Comments on: Don’t Ever Lie

By: Azheer

Azheer — Wed, 22 Jul 2009 09:10:57 +0000

I really hate lieing, it brings no fruit except sorrow. By lieing we lose our character gradually.

By: revababy

revababy — Sat, 15 Nov 2008 10:11:45 +0000

For me, I’m very outspoken, I speak out what I’m currently thinking and when asked what’s wrong, I would never say “nothing” unless it wasn’t that big of a deal. For me, if there’s something about me that you may not like or if you ever heard something about me and isn’t so sure if it’s true or not, you can just talk to me directly and tell me the truth. I don’t really care how much it may hurt, but I prefer being told directly. Like if you saw a picture on my Myspace that you didn’t like at all, there’s really no need to talk to other people about it. You can just come straight to me, tell me that you think this one picture should be taken out of my gallery, and If I do think it’s really an inapprorpiate photo, then I’ll take it out. That’s the way it is.

By: Dan B.

Dan B. — Fri, 14 Nov 2008 17:46:18 +0000

I agree ladies-don’t lie. It poisons everything (from both sides).

So riddle me this: When your significant other notices that you are upset or angry and is emotionally vested in you to bother to ask, “What’s wrong?”

You reply, “Nothing.”

Think about it. If I retorted, “well, OK, I’ll just wait in the car for you.”, how would you feel?

Please do not convince yourselves that this ‘code-speak’ is not taken by s men as a lie.

Just like you know when those pants do make your ass look huge and we lie and tell you, “No.”

By: djbillyrae

djbillyrae — Fri, 07 Nov 2008 07:49:15 +0000

well one lie that allways works if you show up late for work, or you take the day off. Also there is no limit to how many times you use it.
just tell your boss that your significant other was planing on having sex, and you figured you better be there.
Although if used too many times this will not protect you from getting fired, but most bosses will tell you I know what you mean.

By: Marshall

Marshall — Fri, 07 Nov 2008 05:32:56 +0000

Yes bertha you say we as guys must be honest.Well i have a lot of cases where i was to honest…i mean questions like “why does my pants that i bought 4 weeks back don’t fit?”.Then i reply “well you must have gain weight”…or the “pants got to small” then i’m in the deepest havoc.

Anyway i agree a person should be honest to recieve honesty…even if you are to honest in a relationship. Woman are woman if we love them or hate them we as men cannot live with out them.

By: bertha

bertha — Thu, 06 Nov 2008 21:36:03 +0000

Okay, so lying is not always a bad thing. This article does describe it perfectly though, avoid it when at all possible! Women can typically recognize when it is a lie or a come on and start to feel insecure and/or irritated. When to lie: How do I look? (Great!… if you like the person, doesn’t matter if you don’t). Besides that, there are very few occasions when lying is justified or even makes sense. Other than using a man’s powerful opinion to let a woman know that they are beautiful to him (even when women have a few, atypical lapses in hairstyle, makeup, or fashion:)), please give us honesty. It not only gives an insight into a man’s character (aka future potential), but it also develops a feeling of security and connection.

By: Marshall

Marshall — Thu, 06 Nov 2008 09:59:00 +0000

Ah well it is not a good thing to lie but what if the person overreact when you start dating and tell the truth?I mean somewhere a lie is going to step in and if you find out it defuses the situation well you are going to on keep lieing isn’t it?

By: Khiem

Khiem — Tue, 04 Nov 2008 19:12:58 +0000

A lot of time, a little lie when it comes to “making up stuff” for roleplay is fun.

But honesty is the best way to attract someone. It’s not so much that you are honest with that person that makes you attractive. It’s the fact that by being honest, you are showing that you are unafraid of who you are and that you are truly comfortable in expressing who you are, just as you are.

It’s about character and genuineness. That is always universally attractive

By: Blackbull

Blackbull — Tue, 04 Nov 2008 07:33:21 +0000

A mate lied to his girlfriend when he was cheating on her..that was his decision to make, then he started to use us in his lies and tell us to cover for him after he had done the deed.

Well one lie was busted when he said his $200.00 receipt was from buying a mate and his gfriend dinner after he saw them in town on a Saturday night while he was out with another friend. Long story short his gfriend was out with my mates girlfriend on the night in question…Busted…. too many lies and girls to cover for and he had to come clean about everything…well only the ones he could be caught for.

All three of us that he used as cover got served by his girlfriend. One of us TWICE at work in front of staff and customers at the bank. She had treated us like friends and brought us in, she is a fantastic, smart girl, but for some reason can’t/ won’t see through his B.S.

One of the boys is no longer speaking to him…his girlfriend is still with him….says he loves her….he will still cheat when he cant get caught….

Morale…don’t let your friends put you into the middle of a lie, if they do tell them to come clean and never to do it again.

Ladies, stop falling for guys like this, little dramas like this are exciting and when he says he’s sorry, he loves you and wont do it again. You feel like he’s realised what a great girl you are but most of the time it’s going to happen again and again.

There are more exciting things to do in life than deal with a cheating partner and the drama.

By: vern siang

vern siang — Mon, 03 Nov 2008 02:50:30 +0000

David, I totally agreed with you. LIE can jeopardize !!! So don’t ever ever LIE