Comments on: Great Sex But Dont Pump The Dump http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/great-sex-but-dont-pump-the-dump/570/ Sex. Relationships. Dating. That's what I'm talkin' 'bout. Fri, 10 Feb 2012 02:15:04 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v= By: a my http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/great-sex-but-dont-pump-the-dump/570/#comment-47921 a my Sun, 10 Apr 2011 15:40:32 +0000 http://blog.davidwygant.com/?p=570#comment-47921 Actually, a submissive woman is the opposite of how you described them. When I think of submissive, I think of control and the guy is the one that has the control over me. There would be a lot of 4-play, teasing and working me up....... because submissive women are very sexual and in touch with themselves (because they touch themselves:) haha. Not sure if it's true for all subs, but for me, I tend to masturbate a lot so the guy better bring it in bed. He better not be a "Pump & Dump" guy, or what I like to call a Jack Rabbit Man. I have never had sex with a P&D guy. Yuck, it sounds so terrible. Haha I really don't think there would be an opportunity for a session #2 (or 2nd & last chance to bring SOMETHING good) with a P&D guy unless I loved him and he was teachable. Oh, those were some good suggestions for doin it. A+ Actually, a submissive woman is the opposite of how you described them. When I think of submissive, I think of control and the guy is the one that has the control over me. There would be a lot of 4-play, teasing and working me up……. because submissive women are very sexual and in touch with themselves (because they touch themselves:) haha. Not sure if it’s true for all subs, but for me, I tend to masturbate a lot so the guy better bring it in bed. He better not be a “Pump & Dump” guy, or what I like to call a Jack Rabbit Man.
I have never had sex with a P&D guy. Yuck, it sounds so terrible. Haha I really don’t think there would be an opportunity for a session #2 (or 2nd & last chance to bring SOMETHING good) with a P&D guy unless I loved him and he was teachable.

Oh, those were some good suggestions for doin it. A+

]]> By: Lisa http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/great-sex-but-dont-pump-the-dump/570/#comment-16867 Lisa Thu, 31 Jul 2008 03:00:54 +0000 http://blog.davidwygant.com/?p=570#comment-16867 I disagree with the idea of a man constantly asking if something feels good and what he can do to make it better. I think it is better to ask after sex about what touch felt great and what just did not work. Last thing I want to do is have a conversation while having sex. I would feel like I was in that commercial about cell phone reception, "can you hear me now? How about now?" By the way, if your girlfriend is having a hard time reaching orgasm, she can try squeezing her vaginal muscles while grinding on you. Usually, just grinding on you either on top or while underneath you works to stimulate the clitoris. Good luck. I disagree with the idea of a man constantly asking if something feels good and what he can do to make it better. I think it is better to ask after sex about what touch felt great and what just did not work. Last thing I want to do is have a conversation while having sex. I would feel like I was in that commercial about cell phone reception, “can you hear me now? How about now?” By the way, if your girlfriend is having a hard time reaching orgasm, she can try squeezing her vaginal muscles while grinding on you. Usually, just grinding on you either on top or while underneath you works to stimulate the clitoris. Good luck.

]]> By: Mahon http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/great-sex-but-dont-pump-the-dump/570/#comment-16711 Mahon Thu, 24 Jul 2008 07:33:12 +0000 http://blog.davidwygant.com/?p=570#comment-16711 I totally agree with what most of the commentators have mentioned in this blog. I personally used to be a P&D until today. I totally agree with what most of the commentators have mentioned in this blog. I personally used to be a P&D until today.

]]> By: Mahon http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/great-sex-but-dont-pump-the-dump/570/#comment-16710 Mahon Thu, 24 Jul 2008 07:32:54 +0000 http://blog.davidwygant.com/?p=570#comment-16710 I totally agree with what most of the commentators have mentioned in this blog. I personally used to be a P&D until today I totally agree with what most of the commentators have mentioned in this blog. I personally used to be a P&D until today

]]> By: darkpoet http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/great-sex-but-dont-pump-the-dump/570/#comment-16701 darkpoet Thu, 24 Jul 2008 04:34:21 +0000 http://blog.davidwygant.com/?p=570#comment-16701 i can definitely say i'm far from a pump and dumper... too bad some of the women around boston, aren't very open minded.... because i feel i'm a great guy, down to earth guy and they'd probably be surprised at what i could do for them both sexaulity and emotionally. cheers, Joe i can definitely say i’m far from a pump and dumper… too bad some of the women around boston, aren’t very open minded…. because i feel i’m a great guy, down to earth guy and they’d probably be surprised at what i could do for them both sexaulity and emotionally.
cheers,
Joe

