Comments on: Do You Use Dating Speculators? http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/do-you-use-dating-speculators/2475/ Sex. Relationships. Dating. That's what I'm talkin' 'bout. Fri, 10 Feb 2012 02:15:04 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v= By: Tony888 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/do-you-use-dating-speculators/2475/#comment-33726 Tony888 Mon, 07 Dec 2009 05:30:59 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=2475#comment-33726 Yeah, I saw this vid a couple days ago on Yahoo. lol And, sad to say once again, that's how I've too often been with women. Maybe that lineman was also hearing a lot of monkey chatter in his head which interfered with his ability to hear & see what was going on all around him. Or maybe he was waiting for IOIs from the other team. Yeah, I saw this vid a couple days ago on Yahoo. lol

And, sad to say once again, that’s how I’ve too often been with women. Maybe that lineman was also hearing a lot of monkey chatter in his head which interfered with his ability to hear & see what was going on all around him. Or maybe he was waiting for IOIs from the other team.

]]> By: Mike-Ro http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/do-you-use-dating-speculators/2475/#comment-33708 Mike-Ro Sun, 06 Dec 2009 10:31:54 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=2475#comment-33708 So you're saying that we don't have to worry if someone doesn't like us,doesn't want to spend time with you or just, be with you. But David, how do you know if she really isn't interested or just playing hard to get? :) So you’re saying that we don’t have to worry if someone doesn’t like us,doesn’t want to spend time with you or just, be with you. But David, how do you know if she really isn’t interested or just playing hard to get? :)

]]> By: Khiem/Ken (DW Coach) http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/do-you-use-dating-speculators/2475/#comment-33672 Khiem/Ken (DW Coach) Fri, 04 Dec 2009 22:48:23 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=2475#comment-33672 Ahhh good old speculation.... David... you and I should bet on our speculations about women with clients. If we are right about what the woman does next with the client, we win something!!! :P Ahhh good old speculation….

David… you and I should bet on our speculations about women with clients. If we are right about what the woman does next with the client, we win something!!! :P

]]> By: Philip http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/do-you-use-dating-speculators/2475/#comment-33669 Philip Fri, 04 Dec 2009 19:06:36 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=2475#comment-33669 Hi David, Greetings from Ireland! Great blog again.. Think this can be related to Don Miguel Ruiz's book, 4 Agreements, one of them is never make assumptions (or speculations I guess!). We normally defeat ourselves or speculate so far from the truth! Sounds like the lads were bragging a bit to each other (I know because I've done stuff like this in the past aswell!)- saying she was too open sexually and scared of this, and that he made her come lots... It's a bit much to be saying to your mates no? Seems aswell like they're looking for approval - that these lads had to brag to each other looking for approval from each other and also looking for approval of this girl who didn't text back either? Maybe you should coach them David and teach them some of your philosophies! Another thing is never have regrets or ask what if?, you've done your best, if she doesn't text back - it's not you, it's her! Maybe she's just not right for you! Move on, another 3 billion women out there to find a connection with! Just a thought... What a pity we don't have NFL in Ireland - awesome game! Have a great day, Philip Hi David,

Greetings from Ireland! Great blog again.. Think this can be related to Don Miguel Ruiz’s book, 4 Agreements, one of them is never make assumptions (or speculations I guess!). We normally defeat ourselves or speculate so far from the truth! Sounds like the lads were bragging a bit to each other (I know because I’ve done stuff like this in the past aswell!)- saying she was too open sexually and scared of this, and that he made her come lots… It’s a bit much to be saying to your mates no?

Seems aswell like they’re looking for approval – that these lads had to brag to each other looking for approval from each other and also looking for approval of this girl who didn’t text back either?
Maybe you should coach them David and teach them some of your philosophies!

Another thing is never have regrets or ask what if?, you’ve done your best, if she doesn’t text back – it’s not you, it’s her! Maybe she’s just not right for you! Move on, another 3 billion women out there to find a connection with!

Just a thought… What a pity we don’t have NFL in Ireland – awesome game!

