yesterday i went for the casual flirting via SMS.. i told him to stop stripping his clothes for me
cause when he changes his uniform he sometimes CASUALLY (yeah right) comes out of the men’s wardrobe without his shirt on when he knows i’m standing in the hallway.. damn, he’s hooot!
he said he wouldn’t stop stripping for me.. etc etc.
it’s soo much fun to just flirt right now.. made me realize i’m not ready for anything serious right now..
i’ve never been like this though..

life is funny! huh..

From a woman’s perspective, I LOVE this idea of the beach walk at night for a date … and I actually like that it’s a “free” date as well, because then you don’t have any of the “who pays” and “how much is he spending” uncomfortableness on a first date.

I also agree, that I can think of few other things that are more romantic than this would be.

Great idea!

How about you do a casual hang out with him outside of work to see if you guys click… and then you can decide if he’s worth becoming a booty mate.

If everything’s for my ‘sake’ I’d be half-seas-over to Japan by now :p

Today its my birthday, and I want to thank you for the positive and empowering influence your teachings and work had in my life this past year.

Its authentic, fun, positive people like you that make the difference. People are becoming too manipulative just to get things (validation, sex) from each other… and that’s completely unnecessary. The PUA stuff its just a big brainwash that kills people natural power of attraction and connection. Create the life you desire, do the things that you love, love yourself and have compassion for everybody. For me, that’s the REAL key and secret.

But hey, you have to confess… Daphne taught you everything you know, didn’t she?

I wish you all the best.

now, i was supposed to post this comment on the “soulmate” blog.. but it’s gone :O can’t find it..
anyways, i have a few questions as to finding your bootymate.. or, not finding per say.. here’s the thing, there’s this guy at my work who has been single for as long as i have, he was in a relationship (they were engaged even!) with his ex (also a friend of mine) for FIVE YEARS.. compared to my last relationship that lasted for a little over a year..
so.. he asks me: “what do you do when you’re single? i mean.. i want SEX!”
i replied: “me too! damn, i’ve been feeling like this for a month now!!”

then we started talking about sex and relationships…i ended up suggesting for him to make bootycalls.. haha

but lately he’s been flirting a lot with me, and i feel like i’m getting mixed signals from him. like yesterday i asked him “How’s your bootycall situation going?” he said that he was OK with hit, he has his hands.. lol!! he’s single and horny, not desperate.. i agreed with him! cause that’s how i feel

damnit, we’re both single and horny.. who says we’re desperate if we have sex?! on the other side, i have inhibitions.. i think we’re both feeling that sex and relationship go together, if you know what i mean? he’s now single for the first time in a VERY long time, and i don’t think he can have sex with someone he does not have feelings for..
same goes for me..
and yet we’re flirting with each other!!

what do to? a part of me wants to just do it!
anyone?? has anyone been in a similar situation? please do help..

haha, no, i’m not desperate at all! (and this is so the wrong blog to post a comment like this on, but i seriously cannot find the “right” blog)

Where have you been hiding yourself, for Pete’s sake?? (Who’s this Pete, and how come everything’s for his sake?! )

hey guys its me crazy bob