Comments on: Get The Fear Monkey Off Your Back (And Out Of Your Head) http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/get-that-monkey-off-your-back-and-out-of-your-head/2751/ Sex. Relationships. Dating. That's what I'm talkin' 'bout. Tue, 22 May 2012 09:46:16 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: Tony http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/get-that-monkey-off-your-back-and-out-of-your-head/2751/#comment-34884 Tony Tue, 19 Jan 2010 22:46:53 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=2751#comment-34884 It's all about self confidence, women can smell if a man is confident about himself. It’s all about self confidence, women can smell if a man is confident about himself.

]]> By: David V http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/get-that-monkey-off-your-back-and-out-of-your-head/2751/#comment-34810 David V Mon, 18 Jan 2010 11:59:33 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=2751#comment-34810 Hey man great blog as usual :D but I'm a little confused here "Second, I want you to go in front of a mirror and say out loud what those voices do to you." I'm confused at the "do to you" part so should i say out loud how these voices make me feel right? thanks Hey man great blog as usual :D
but I’m a little confused here “Second, I want you to go in front of a mirror and say out loud what those voices do to you.”

I’m confused at the “do to you” part so should i say out loud how these voices make me feel right?

thanks

]]> By: Miguel http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/get-that-monkey-off-your-back-and-out-of-your-head/2751/#comment-34749 Miguel Sat, 16 Jan 2010 04:19:08 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=2751#comment-34749 great post today David! I'll give it a shot. I still got monkeys running around in my head. Thanks! :D great post today David! I’ll give it a shot. I still got monkeys running around in my head. Thanks! :D

]]> By: Greg http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/get-that-monkey-off-your-back-and-out-of-your-head/2751/#comment-34724 Greg Fri, 15 Jan 2010 20:04:06 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=2751#comment-34724 What Pete said really resonates with me. If I'm not on my game with fitness/work, etc, how can I expect my personal life to fall into place? It doesn't add up. I've always seen relationships and dating as a reward for putting hard work into your own life. What Pete said really resonates with me. If I’m not on my game with fitness/work, etc, how can I expect my personal life to fall into place? It doesn’t add up.

I’ve always seen relationships and dating as a reward for putting hard work into your own life.

]]> By: Pete Davis http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/get-that-monkey-off-your-back-and-out-of-your-head/2751/#comment-34721 Pete Davis Fri, 15 Jan 2010 15:42:04 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=2751#comment-34721 I believe that success with women is part of the larger picture of being and feeling like a man. Find out what makes you feel most like a man - outside of being with a woman. Do more of that. Do it better. Bring everything you have to it. Personally, I need challenge. I've found that the more I'm challenged, the more I crave it, the more I seek it. And so I look for it in everything I do, whether it's my work, my hobbies and certainly in the gym while I train. I need that feeling. I need to feel that I've gone out there and given it my best, that I've worked to be the very best I can be for that hour I'm in there. The more I seek out and respond to challenge, the more masculine I feel. And that, in turn, permeates everything. It allows me to be much more relaxed, fun and funny with women. Introspection is a good thing, but don't get too caught up with what's going on in your head. If you get out there and do what makes you feel like a man, the beliefs that have been holding you back will eventually float to the surface and become conscious. And once you're aware of them, they'll no longer control you. So do both. Look inward. But venture outward. I believe that success with women is part of the larger picture of being and feeling like a man. Find out what makes you feel most like a man – outside of being with a woman. Do more of that. Do it better. Bring everything you have to it.

Personally, I need challenge. I’ve found that the more I’m challenged, the more I crave it, the more I seek it. And so I look for it in everything I do, whether it’s my work, my hobbies and certainly in the gym while I train. I need that feeling. I need to feel that I’ve gone out there and given it my best, that I’ve worked to be the very best I can be for that hour I’m in there.

The more I seek out and respond to challenge, the more masculine I feel. And that, in turn, permeates everything. It allows me to be much more relaxed, fun and funny with women. Introspection is a good thing, but don’t get too caught up with what’s going on in your head. If you get out there and do what makes you feel like a man, the beliefs that have been holding you back will eventually float to the surface and become conscious. And once you’re aware of them, they’ll no longer control you.

So do both. Look inward. But venture outward.

]]> By: Kevin http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/get-that-monkey-off-your-back-and-out-of-your-head/2751/#comment-34717 Kevin Fri, 15 Jan 2010 10:42:44 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=2751#comment-34717 Thanx Coach Kim, Perhaps what I was thinking would help someone else who is going through the same thing when I was in my late teens and early 20's when the chatter was really bad. I discovered I was the only one making a big deal out of it, Let's face it, cute women get approached and asked out all the time,it's nothing new to them. Thanx Coach Kim, Perhaps what I was thinking would help someone else who is going through the same thing when I was in my late teens and early 20′s when the chatter was really bad. I discovered I was the only one making a big deal out of it, Let’s face it, cute women get approached and asked out all the time,it’s nothing new to them.

]]> By: Matrix http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/get-that-monkey-off-your-back-and-out-of-your-head/2751/#comment-34711 Matrix Fri, 15 Jan 2010 06:53:10 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=2751#comment-34711 The best way to get that "monkey" out of your head is to go out and fail. seriously, experience what scares you and you'll be a lot stronger for it -Matrix The best way to get that “monkey” out of your head is to go out and fail.

seriously,

experience what scares you and you’ll be a lot stronger for it

-Matrix

]]> By: Coach Kimberly http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/get-that-monkey-off-your-back-and-out-of-your-head/2751/#comment-34710 Coach Kimberly Fri, 15 Jan 2010 06:03:26 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=2751#comment-34710 Kevin--love your insight and comment. Actually, not having the internet probably helped as people nowadays often hide behind the computer and don't put things into action! It's great that you made efforts to talk with women. There is no failure in rejection...it's something to learn and grow from. When you feel good about yourself and the monkey chatter goes away, being "rejected" won't matter! Kevin–love your insight and comment. Actually, not having the internet probably helped as people nowadays often hide behind the computer and don’t put things into action! It’s great that you made efforts to talk with women. There is no failure in rejection…it’s something to learn and grow from. When you feel good about yourself and the monkey chatter goes away, being “rejected” won’t matter!

]]> By: Steve http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/get-that-monkey-off-your-back-and-out-of-your-head/2751/#comment-34701 Steve Fri, 15 Jan 2010 02:53:56 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=2751#comment-34701 That make sense coach Ken nice way to put it I needed to hear that! That make sense coach Ken nice way to put it I needed to hear that!

]]> By: Kevin http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/get-that-monkey-off-your-back-and-out-of-your-head/2751/#comment-34700 Kevin Fri, 15 Jan 2010 02:42:51 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=2751#comment-34700 I used to get real bad monkey chatter in my head...How did I overcome it when the internet wasn't even invented yet? Simple. I'd say to myself "It's not like she's ever been asked out before!" Then I'd ask her out and get rejected...lol. But I always patted myself on the back cause I made the effort which is more than alot of people do. Of course now that someone like David is around I know how to do it correctly. I used to get real bad monkey chatter in my head…How did I overcome it when the internet wasn’t even invented yet? Simple. I’d say to myself “It’s not like she’s ever been asked out before!” Then I’d ask her out and get rejected…lol. But I always patted myself on the back cause I made the effort which is more than alot of people do. Of course now that someone like David is around I know how to do it correctly.

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