Comments on: Don’t Be Needy http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/dont-be-needy/3586/ Sex. Relationships. Dating. That's what I'm talkin' 'bout. Tue, 22 May 2012 08:31:39 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: david http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/dont-be-needy/3586/#comment-49374 david Mon, 30 May 2011 22:06:37 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=3586#comment-49374 hi guys, I have been in an online relationship for about a lil more than a year..now shes quite far away from me..and we usually talk it out on skype..or any other messengers..but its really just impossible for me to find myself at fault for being needy..until i read about it..but its just so hard to let go off of that feeling..you want her laughs to be with you, smiles to be for you and eyes glued to you... In my case I give her undivided attention , so i use to find it fair to expect the same..but recently i realised..not everyday she wants to talk about, how her day was...or how was work..she'd just wana watch a movie and sleep peacefully... Now I'am a die-hard lover but later on..today..infact a few mins back..i realised I might even be a kill joy..and Duh! a needy lover.. You guys are doin a great job mentioning various dynamics of a relationship.. I did a lot of homework to learn myself and my partner..Enneagram , Myer Brigates, astrology, face reading , palm reading...and now many things are quite clear...but that doesnt make em them easier to accept.. But I have def learned alot today, thanks to u guys sharing you personal relationships and knowledge.. Great Job peeps, Angel in disguise art thou =) hi guys, I have been in an online relationship for about a lil more than a year..now shes quite far away from me..and we usually talk it out on skype..or any other messengers..but its really just impossible for me to find myself at fault for being needy..until i read about it..but its just so hard to let go off of that feeling..you want her laughs to be with you, smiles to be for you and eyes glued to you…

In my case I give her undivided attention , so i use to find it fair to expect the same..but recently i realised..not everyday she wants to talk about, how her day was…or how was work..she’d just wana watch a movie and sleep peacefully…

Now I’am a die-hard lover but later on..today..infact a few mins back..i realised I might even be a kill joy..and Duh! a needy lover..

You guys are doin a great job mentioning various dynamics of a relationship..

I did a lot of homework to learn myself and my partner..Enneagram , Myer Brigates, astrology, face reading , palm reading…and now many things are quite clear…but that doesnt make em them easier to accept..

But I have def learned alot today, thanks to u guys sharing you personal relationships and knowledge..

Great Job peeps, Angel in disguise art thou =)

]]> By: Santiago http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/dont-be-needy/3586/#comment-48987 Santiago Wed, 11 May 2011 00:17:10 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=3586#comment-48987 Neediness is really fascinating. I wish I knew then what I'm starting to understand now. Tragic as it may be me. Men wreak neediness like bad onions sitting in the sun. I didn't realize women were so receptive to emotions. One day I witnessed first hand a grown "man" begging and following and offering his entire being to a woman he didn't know shit about. I've been there too. I still get stung by the needybug but fuk I'm human too. Neediness to me in my opinion is an emotional overload of negative "feeling". You could be doing everything right then get stung by Mr.Needybug and that instantly kills all attraction. You just painted red flags all over yourself not to mention you showed her that your not the confident domineering alpha she might lust for. Neediness is really fascinating. I wish I knew then what I’m starting to understand now. Tragic as it may be me. Men wreak neediness like bad onions sitting in the sun. I didn’t realize women were so receptive to emotions. One day I witnessed first hand a grown “man” begging and following and offering his entire being to a woman he didn’t know shit about. I’ve been there too. I still get stung by the needybug but fuk I’m human too. Neediness to me in my opinion is an emotional overload of negative “feeling”. You could be doing everything right then get stung by Mr.Needybug and that instantly kills all attraction. You just painted red flags all over yourself not to mention you showed her that your not the confident domineering alpha she might lust for.

]]> By: John http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/dont-be-needy/3586/#comment-39251 John Mon, 22 Mar 2010 00:34:42 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=3586#comment-39251 Personally I find neediness in a woman to be a huge turn-on. I'm not a controlling guy at all but I really like submissive, needy girls. I dated a heroin addict once & I loved the feeling of being able to protect and care for her. I got really turned on seeing her strung out and kind of helpless. Oh well. Maybe I'm just fucked up... Personally I find neediness in a woman to be a huge turn-on. I’m not a controlling guy at all but I really like submissive, needy girls.

I dated a heroin addict once & I loved the feeling of being able to protect and care for her. I got really turned on seeing her strung out and kind of helpless.

Oh well. Maybe I’m just fucked up…

]]> By: lauren http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/dont-be-needy/3586/#comment-36894 lauren Sat, 06 Feb 2010 18:36:42 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=3586#comment-36894 Cool! Good luck. Hey, I wanted to tell you that your post on the more recent blog about how fortunate we are and how much we have in our lives was awesome! There is hardly a day that goes by that I am unaware of that. We really really are quite fortunate, especially all the love we have in our lives. Cool! Good luck. Hey, I wanted to tell you that your post on the more recent blog about how fortunate we are and how much we have in our lives was awesome! There is hardly a day that goes by that I am unaware of that. We really really are quite fortunate, especially all the love we have in our lives.

]]> By: mario http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/dont-be-needy/3586/#comment-36893 mario Sat, 06 Feb 2010 18:02:07 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=3586#comment-36893 Yea laren I will. Thanks for all the info. I plan to make it really funny and interesting for them as well as me. I dont even know if people at the mall allow filiming inside. Who Knows. All i know is that its going to be interesting. Travis it should work now. for my facebook. Yea laren I will. Thanks for all the info. I plan to make it really funny and interesting for them as well as me. I dont even know if people at the mall allow filiming inside. Who Knows. All i know is that its going to be interesting.
Travis it should work now. for my facebook.