Have a great day,

Philip

]]> By: Miguel http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/do-you-use-dating-speculators/2475/#comment-33666 Miguel Fri, 04 Dec 2009 13:07:19 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=2475#comment-33666 Very true David, very true. I've had played speculating for a long time, and it took me a while to let some things go. I have a few friends who are also speculators. A friend of mine who likes this girl in school, tells me every time he says hi to her, she greets him with a neutral feel. He always speculates that the girl is not open, or she's shy. She used to greet with a joyful feel, now it's neutral. Now I get it. It's all speculating... It never occurred to me. Thanks for the post David! :) Very true David, very true. I’ve had played speculating for a long time, and it took me a while to let some things go. I have a few friends who are also speculators. A friend of mine who likes this girl in school, tells me every time he says hi to her, she greets him with a neutral feel. He always speculates that the girl is not open, or she’s shy. She used to greet with a joyful feel, now it’s neutral.

Now I get it. It’s all speculating… It never occurred to me. Thanks for the post David! :)

]]> By: Brad http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/do-you-use-dating-speculators/2475/#comment-33662 Brad Fri, 04 Dec 2009 04:42:35 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=2475#comment-33662 That off. lineman must've suffered a concussion during the game like Westbrook, Portis, Roethlisberger, and Warner...there's no other way to explain it! That off. lineman must’ve suffered a concussion during the game like Westbrook, Portis, Roethlisberger, and Warner…there’s no other way to explain it!

]]> By: Joe A. http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/do-you-use-dating-speculators/2475/#comment-33661 Joe A. Fri, 04 Dec 2009 04:13:27 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=2475#comment-33661 If you have options, I think the speculation game is a lot less appealing because you can move on to the next person you're interested in. It sucks to think you have a good thing going, but the reality is much different for the other person. For me I naturally gotta know why why WHY? and "what if"... thats a great game too But once someone else comes into my radar, its easy not to give a shit about the girl who didn't call back. That douchebag lineman even got in the way of his own scrambling quarterback. That qb easily had a lane to the left if the giant tub of lard wasn't in the way. Dude is more worthless than Matt Leinhart in the NFL. I'm sure he had fun in film room the next day. CMON MAN!!! If you have options, I think the speculation game is a lot less appealing because you can move on to the next person you’re interested in.

It sucks to think you have a good thing going, but the reality is much different for the other person. For me I naturally gotta know why why WHY? and “what if”… thats a great game too

But once someone else comes into my radar, its easy not to give a shit about the girl who didn’t call back.

That douchebag lineman even got in the way of his own scrambling quarterback. That qb easily had a lane to the left if the giant tub of lard wasn’t in the way. Dude is more worthless than Matt Leinhart in the NFL. I’m sure he had fun in film room the next day.

CMON MAN!!!

]]> By: Gaby http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/do-you-use-dating-speculators/2475/#comment-33659 Gaby Fri, 04 Dec 2009 02:08:53 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=2475#comment-33659 I laughed a lot reading this! So damn true! I don't know what men do, but as a woman I could tell you about all the times I've speculated with my friends about the guys we date and it feels part of the 'dating-falling-or-not-in-love' ritual. I guess we even bond more while talking and speculating about guys :P I laughed a lot reading this! So damn true!

I don’t know what men do, but as a woman I could tell you about all the times I’ve speculated with my friends about the guys we date and it feels part of the ‘dating-falling-or-not-in-love’ ritual. I guess we even bond more while talking and speculating about guys :P

]]> By: Marcus http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/do-you-use-dating-speculators/2475/#comment-33656 Marcus Thu, 03 Dec 2009 22:06:10 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=2475#comment-33656 Speculation really sucks. I mean on the stock market, it's fun. But with women? I think human beings are the most random creatures existing. It's impossible to insinuate what another person thinks and to try to predict things. The beauty of being with people is that they are NOT predictable and this makes life so much more interesting. So why speculate? Talk to people and find out :) Speculation really sucks. I mean on the stock market, it’s fun. But with women? I think human beings are the most random creatures existing. It’s impossible to insinuate what another person thinks and to try to predict things. The beauty of being with people is that they are NOT predictable and this makes life so much more interesting. So why speculate? Talk to people and find out :)

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