Forget Your New Year’s Resolutions!
January 6, 2010 
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We have finally made it. We’re in the 10s! Wow, the 10s.
Does that mean that this year everyone will be dating a 10? Well, you will be because you are now dating in the 10s and “10s” will be your mantra. Perhaps your New Year’s resolution will be “I’m going to date a 10 in 10.”
Anyway, and all kidding aside, I bet all of you are curious about what I have to say about 2010 and your New Year’s resolutions. If you’ve been reading my recent blogs, you know that I think New Year’s resolutions are bullshit.
So in today’s podcast, I’ve got a kick in the ass for you. What you will hear in this podcast will grip you, will move you and will really wake you up in the RIGHT way as you start out this new year.
I’ve got a couple of special guests with me on this podcast who will help you get 2010 started off with a bang. Hopefully, 
it will be a bang with someone else, and not just a self-induced bang.
To find out what this is all about, click here and listen now:
Don’t let 2010 be another year full of regrets. Take control of your dating life NOW by investing in yourself with my Men’s Mastery Series and Women’s Mastery Series programs.
David is it 010 or 10 just curious:0 ???
Love today’s podcast it was direct and to the point, and you are right I am not doing half of the stuff that I planned for so my new plan is doing something small each and every single day.
Howe- it makes a difference if you do it in small doses. I find it really funny how to David said fuckin Cinderella.
Steve-
whats your goal for this year?
You will not believe David how many people are joining the fitness center first few months and wait for two more months you see a huge dropout, its just crazy. I gotta say human beings are predictable.
I agree Rick one of my buddy is a personal trainer and first few months he becomes workaholic b/c that’s when he is able to sell in quantities compare to other months.
Jacob- I’m curious what are some of your goals if you don’t mind sharing it with us?
ya its crazy Jacob.
Jacob
Why dont you share some of your goals with everyone that way i can see them in black and white and hold you to them:)
Yea Jacob that would be cool to see your goals and how a coach plans his new years!
Dont let my balls drop???
is that a inside joke???
Howe:
This year I want to be in a special relationship, so I want to find that special someone.
Secondly- I want to move out of my area, which will take some time.
At last- I want to work on my innergame more.
Rick- I don’t mind at all, plus now David is holding me accountable:)
hahaha Jacob- is that mean David kicks your butt if you don’t get it right LOL
Steve= those are great goals, mine is kind of similar to yours. I want to find that special someone as well, not sure if it will happen this year though.
For me some of my goals are continuation from 2009. I didn’t set any special goals for this year, like David mentioned I try to live each day like a new year, and follow through with all the small goals daily.
Like many of you I have made my mistakes enough times, so now I take those lessons with me and just live.
So this year some of my main goals are to open myself up to you guys more, some of guys don’t know me as much as you know David. I want to connect with my soul and spread the love all over the world. I want to take you all to the deeper dimension of truth, love and beauty as I continue to grow as a coach. I just want to give give and give until there is nothing left of me. So I can’t wait to coach those whom I haven’t met.
dmn Jacob that’s deep man, I am with you, David and the crew all the way and ready for that guidance.
Jacob- I respect that, that’s true it be nice to see more of you this year, and lets spread the love like you said!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Jacob- I respect that, that’s true it be nice to see more of you this year, and lets spread the love like you said!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
ya howe I get my butt kick sometimes which I enjoy b/c of the growth:)
Very cool jacob
Is david a good person to work for?
I can picture him as tough love
And Howe what you mean you are not sure about your goal of having that amazing woman?
Joe- Thanks man. I always enjoy working with him and rest of our crew. I feel like we have a great crew at Camp David. And sometimes its tough love which I totally understand and nonresistant about it.
Joe-what are some of your goals for this year?
Howe- you must believe and write like you know that it will manifest!
Thats my weekeness Jacob, sometimes i just dont’ believe it.
Joe- are you the Joe from Tennessee?
Jacob- I will always know you as my little Kubbie:)
David- hysterical podcast today! How is the love life?
And to the rest of the blog readers, how was your new years?
Lisa- what is a Kubbie, is that your vibrator:)
Jimmi-
I like the way you think you never know it could be:)
David
I’m a new reader just found out about you a week ago from one of your yahoo article, and I wanted to mention your advices resonate so much with me. Thanks for all the wonderful article. I wish there were more woman’s videos. Anyway keep up the great work!
guess who is back and back again, Lisa is back, tell your friends:)
Lisa good to have you back. I meant to say Horny Lisa good to have you back:)
my new years was pretty good, how was your new years was it orgasmic?
Howe- you never stop boy, its always sex sex and sex for you right:) Well new years was very orgasmic, that’s all I will share on the blog.
Lisa- you have way with men, now howe is going out of control now what are we going to do about this crisis LOL
Rick- I think the solution is simple, I’ll put him in my friend category:)
That’s really funny Lisa you just crushed all of Howe’s dream to have one night stand with you LOL
That’s to bad Lisa you put me in the friend zone you will miss all the amazing fantasy I had about you that could have come to a reality:)
What is going on here I just stpeed out and now this is about sex LOL
Jacob
I thought david was about tough love. I love his self love product the second part to whats your excuse.
It really hit home so i was really curious about how he was in person.
Do you get to spend a lot of time with him?
Howe- whats your fantasy about me?
howe- well done with the intrique:)
Lisa- Iam getting turned on by now……..
