Comments on: Give Yourself Permission http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/give-yourself-permission/1690/ Sex. Relationships. Dating. That's what I'm talkin' 'bout. Tue, 22 May 2012 09:46:16 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: Maxx http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/give-yourself-permission/1690/#comment-28785 Maxx Tue, 16 Jun 2009 16:41:34 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1690#comment-28785 But if you not judge you are like you dont care. If one of your friends do something bad and you not judge him he is gonna do the same thing over again. When you can just judge him saying him it wasnt good and try to understand him why he did it. Im not into judging everybody and everything, but i cant imagine myself life without judging, where everything is ok. Like guy who murder someone isnt a murder ? Yes he is. Its judging. We cant escape from this. Like the guys is hitting on you and you arent attracted to him because .... [fill it up] so you judging him. When nobody gonna judge there will be no difference between good and bad. If nobody gonna judge than nobody gonna care. We have to judge to feel the difference between what is white and what is black. But if you not judge you are like you dont care.
If one of your friends do something bad and you not judge him he is gonna do the same thing over again. When you can just judge him saying him it wasnt good and try to understand him why he did it.

Im not into judging everybody and everything, but i cant imagine myself life without judging, where everything is ok.
Like guy who murder someone isnt a murder ? Yes he is. Its judging. We cant escape from this.

Like the guys is hitting on you and you arent attracted to him because …. [fill it up]
so you judging him.

When nobody gonna judge there will be no difference between good and bad. If nobody gonna judge than nobody gonna care.

We have to judge to feel the difference between what is white and what is black.

]]> By: Marina http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/give-yourself-permission/1690/#comment-28783 Marina Tue, 16 Jun 2009 15:30:08 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1690#comment-28783 Maxx, As anything in life we have a choice. It’s a conscious decision to lead a non judgmental life. It’s not that the thought don’t creep in once in a while, but you have to be aware of them and let them go. Granted things people who prey on young one, even I have a hard time I don’t want near me. Judgements really are poison to your own being. When I am around people who constantly judge others I remove myself from them as their thoughts feels like poison in my mind. Next time try to observe how you feel when those judging thought come into your mind. When I observe thoughts that makes me sick to my stomach, then I make it a priority to let them go, as in the long term I believe these will affect my health. Personally I have found the phases in my life when I was not happy and content on my own thats when these thoughts came. Trust me when you reach the point where you are able to make yourself content and appreciate yourself then these judgmental thoughts hardly ever show up. Thats what you really want to work on yourself not others or judge them, it’s not our job. Maxx,

As anything in life we have a choice. It’s a conscious decision to lead a non judgmental life. It’s not that the thought don’t creep in once in a while, but you have to be aware of them and let them go. Granted things people who prey on young one, even I have a hard time I don’t want near me. Judgements really are poison to your own being. When I am around people who constantly judge others I remove myself from them as their thoughts feels like poison in my mind. Next time try to observe how you feel when those judging thought come into your mind. When I observe thoughts that makes me sick to my stomach, then I make it a priority to let them go, as in the long term I believe these will affect my health. Personally I have found the phases in my life when I was not happy and content on my own thats when these thoughts came. Trust me when you reach the point where you are able to make yourself content and appreciate yourself then these judgmental thoughts hardly ever show up. Thats what you really want to work on yourself not others or judge them, it’s not our job.

]]> By: Maxx http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/give-yourself-permission/1690/#comment-28782 Maxx Tue, 16 Jun 2009 14:49:29 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1690#comment-28782 I disagree. I think everyone is jugding people. But maybe not saying it loud. For example. When one girl called me one night to tell me she was just about to go out and have fun with couple who invited her for couple drinks and "some fun" i start to jugde her. She told me she get to know them on internet. ARE YOU GUYS KIDDING ME that you are never judging ? Or maybe i get it wrong. I can understand that she was lonely but if she is looking someone for sex only how worth she is ? If a women tell me that she slept with batalion of guys do you think im not gonna jugde her ? Of course i will. She was like that she might changed or not. But whats gonna be first thing after you hear that ? And if someone spend 10 year in jail for mudres and robery, and go out telling you that, would you hang out with that person ? HELL NO ! You will jugde this guy but not neccessary telling him straight into the eye what you think about him. Its like you are seeing a guy who acts weird [coz maybe he is stressed or whatever] and you think about him he is weird. You are judging him. You dont wanna hang out with him. EVERYBODY JUDGES I disagree. I think everyone is jugding people. But maybe not saying it loud.

For example. When one girl called me one night to tell me she was just about to go out and have fun with couple who invited her for couple drinks and “some fun” i start to jugde her. She told me she get to know them on internet. ARE YOU GUYS KIDDING ME that you are never judging ?
Or maybe i get it wrong.

I can understand that she was lonely but if she is looking someone for sex only how worth she is ?

