Comments on: Go In After the Douche Bag http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/go-in-after-the-douche-bag/1107/ Sex. Relationships. Dating. That's what I'm talkin' 'bout. Fri, 10 Feb 2012 02:15:04 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v= By: Sandra Hutchens http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/go-in-after-the-douche-bag/1107/#comment-20419 Sandra Hutchens Mon, 15 Dec 2008 03:22:55 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1107#comment-20419 You know something there is a critic in every corner. You know something there is a critic in every corner.

]]> By: Darryl http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/go-in-after-the-douche-bag/1107/#comment-20413 Darryl Sun, 14 Dec 2008 19:55:57 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1107#comment-20413 That isn't my view of "false confidence" at all. To me it's acting as if you're better than you really are; more of a cockiness/arrogance than anything. The guy that acts like Don Juan/Rico Suave that hasn't been on a date in years. That isn’t my view of “false confidence” at all. To me it’s acting as if you’re better than you really are; more of a cockiness/arrogance than anything. The guy that acts like Don Juan/Rico Suave that hasn’t been on a date in years.

]]> By: K http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/go-in-after-the-douche-bag/1107/#comment-20398 K Sun, 14 Dec 2008 09:45:38 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1107#comment-20398 Darryl - I think that it might be a little closer to "Don't use the same old tired lines that every other guy uses that SOUND rehearsed and don't get the results that you really want." Do try something a little different like some of the things that he has demonstrated in his videos and talked about on this blog. Think about when someone holds the door open for you (a man) when your hands are full - you still say "Thank you" don't you? I know that I always do. When someone says 'Thank you" to me, I always respond with "You're welcome." It's an automatic response. Like many average women, I always used to throw off compliments because I was raised not to seek them, as it seemed unacceptably vain to accept them. That was until several people in my social circle hammered me with a very pointed "for chrissakes, just shut up and say thank you!" It took quite a while, but I can accept a compliment now and actually respond in a way that shows appreciation that someone was thoughtful enough to notice something and comment on it in a positive way. It has also allowed me to give others recognition, thanks, kudos, etc. that I never before felt confident enough to do without sounding like a brown-nosed suck-up. Part of ACTING in a new way is creating new neural pathways in your brain - the acting may feel uncomfortable or strange at first, but over time become familiar and comfortable...like me accepting a compliment. You may not FEEL confident, but sometimes acting a certain way over time will give you a different perspective until finally you no longer have to ACT - you really are just being yourself - it will show though. And to women, we appreciate the effort more than you will ever know. And as for the false confidence? Most of us view false confidence as the guy who says, "You should date me and I make this much $$ and I drive a viper, blah blah blah." Big fat ZERO. Give me a nice guy any day. Darryl – I think that it might be a little closer to “Don’t use the same old tired lines that every other guy uses that SOUND rehearsed and don’t get the results that you really want.” Do try something a little different like some of the things that he has demonstrated in his videos and talked about on this blog.

Think about when someone holds the door open for you (a man) when your hands are full – you still say “Thank you” don’t you? I know that I always do. When someone says ‘Thank you” to me, I always respond with “You’re welcome.” It’s an automatic response. Like many average women, I always used to throw off compliments because I was raised not to seek them, as it seemed unacceptably vain to accept them. That was until several people in my social circle hammered me with a very pointed “for chrissakes, just shut up and say thank you!” It took quite a while, but I can accept a compliment now and actually respond in a way that shows appreciation that someone was thoughtful enough to notice something and comment on it in a positive way. It has also allowed me to give others recognition, thanks, kudos, etc. that I never before felt confident enough to do without sounding like a brown-nosed suck-up.

Part of ACTING in a new way is creating new neural pathways in your brain – the acting may feel uncomfortable or strange at first, but over time become familiar and comfortable…like me accepting a compliment. You may not FEEL confident, but sometimes acting a certain way over time will give you a different perspective until finally you no longer have to ACT – you really are just being yourself – it will show though. And to women, we appreciate the effort more than you will ever know. And as for the false confidence? Most of us view false confidence as the guy who says, “You should date me and I make this much $$ and I drive a viper, blah blah blah.” Big fat ZERO. Give me a nice guy any day.

