As most of you know, I really do read all my e-mails. I may not be
able to get back to all you guys, but I do read them, and I enjoy
reading your e-mails. I really do. It inspires me. Not only that, it
also gives me great blog topics. A lot of you feel that when something
happens to you, a bad thing, that you think you have bad luck. You
just think, why is it happening to me now? Everything is supposed to
be going so great. Why is this happening to me right now?

You know that type of attitude. Why is it happening to me right now?
Regardless of what the situation is, events or whatever, the best
thing that can happen to you at the time is what is actually happening
to you at the present time. The lesson you need to learn is an
experience you need to have. It’s an emotion that you need to feel.
Everything that happens to you happens to you for a reason. It makes
you a stronger person.

Not only that: The most successful people in
this world, the most powerful people in this world, the most
well-rounded people in this world are the ones that look at each thing
that happens to them, they learn from it, and they may move forward a
stronger and happier person. They don’t wallow in it.

Poor Me In Dating

They don’t go on a cycle of depression from it. They don’t keep thinking about why, why
is this happening to me now? They tackle it head-on. They look at the
problem head-on. They feel the experience head-on, and they process it
and move forward. It might take you some time sometimes to process and
move forward, but as long as you move forward, you’ll get rid of that
stuck feeling that you have—that feeling of being overwhelmed, that
feeling of “Why me?” Look at everything that happens to your life in a
different light. Look at it as an experience, as a lesson, as
something you needed to grow on. If something happens over and over
again, look at that pattern, and realize and maybe you need to change
something about yourself and the way you handle things. Maybe you
didn’t process something. Maybe you didn’t experience something. Life
repeats itself when we don’t face the issues the very first time. So
the next time life throws you a curveball, look at it, embrace it,
love it, and process it so that you can move forward and grow as a
person.