]]> By: Jeff http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/great-sex-but-dont-pump-the-dump/570/#comment-16675 Jeff Wed, 23 Jul 2008 19:27:38 +0000 http://blog.davidwygant.com/?p=570#comment-16675 AHAHAHGH! Your term " pump and dump" is hilarious! I really do enjoy your blog and wicked sense of humor David. I'm in my mid 40s and still am embarrased to admit that up until i was 20 I was the king of the P&D.... more acutrately I had trouble lasting longer than a few minutes. I truly owe my love of extended foreplay to this affliction and a wonderful woman who helped me to understand just how small a role intercorse plays in the grand scheme of things. She helped transform me from being a selfish and needy jerk into what i can only describe as a man completely addicted to giving pleasure. Now nothing is more erotic than slowly building desire throughout the day ... a text or phone call during the day , something sexy and short to let her know that I am craving her or how hot she makes me.... later i might brush up against her in a semi-suggestive way while we make dinner... or slowly kiss her neck from behind when she least expects it. It's all about communicating in a mostly non verbal way... that i feel connected to her emotionally ,and to express that in a somewhat subtle way how much I want her physically. David, you are able to articulate so wonderfully , what a any man can do to enhance a woman's sexual pleasure which we all know will only lead to more a more pleasureable experience for himself. To be able to give all of that to a woman who has been subjected to a P&D man , and watch her gradually become more and more comfortable with her sexuality is a huge turn on for me. Hopefully the women who read this blog take the time to educate their minutemen, and the men are open and receptive to the powerful message you have delivered ..... it's a shame that it doesn't reach more and more of us. AHAHAHGH! Your term ” pump and dump” is hilarious! I really do enjoy your blog and wicked sense of humor David.
I’m in my mid 40s and still am embarrased to admit that up until i was 20 I was the king of the P&D…. more acutrately I had trouble lasting longer than a few minutes. I truly owe my love of extended foreplay to this affliction and a wonderful woman who helped me to understand just how small a role intercorse plays in the grand scheme of things. She helped transform me from being a selfish and needy jerk into what i can only describe as a man completely addicted to giving pleasure. Now nothing is more erotic than slowly building desire throughout the day … a text or phone call during the day , something sexy and short to let her know that I am craving her or how hot she makes me…. later i might brush up against her in a semi-suggestive way while we make dinner… or slowly kiss her neck from behind when she least expects it.
It’s all about communicating in a mostly non verbal way… that i feel connected to her emotionally ,and to express that in a somewhat subtle way how much I want her physically.
David, you are able to articulate so wonderfully , what a any man can do to enhance a woman’s sexual pleasure which we all know will only lead to more a more pleasureable experience for himself.
To be able to give all of that to a woman who has been subjected to a P&D man , and watch her gradually become more and more comfortable with her sexuality is a huge turn on for me.

Hopefully the women who read this blog take the time to educate their minutemen, and the men are open and receptive to the powerful message you have delivered ….. it’s a shame that it doesn’t reach more and more of us.

]]> By: Merlyn http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/great-sex-but-dont-pump-the-dump/570/#comment-16666 Merlyn Wed, 23 Jul 2008 04:50:08 +0000 http://blog.davidwygant.com/?p=570#comment-16666 LOL there is so much to learn :D LOL there is so much to learn :D

]]> By: Ken E. http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/great-sex-but-dont-pump-the-dump/570/#comment-16661 Ken E. Wed, 23 Jul 2008 02:53:08 +0000 http://blog.davidwygant.com/?p=570#comment-16661 :) :)

]]> By: Lily http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/great-sex-but-dont-pump-the-dump/570/#comment-16660 Lily Wed, 23 Jul 2008 02:27:36 +0000 http://blog.davidwygant.com/?p=570#comment-16660 I saw your smiley face Barr and I knew you were teasing. I really don't usually express myself online. But, as far as my own personal life, and this is in response to you Ken E. , I do get it, and I do express my love in other ways to my husband. I wasn't looking for help online with that issue. I was responding more to the "Don't Pump the Dump" issue. I saw your smiley face Barr and I knew you were teasing. I really don’t usually express myself online. But, as far as my own personal life, and this is in response to you Ken E. , I do get it, and I do express my love in other ways to my husband. I wasn’t looking for help online with that issue. I was responding more to the “Don’t Pump the Dump” issue.

]]> By: Barr http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/great-sex-but-dont-pump-the-dump/570/#comment-16651 Barr Tue, 22 Jul 2008 21:46:06 +0000 http://blog.davidwygant.com/?p=570#comment-16651 Lily, It was a really good post....Very descriptive.... Only teasing about being more specific. Lily,

It was a really good post….Very descriptive…. Only teasing about being more specific.

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