]]> By: lauren http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/dont-be-needy/3586/#comment-36858 lauren Sat, 06 Feb 2010 06:05:35 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=3586#comment-36858 Hi Mario, I thought Travis gave you some good suggestions and questions. I think it is probably true that women in their 20's and early 30's know more than girls in their teens because they have had some relationship experiences and they learn through those experiences what they like and don't like, what works for them and what doesn't work. Have you thought about what you want in a girl? Psychology is a broad field and I would suggest you look it up on Wikipedia or you could also go to a bookstore and take a look at a dictionary of psychology. They often describe the different branches of psychology and terms so that might be a good overview. My first experience with a psychologist was at age 17 when my mom found the best pot I'd ever had and flushed it down the toilet - bummer. She thought I needed to see a psychologist and I thought "that's cool" because I thought I might want to be one. She went in and talked about the situation first and next was my appointment. After talking to me for one session the psychologist told her I was well-adjusted and didn't need him (he was about 30 and I had the sneaking suspicion he was probably a fellow dope smoker. For about the next century I heard about how I "snowed" the psych. Funny story! If you ever do go to a therapist I view them as I do a car mechanich or any other occupation - some are lousy, many mediocre, and a few are excellent. The excellent ones are coming from a place of their life experiences - something books can never teach. The best therapist I ever had paid his way through college being a pool shark! He had lived life and let me tell you I got my "bang for my buck" so to speak. He was a straight shooter and was brilliant. He knew his shit inside out. Anyway, good luck with your documentary. Have fun with it! Lauren Hi Mario,

I thought Travis gave you some good suggestions and questions. I think it is probably true that women in their 20′s and early 30′s know more than girls in their teens because they have had some relationship experiences and they learn through those experiences what they like and don’t like, what works for them and what doesn’t work. Have you thought about what you want in a girl?

Psychology is a broad field and I would suggest you look it up on Wikipedia or you could also go to a bookstore and take a look at a dictionary of psychology. They often describe the different branches of psychology and terms so that might be a good overview.

My first experience with a psychologist was at age 17 when my mom found the best pot I’d ever had and flushed it down the toilet – bummer. She thought I needed to see a psychologist and I thought “that’s cool” because I thought I might want to be one. She went in and talked about the situation first and next was my appointment. After talking to me for one session the psychologist told her I was well-adjusted and didn’t need him (he was about 30 and I had the sneaking suspicion he was probably a fellow dope smoker. For about the next century I heard about how I “snowed” the psych. Funny story!

If you ever do go to a therapist I view them as I do a car mechanich or any other occupation – some are lousy, many mediocre, and a few are excellent. The excellent ones are coming from a place of their life experiences – something books can never teach. The best therapist I ever had paid his way through college being a pool shark! He had lived life and let me tell you I got my “bang for my buck” so to speak. He was a straight shooter and was brilliant. He knew his shit inside out.

Anyway, good luck with your documentary. Have fun with it!

Lauren

]]> By: Travis http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/dont-be-needy/3586/#comment-36848 Travis Sat, 06 Feb 2010 04:56:56 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=3586#comment-36848 Just so you know, clicking your name doesn't get to your Facebook, it only gets to a generic home page. Women in their 20's will be more open and less self-conscious than girls in their teens. Just so you know, clicking your name doesn’t get to your Facebook, it only gets to a generic home page. Women in their 20′s will be more open and less self-conscious than girls in their teens.

]]> By: mario http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/dont-be-needy/3586/#comment-36846 mario Sat, 06 Feb 2010 04:36:42 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=3586#comment-36846 I like those. Well we are pretty much going to the mall put up a camera and wait till curiosity kills the pussy. When they ask us what the camera is for then we will interview them. We are pretty much aiming for a wide range. In school we already have 5 girls around 16 or 17 that said they would be willing to come out in the documentary. Now for women in their 20's i dont know how hard it will be. It all depends on how open they are. If anyone has any ideas please tell them to me on facebook or email me. I need these ideas by next week so if anyone has any I mean any idea just tell me I would really aprecciate it. Regards, Mario I like those. Well we are pretty much going to the mall put up a camera and wait till curiosity kills the pussy. When they ask us what the camera is for then we will interview them. We are pretty much aiming for a wide range. In school we already have 5 girls around 16 or 17 that said they would be willing to come out in the documentary.
Now for women in their 20′s i dont know how hard it will be. It all depends on how open they are. If anyone has any ideas please tell them to me on facebook or email me. I need these ideas by next week so if anyone has any I mean any idea just tell me I would really aprecciate it.

Regards,
Mario

]]> By: Travis http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/dont-be-needy/3586/#comment-36845 Travis Sat, 06 Feb 2010 04:33:19 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=3586#comment-36845 Which age group are you targeting and what subjects are you personally interested in? Some popular ideas: * What do you want a guy to do/say when he approaches you? * How would you like a guy to ask for your number? * What's your idea of a perfect first date? * How do you dream of a guy "picking you up?" Some ideas. Which age group are you targeting and what subjects are you personally interested in?

Some popular ideas:

* What do you want a guy to do/say when he approaches you?
* How would you like a guy to ask for your number?
* What’s your idea of a perfect first date?
* How do you dream of a guy “picking you up?”

Some ideas.

]]> By: mario http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/dont-be-needy/3586/#comment-36843 mario Sat, 06 Feb 2010 04:19:03 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=3586#comment-36843 Hey travis thanks man. It's going to help me on the in the documentary. What questions would you ask them if you could do a movie? Hey travis thanks man. It’s going to help me on the in the documentary. What questions would you ask them if you could do a movie?

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