The gathering was so boring and it was held inside a Chinese Restaurant. It took us about two to three hours and then Goodbye!

At least three among us brought a Digitalized Camera and one of them was me. Since the night was so boring I used my time taking group pictures during and after the gathering. I think my camera is technically more advanced that was why others requested for the group pictures of the whole attendees.

After the gathering, few of my co-workers gave their email address so that I can send them their pictures.
I compiled all the pictures in a compact disc and gave it to my lady co worker who initiate the party to look at it first before others could see it. What she did was she let somebody to see it first beacuse she has no computer. The next day somebody, alady worker gave me a hug and asked for the copy of the CD. She likes the photos and the soudtract I put on it.

Somebody brought a laptop and they watched the CD in the lunchroom. Everyone was asking for a copy of that CD and for no cost I gave them waht they want.

I have no idea that there were some group of men/ co worker who were influencial I would say, started
a bad joke aginst me. Even our supervisors showed bad feelings against me. I became victim of bad circumstances. The party was not my idea. It was a big nightmare for me and I complained about it. Nobody can expalined about the bad reactions of those person. I transferred to other branch just to avoid those group. I think, political due to unionized. or envy and jelousy are the root cause

I believe that what is really missing in people’s lives is joy – and not the sissy, prissy kind. I read this blog because it is touching the same string, albeit in a more earthy and very ‘guy’ kind of way. The message seems to be “put it out there”. If you are not getting the desired results, then change, evolve, experiment – and put something else out there! Seems like this blog provides some pretty good ideas for everyone. Remember what Einstein said about doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results being a sign of insanity.

Seems that real generosity should not involve the expectation of payback in any way – otherwise it’s just a transaction – not a true gift. While it can be about what you give or share or expose of yourself, it’s not always about you (hello – reality check). Sometimes it’s about how you allow others to be when they are around you. Letting someone else feel safe or fearful or smart or foolish without repercussions (like ridicule) – free to be themselves and give voice to that person inside that they never let out.

Can any act be truly selfless? Maybe – maybe not. Check the intent and decide for yourself. You may never know if the intent belongs to another’s act. There are people who are hooked on “doing good” in the world and it can be an addiction that allows them to take the focus off themselves but at its core, they are really doing it for entirely selfish reasons – whatever they are – not really my concern or interest. What kind of karmic stuff are you throwing out into the universe – dating or otherwise?

I’m kidding….

I see what you are saying. I’m probably pointing out the obvious here but I think what the blog is about is eliminating selfish motives. Whereas wanting hapiness for someone else is an honourable and worthwhile motive. But I think you may be right, there isn’t any action that passes by that doesn’t have some form of motive behind it. Human beings make decisions based on reasons (whether reasonable or not). Of course there may be instances where actions are taken recklessely, whereby no consideration is given to future consequences and thus a motive may be inconsequential. Just my thoughts

Yes.

Yes, I would.