If a women tell me that she slept with batalion of guys do you think im not gonna jugde her ? Of course i will. She was like that she might changed or not. But whats gonna be first thing after you hear that ?

And if someone spend 10 year in jail for mudres and robery, and go out telling you that, would you hang out with that person ? HELL NO ! You will jugde this guy but not neccessary telling him straight into the eye what you think about him.

Its like you are seeing a guy who acts weird [coz maybe he is stressed or whatever] and you think about him he is weird. You are judging him.
You dont wanna hang out with him.

EVERYBODY JUDGES

]]> By: Khiem/Ken (DW Coach) http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/give-yourself-permission/1690/#comment-28466 Khiem/Ken (DW Coach) Tue, 09 Jun 2009 19:11:32 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1690#comment-28466 I love a woman who knows her body well. My ex-g/f once asked me why I never asked her how many men she's been with. I didn't care! Whether it was a lot or just a few... what mattered to me is her experiences made her into who she is today.... THAT's who I fell in love with. I don't necessarily want a promiscuous woman... but a woman who is proud and comfortable of her sexuality, THAT, I love :) So if you need to explore to find yourself, go for it! I love a woman who knows her body well.

My ex-g/f once asked me why I never asked her how many men she’s been with. I didn’t care! Whether it was a lot or just a few… what mattered to me is her experiences made her into who she is today…. THAT’s who I fell in love with.

I don’t necessarily want a promiscuous woman… but a woman who is proud and comfortable of her sexuality, THAT, I love :)

So if you need to explore to find yourself, go for it!

]]> By: Sandra http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/give-yourself-permission/1690/#comment-28449 Sandra Tue, 09 Jun 2009 11:41:33 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1690#comment-28449 Marina I know what you mean hey did you notice that not many people answered this blog. I wonder why? Later in an email Marina
I know what you mean hey did you notice that not many people answered this blog. I wonder why? Later in an email

]]> By: Marina http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/give-yourself-permission/1690/#comment-28443 Marina Tue, 09 Jun 2009 02:17:36 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1690#comment-28443 Sandra, Remind me not to tell you a secret...LOL you are get at not sharing them here Sandra,

Remind me not to tell you a secret…LOL you are get at not sharing them here

]]> By: Sandra http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/give-yourself-permission/1690/#comment-28440 Sandra Tue, 09 Jun 2009 01:33:56 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1690#comment-28440 Pete You are right about that and me myself and I don't want someone to be the controller of the relationship either...Tell you a secret I have been with a few and today they are history. Pete
You are right about that and me myself and I don’t want someone to be the controller of the relationship either…Tell you a secret I have been with a few and today they are history.

]]> By: Pete http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/give-yourself-permission/1690/#comment-28380 Pete Mon, 08 Jun 2009 19:26:46 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1690#comment-28380 Words of wisdom! for women who want to explore more on the sexual side. David man you post some great topics on your blogs and the best part is it's real life shit thanks for the post! and I agree with Sandra and Marina if your dating some who's like a district attorney tell you you what and what not to do about your sexuality then it's time for you to get yourself out of the court and go find your guy who's gonna be with you and support you this applies both to men and women their are always the judge judys out there. Words of wisdom! for women who want to explore more on the sexual side. David man you post some great topics on your blogs and the best part is it’s real life shit thanks for the post! and I agree with Sandra and Marina if your dating some who’s like a district attorney tell you you what and what not to do about your sexuality then it’s time for you to get yourself out of the court and go find your guy who’s gonna be with you and support you this applies both to men and women their are always the judge judys out there.

]]> By: Sandra http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/give-yourself-permission/1690/#comment-28377 Sandra Mon, 08 Jun 2009 11:23:02 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1690#comment-28377 The type of people you described in your blog are those who like to play on someone emotions and feelings and not respecting themselves in the long run. Are you referring to PUA's that only have time to go out and play the field just to win a woman's affections and discuss with their pals later? The type of people you described in your blog are those who like to play on someone emotions and feelings and not respecting themselves in the long run. Are you referring to PUA’s that only have time to go out and play the field just to win a woman’s affections and discuss with their pals later?

]]> By: Sandra http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/give-yourself-permission/1690/#comment-28376 Sandra Mon, 08 Jun 2009 11:18:46 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1690#comment-28376 I agree with both you and Marina. The were some guys that I met only wanted me for a one night stand and forget the rest. Those are the guys I stay away from. When I am with a man I want to explore every inch of his body and allow him to explore mine. Sex between two people should be a wonderful experience not something for someone else to get their jollies off. I agree with both you and Marina.

The were some guys that I met only wanted me for a one night stand and forget the rest. Those are the guys I stay away from. When I am with a man I want to explore every inch of his body and allow him to explore mine. Sex between two people should be a wonderful experience not something for someone else to get their jollies off.

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