Alright, I f*^ked up! I’m not perfect. I was 5-2. 5-2, and I lost my fantasy game too because I tried to maneuver some roster moves that backfired.
Was I angry with myself yesterday during the Colts game? Well it took me a massage, but I got over it.
So, recently I f^*ked up. Today’s blog is going to show you how to f^*k up and enjoy it. Also, be sure to check out the amazing video at the end of this blog that will show you how to transition to sex.
So you f*^ked up. What are you going to do about it?
So many people look back at their “fu^*ked up” childhood and think, “This is the reason I’m allowed to be crazy” or “This is the reason why everyone hates me.”
While there is no doubt that we are programmed by our parents, as adults our f^*k ups are totally on us. It’s all a matter of taking responsibility for your actions.
The truth is that as long as you’re living, you are going to f^*k up. If you are putting yourself out there in life — trying new things, trying to grow as a person and trying to succeed in life — then you are going to f^*k up. It’s going to happen. Period.
The people who succeed in life are those who can admit when they f^*k up and will say to themselves, “Let me learn from this lesson and move forward.” What most people do, however, is play what I like to call “the f^*k up card.”
People allow bad behaviors and choices to continue because they don’t learn their lesson. They will say, “That’s just me. I always f^*k up.”
If you always f^*k up, why don’t you learn from it and move forward? Why don’t you just accept that you f^*ked up and learn a lesson from it?
Winners f^*k up every day, but they actually move forward and learn from them. How many times do you need to same lesson to be put in front of you before you will finally get it?
You need to understand that it’s not making a mistake that is the important thing, but what lesson you learn from it. It’s the changes you make based on the lessons you learn. That is what the real difference is between the winners and f^*k ups in life.
I would not feel bad about the Patriots vs. Broncos game if I were you. Terry Bradshaw picked the Patriots to win on the Jay Leno Show, and I am sure Jay is going to call him out on it tonight. The Indy and Tennessee game was a bit of a blow out, and the Titans were so good last year too. I must say. It was a bad week for football in all levels.
Dave
As no less than Michael Jordan once said, “I’ve failed over and over again, and that is why I succeed.” There is no one who’s wildly successful who hasn’t also f^*ked up, usually pretty spectacularly. Donald Trump, John Elway, The Rolling Stones, you name them.
Awesome video too, although I heard Jay-Z would just more or less pull the girl’s head down…but he’s Jay-Z and we’re not.
Hi guys, recently i’ve been approaching women constantly at shopping mall, bookstore… etc using the power of observation to start a conversation. What i’m still missing here is in the street. I realize that there wasn’t much observation to talk about when a women is walking in the streets? So far, i could only say things like wow, thats a great dress there or i will go direct. Any tips on street that i could start a conversation?
Kelvin-
The same applies to the street. Just observe and be genuine in your approach. Take a day or two or even a week, just sit down, observe, and write down everything that you observe. You dont have to say anything, just observe. As far as practicing the sincerity of your approach, just say hello to people.
Great post David. So many people are scrared to fail, but really the best thing is to fail and learn from it like you said. Life should move in one direction and thats forward. Thanx David.
What you said, Charles. I’ll go a step further and say that if we aren’t f**king up, we aren’t learning. When a baby falls down as s/he is trying to walk, we don’t say “Dude, you f**ked up!” We (AND the baby) accept it as part of the learning process.
Thanks for the advice bro. Will give it a try.
That was a really good video!!!!
Where can I find the rest of it???
oh yea thanks for the share by the way!
Most definitely Clayhalo. Great point, the baby keeps falling and getting back up, until one day they keep walking then eventually start running. Didnt think of it that way. Nice!!!
David- was that a video from the pua summit?
yours howe-
you can find the rest of the video on the member site.
I really enjoyed how you were so open and direct, that’s exactly what we need to hear.
I heard in the pua summit you were the only guy with the real name and most of the guys had weird names:)
Hey John-
That’s what their mother named them after they were born:)
hahhaha howe those guys are too funny man!
Hey Charles-
Thanks a bunch! Do you have to become a member to view it??
David- sorry to hear about your fantasy league:)
I gotta agree with John, i really enjoy how the blog is raw and you don’t edit it, its also a great lesson for us to learn, not to ever edit ourselves.
Clayhalo- nice way to put it! I wish our world would have the same mindset toward us as the baby, and we would be learning so much better!
Jeff- I think few kids are fortunate to grow up in positive environment, but most of us don’t. I really think there should be a class taught on positive psychology to all the parents with a new born.
!mAo @ that photo
hahahah!!!!!!
Hey yours howe-
yes you do. David has some great deals going on. Check ‘em out. Are you subscribed to the newsletter? Hope you are, great deals and lots of info jam packed in there.
I know some “experts” who would brag about 5-2!