First person to get Lisa off tonight on the blog within next hour gets free halfen hour coaching with me.
Awesome podcast!!! Great car analogy.
Thanks for sharing the knowledge, David + friends.
Are you serious Jacob?
Just kidding what you think I;m nuts like howe lol
I’m seriously up for it Jacob, this time I believe I can get Lisa off tonight LOL
I don’t think howe will be worth my time I like a guy that can last for hours and hours.
Very funny proposal Jacob.
Where is coach Ken today? I wonder what he would suggest Howe to get Lisa off tonight?
I don’t know where Coach Khiem at but I will try to get hold of him.
Its funny this blog as always turning into a chat room. I am out for a bit talk to you guys soon.
c ya Jacob
I read one of the comments in the top about Howe not believing himself, so my question is how can a guy build a strong solid belief in himself?
Steve-
pretty cool goals. The only thing I would say is if you put your last goal first, meaning work on yourself first, the other two goals will sure to follow
Charles-
That’s a great point, I totally agree with you, I realize that if I don’t have a solid inner foundation other things will eventually fall apart its kind of like building a bridge.
Hey, If you would I’d like you guys to get into more about the idea of how people use money as an excuse for not doing more important things that they need to get done. I feel like I use money as an excuse sometimes, and I would love if you would talk about that topic more, I would greatly appreciate it!!
Thanks,
Matt Bernstein
Charles- what are some of your goals for this year?
Matt- give me some examples of how you use money as an excuse.
I agree that there are so many people use money as an a excuse to not live fully, they believe you can’t enjoy life without having tons of money, which is not the right mindset to have if you want to be more successful in life.
Well if think about it I would not be where I’m today if I didn’t invest my time in the blog to the products. I think some people have the tendency to just wait for everything in life to be perfect, just like waiting to live a great life when they have certain amount of money.
Matt- Think about all the things that you missed out on life b/c of that thought about money?
or you can say because of that excuse about money?
Jacob-
I am in debt to my father, close to 8 grand. I use that as an excuse and its in the back of my mind every time I go out on a date, go out with my friends, or buy anything that will improve my life (Master Communicator, which I bought and love) or to just buy myself something to make me happy. I definitely stay in less and go out on less dates because I meet less women because of all the money I think I would have to spend. It all adds up. I started up my own business last year, and I want to work on that too. It all adds up, and it all costs money. I obviously want to pay back my father, and I just don’t think I deserve to be spending money on anything for myself until I pay him back. I mean, I make weekly payments of $100, but, I don’t think thats enough.
Thank you,
Matt
Also, after reading one of David’s blogs he wrote about using herbs and health products. If he would let us in on some of the herbs and other health products he uses that would be great. Thanks!!
Steve-
my goal is pretty much the same as last year, staying disciplined. Although its one goal, i have found that working on it everyday has helped achieve anything I desire. So basically everything else falls under the Discipline umbrella!
I made a New Year’s resolution to quit smoking weed. It took me a few days to kick it, (after 30 years!) but I succeeded and now it’s been two years, drug free! Thanks for the pep talk!
Todd- I challenge you to do it for week.
Same here go Todd lets see if you can do it for week!
Sorry Todd I think I misread what you wrote, but well done on the two years!
I feel better I’m not the only one so did Rick I think:)
my new years resolution is to stop spending all my money on beer and hookers…I’m kidding,or maybe not
Wow go coach Jacob…way to start reaching your goals with this blog:)
debra–stay tuned…we are about to launch some really great stuff for women..including the videos. So as a woman, what topics would you like to see covered in the videos?
Coach Kimberly
I want a topic about approaching men,nowdays guys are so terrified to come talk to a girl it angers me(its even worse if their really cute)
My resolutions?Really didn’t have any.
The thing that I want to get rid of is the fact that everyday I go out and see girls checking me out but I can’t budge.I can’t do anything if I’m not in my enviroment. Can’t go over there. And you know what’s funny?I really am the guy that women check out and stuff and if I’m at my dance course or something, I talk a lot and women like it. But what happens to me when I’m on the street and have nothing to talk about….I suck at it.Even at McDonalds I find easy ways to start a conversation cause I have an angle or something.But if I see someone on the street that I’m really atracted I can’t do anything.
I beat myself up everytime but my “excuse” was and actually is that I’m 18 and will grow.But..I really want to get rid of it
Aproach anxiety?Maybe but only on the street. I keep telling myself to force me go walk up to a girl and start a conversation.Who knows when that will happen.
Oh yeah…the exception to the rule is that I talk to everyone IF I have a friend with me.Then I have the guts…And that friend or person could be anybody…I just can
Matt Bernstein,
How about you stop thinking about how much you are missing out b/c you don’t have money and instead, think about how you can afford things you want to do?
By asking the right question, your energy gets put into the right (helpful) mind set to get you to succeed!
And Howe, you can only believe if you constantly reinforce the mindset with action. Are you doing anything to really reinforce the belief?
Belief alone doesn’t get you anywhere.
-Ken
Thank you, I appreciate your advice. I will start today to change mindset from thinking about things I am miss out on to how I can afford the things I want to do!
Thank you Ken,
Matt
Thanks Coach Kimberly:)
Joe
The self-love product is just superb, I can’t wait to tell you how many emails I get about that daily. I do spend quite some time with him.
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