]]> By: Darryl http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/go-in-after-the-douche-bag/1107/#comment-20381 Darryl Sun, 14 Dec 2008 01:49:48 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1107#comment-20381 David, The stuff you're telling guys TO DO and what NOT TO DO are the same things. DON'T use a rehearsed line; but DO use this line.... PS You say "be yourself", alot of men ARE nervous when approaching women. You say "be confident", not all men ARE confident and a woman can spot false confidence from a mile away. David,
The stuff you’re telling guys TO DO and what NOT TO DO are the same things.
DON’T use a rehearsed line;
but DO use this line….

PS
You say “be yourself”, alot of men ARE nervous when approaching women.
You say “be confident”, not all men ARE confident and a woman can spot false confidence from a mile away.

]]> By: K.C. http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/go-in-after-the-douche-bag/1107/#comment-20219 K.C. Sun, 07 Dec 2008 04:01:35 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1107#comment-20219 Would any of you guys really go up to a total stranger (the woman you're interested in) and say: “okay, I’ve got to know: what the fuck did that guy say to you?" Are you serious!? You'd really open with profanity? All of the women that I know would say that you're probably in the DB class yourself for saying that. I mean does your mother know that you have a potty mouth? Would any of you guys really go up to a total stranger (the woman you’re interested in) and say:
“okay, I’ve got to know: what the fuck did that guy say to you?”

Are you serious!? You’d really open with profanity?
All of the women that I know would say that you’re probably in the DB class yourself for saying that.
I mean does your mother know that you have a potty mouth?

]]> By: Sandra Hutchens http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/go-in-after-the-douche-bag/1107/#comment-20193 Sandra Hutchens Sat, 06 Dec 2008 04:55:02 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1107#comment-20193 Brad I am still laughing my ass off. Maybe she lost her direction and needs to go to the bar of women only catch my drift. Brad I am still laughing my ass off. Maybe she lost her direction and needs to go to the bar of women only catch my drift.

]]> By: Sandra Hutchens http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/go-in-after-the-douche-bag/1107/#comment-20192 Sandra Hutchens Sat, 06 Dec 2008 04:51:16 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1107#comment-20192 I love that brad you said it all when u said that if she does not want to be bothered then go to next one. just like in a doctors office when the nurse says NEXT! I love that brad you said it all when u said that if she does not want to be bothered then go to next one. just like in a doctors office when the nurse says NEXT!

]]> By: Brad http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/go-in-after-the-douche-bag/1107/#comment-20170 Brad Fri, 05 Dec 2008 16:15:16 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1107#comment-20170 Nice... I do this shit all the time. Here's a twist... you could ask, "I'm curious, what's the worse line you've heard all night" I'm all about laughs when I'm out and about. To hell with boring... Nice… I do this shit all the time.

Here’s a twist… you could ask, “I’m curious, what’s the worse line you’ve heard all night”

I’m all about laughs when I’m out and about.

To hell with boring…

]]> By: Sandra Hutchens http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/go-in-after-the-douche-bag/1107/#comment-20169 Sandra Hutchens Fri, 05 Dec 2008 13:00:22 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1107#comment-20169 When it comes to players and trust me I work around a lot of guys can take an exit stage left and not return. I want a man who will treat me like a lady. Maybe those guys need to create a bar of their own. When it comes to players and trust me I work around a lot of guys can take an exit stage left and not return. I want a man who will treat me like a lady. Maybe those guys need to create a bar of their own.

]]> By: Sandra Hutchens http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/go-in-after-the-douche-bag/1107/#comment-20168 Sandra Hutchens Fri, 05 Dec 2008 12:55:43 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1107#comment-20168 If the woman is acting like a douche bag herself maybe she is in the wrong bar. Sometimes women will act like this if they have had a boyfriend to diss them. But also ladies watch out for players. Ladies want to play the game of allowing the men to pick them up should play the game in which they are seeking. If the woman is acting like a douche bag herself maybe she is in the wrong bar. Sometimes women will act like this if they have had a boyfriend to diss them. But also ladies watch out for players. Ladies want to play the game of allowing the men to pick them up should play the game in which they are seeking.

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