Comments on: Ego

By: Kitten

Kitten — Fri, 12 Dec 2008 23:58:06 +0000

Gene:

Have to say 120lbs at 5ft6 is slightly underweight even in a Asian standard, and that’s a 19 BMI, what? you said you can’t find this BMI term in your “book”? well then please do some search and research on internet.

You’re helping abused women and children, good for you, hope you won’t refuse helping overweight abused woman since you can’t deal with them. sizism has no much difference from racism…….and wish you’ll lucky enough that won’t end up with refusing by a gorgeous petite woman just because you’re over 55/ not making so much money….

but seriously, I think this overweight problem really depends on where you go, I live in Portland and people here are just slim and skinny.

By: victoria

victoria — Mon, 17 Nov 2008 23:11:01 +0000

oh, the above comments sound very harsh to my ears!
I live in not country, but sub. I was amazed to see alot of Attractive men here! I think Jessica lives LOW part of the country so that is why you saw so many overweight people. Why not quit that job and move back to NYC if you afford today!
would you care to tell how much you weight? never mind! I also think you went to the wrong shopping mall either. Go to a nice Dep. store and you may see some slim people!

By: Jessica

Jessica — Mon, 17 Nov 2008 14:38:10 +0000

Hunter,
Most Americans are indeed overweight. It is not just statistics.
I didn’t think this way when I lived in New York City. In New York most of the people looked skinny, at least they looked skinny to me.
Since I moved to the country I realized that statistics is correct. Most of the people I see in my office or in a shopping mall are very overweight. It is not only because everyone drives here. I think, it has something to do with the food people eat.

By: gene

gene — Mon, 17 Nov 2008 06:30:15 +0000

I think what you say is true. I can put on weight but when I get more then 10lbs over I take it right back off and I can take it off in less then 4 weeks. Deb says 120lbs at 5ft6 is underweight well not in my book.

By: hunter

hunter — Mon, 17 Nov 2008 06:00:03 +0000

According to statistics, more and more americans are overweight. Some do try to lose weight. Sad to say, most overweight people I have met have anger/depression issues.

By: Deb

Deb — Mon, 17 Nov 2008 04:58:30 +0000

Please do not add me to your prayer list, but thanks anyway. I have good friends and family for that. Take care of yourself. Best of luck.

By: gene

gene — Mon, 17 Nov 2008 04:33:06 +0000

Well my Dear I just spoke the truth. If she was maimed in an accident she would still be my love. I still love my ex wife and still pray for her. I stayed with her for 13 years and 3 children untill she decided that staying at home with the kids for 12 years as I supported her wasnt good enough, she went and found a boyfriend, in the first 6 years of our divorce she went through 11 live in boyfriends so maybe it wasnt my fault. Her own children will not speak to her and I have never said anything derogatorie about her in front of my children. I am sorry but I can not deal with lies and can not deal with overweight out of shape females. Does that make me evil or wrong? I am sorry if you feel that staying in shape is wrong. I have many friends and have time and again helped women and kids that were abused with out ever asking for anything in return. My exs 2 sisters refused to testify for her and told her they knew she was lieng and are still my friends. There mother left them at 16 and 17 to move in with her girlfriend. I brought them to my home and supported them and made them finish school. So I guess I am just a twisted ego driven person. I will pray for you too. Gene

By: Deb

Deb — Mon, 17 Nov 2008 04:09:46 +0000

Gene… maybe they were so attracted to you and your well maintained 6ft, 180lb masterpiece of a body that they just had to ‘lie’ to you to meet you. If you fell in love with your perfectly petite woman, and then she unfortunately was mamed in an accident, would you still find her attractive enough, or would you drop her to the curb? So shallow. So sad. I think you have a little bit of ego churning, and a lot of anger. fyi; 5’6″ and 120 lbs. is on the average 10 pounds underweight according to health guideliness. But, I guess if that is what makes you happy, good luck.
PS Respect? Women? Children? Abuse? guilt? ick

By: gene

gene — Sun, 16 Nov 2008 06:13:50 +0000

EGO? Misrepresentation.
I quit online dating because of finding that most of the females couldnt tell the truth. They said they were petite( but weighed 275 lbs) I finally looked the word up in the dictionary. Petite, Having a small trlim figure One even told me that all of her friends said she was petite and she was 5ft9 and weighed 250 lbs. I am sorry but I like the petite women and have never dated a woman over 5ft6 or over 120lbs. Am I supposed to excuse them for lying and take them out even though I am not attracted to them in any way. I am 58 and I work hard to stay in shape 6ft 180lbs. I am a kind and gentle man and want to hurt no one but I hate lies. I treat any woman with respect and expect everyone else to do the same. I have never abused a woman or a child and will not stand for it.

By: vern siang

vern siang — Sat, 15 Nov 2008 02:55:18 +0000

hi khiem,

yeah… will do. I take your words an adviced too. thank you