You have to learn to date with no expectations. For you to learn to not put so much expectations on outcomes on dating, you got to learn to be grateful... you want to see how much you can learn from each guy, from each relationship. He claims he doesn't want to hurt you... or make you worry... that's his fears talking. It's not his ego... or his desire to take care of you. He's afraid of losing you. How about this? How about you go out with him, date him... and take him for what he can give you. Even if eventually, one of you guys might hurt each other,.... maybe you'll learn to see him for who he was... and really accepted him for what he could give you given the circumstances. And in the end, you'll learn to be grateful for the kind of guy he is... and for the experience, memories, relationship you'd both have... because he was there! And by just being there... he was a gift to you... b/c he gave himself to you, even if it didn't last happily ever after. Kismet,

I hear a lot of what your potential guy wants… what do you want?

Just because he told you he might not want to hurt you doesn’t mean you can’t tell him that you don’t mind dating him.

You have to learn to date with no expectations.

For you to learn to not put so much expectations on outcomes on dating, you got to learn to be grateful… you want to see how much you can learn from each guy, from each relationship.

He claims he doesn’t want to hurt you… or make you worry… that’s his fears talking. It’s not his ego… or his desire to take care of you. He’s afraid of losing you.

How about this? How about you go out with him, date him… and take him for what he can give you. Even if eventually, one of you guys might hurt each other,…. maybe you’ll learn to see him for who he was… and really accepted him for what he could give you given the circumstances.

And in the end, you’ll learn to be grateful for the kind of guy he is… and for the experience, memories, relationship you’d both have… because he was there!

And by just being there… he was a gift to you… b/c he gave himself to you, even if it didn’t last happily ever after.

]]> By: Kick The Can | Dating Tips and Dating Advice by David Wygant http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/grow-some-balls-2/1454/#comment-25279 Kick The Can | Dating Tips and Dating Advice by David Wygant Mon, 30 Mar 2009 17:53:06 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1454#comment-25279 [...] actually calling everyone out today. If anyone has something to say, say it! Remember my “Grow Some Balls” blog from last week? I challenge everyone today who has something to say to “grow some [...] [...] actually calling everyone out today. If anyone has something to say, say it! Remember my “Grow Some Balls” blog from last week? I challenge everyone today who has something to say to “grow some [...]

]]> By: Laura http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/grow-some-balls-2/1454/#comment-25223 Laura Sun, 29 Mar 2009 16:09:51 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1454#comment-25223 K: I am sorry for your loss. Just 'perhaps' he was never the friend you thought him... K:

I am sorry for your loss. Just ‘perhaps’ he was never the friend you thought him…

]]> By: Diego R+R http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/grow-some-balls-2/1454/#comment-25202 Diego R+R Sat, 28 Mar 2009 05:43:03 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1454#comment-25202 First off, thank you David for yet another dead-on blog. I can relate to this kind of situation. A close friend of mine has a very controlling girlfriend. They're engaged now. He lost my respect, as well as his freedom. I don't see him too often anymore, because I just can't stand a man that willingly loses his own control. I do not think they are in love; I think she just needed someone to tie a leash onto and he gave up on himself. GROW A PAIR!! First off, thank you David for yet another dead-on blog.

I can relate to this kind of situation. A close friend of mine has a very controlling girlfriend. They’re engaged now. He lost my respect, as well as his freedom. I don’t see him too often anymore, because I just can’t stand a man that willingly loses his own control. I do not think they are in love; I think she just needed someone to tie a leash onto and he gave up on himself.

GROW A PAIR!!

]]> By: Marina http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/grow-some-balls-2/1454/#comment-25157 Marina Fri, 27 Mar 2009 14:55:47 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1454#comment-25157 Overall I try to not let the things I can't control get to me, and this quote about Love in all shapes and forms has very often turned true. Sometimes way too long after the break, but they somehow find their way back if it was meant to be. If you love somebody, let them go, for if they return, they were always yours. And if they don't, they never were. Kahlil Gibran I don't know if is this quote will be of help to you, but I just wanted to share. A precious bond between two friends is amazing, I really feel your loss. Overall I try to not let the things I can’t control get to me, and this quote about Love in all shapes and forms has very often turned true. Sometimes way too long after the break, but they somehow find their way back if it was meant to be.

If you love somebody, let them go, for if they return, they were always yours. And if they don’t, they never were.
Kahlil Gibran

I don’t know if is this quote will be of help to you, but I just wanted to share. A precious bond between two friends is amazing, I really feel your loss.

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