Comments on: Do You Have Scarcity Mentality? http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/do-you-have-scarcity-mentality/541/ Sex. Relationships. Dating. That's what I'm talkin' 'bout. Fri, 10 Feb 2012 02:15:04 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v= By: joey http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/do-you-have-scarcity-mentality/541/#comment-18579 joey Tue, 30 Sep 2008 18:57:56 +0000 http://blog.davidwygant.com/?p=541#comment-18579 my friend went back to romania i wanted to tell how i feel but it would not have mattered because she was her on a visa but she gave me her email and her yahoo istant messenger ID so i guess email is another way the communication going but i dont know when she will be back ether so what do you think david should i go find some one else my friend went back to romania i wanted to tell how i feel but it would not have mattered because she was her on a visa but she gave me her email and her yahoo istant messenger ID so i guess email is another way the communication going but i dont know when she will be back ether so what do you think david should i go find some one else

]]> By: Maria http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/do-you-have-scarcity-mentality/541/#comment-15642 Maria Wed, 18 Jun 2008 14:07:18 +0000 http://blog.davidwygant.com/?p=541#comment-15642 I must admit that I definately have scarcity mentality. I have this feeling of not being welcomed into what ever is going on so I have invite myself in so as to not miss anything. Thanks for the tips. Also, you created an article regarding 'man talk' on the positive side. What about 'man talk' on the negative? What if he says he will try to come over but doesn't, doesn't call or anything and just acts as if nothing happended. What if it's been more than 6 months dating, but no invitation to leave any articles behind? Very concerned..... :( I must admit that I definately have scarcity mentality. I have this feeling of not being welcomed into what ever is going on so I have invite myself in so as to not miss anything. Thanks for the tips.

Also, you created an article regarding ‘man talk’ on the positive side. What about ‘man talk’ on the negative? What if he says he will try to come over but doesn’t, doesn’t call or anything and just acts as if nothing happended.

What if it’s been more than 6 months dating, but no invitation to leave any articles behind? Very concerned….. :(

]]> By: Joely http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/do-you-have-scarcity-mentality/541/#comment-15609 Joely Tue, 17 Jun 2008 14:42:37 +0000 http://blog.davidwygant.com/?p=541#comment-15609 I think scarcity mentality relates to fear of being old. The whole I-must-not-miss-any-bit-of-excitement-before-I-get-old-and-can't-do-it-anymore is something I found I do too. Worrying about what you might miss tomorrow when you're already missing it today (because you're worring about it) is pointless. I think scarcity mentality relates to fear of being old. The whole I-must-not-miss-any-bit-of-excitement-before-I-get-old-and-can’t-do-it-anymore is something I found I do too.

Worrying about what you might miss tomorrow when you’re already missing it today (because you’re worring about it) is pointless.

]]> By: Ken E. http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/do-you-have-scarcity-mentality/541/#comment-15539 Ken E. Sat, 14 Jun 2008 07:26:26 +0000 http://blog.davidwygant.com/?p=541#comment-15539 Gary, Reload the page and try again... Gary,
Reload the page and try again…

]]> By: Gary http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/do-you-have-scarcity-mentality/541/#comment-15538 Gary Sat, 14 Jun 2008 07:18:27 +0000 http://blog.davidwygant.com/?p=541#comment-15538 I've got a message saying 'The video is no longer available' I’ve got a message saying ‘The video is no longer available’

]]> By: Ken E. http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/do-you-have-scarcity-mentality/541/#comment-15537 Ken E. Sat, 14 Jun 2008 05:40:19 +0000 http://blog.davidwygant.com/?p=541#comment-15537 Don't confuse "living in the moment" and "living with awareness". You don't want to fall into the trap of living in the moment without awareness... Even when living in the present, you have a vision of the future, serving as a trajectory; otherwise you can't make decisions... Don’t confuse “living in the moment” and “living with awareness”. You don’t want to fall into the trap of living in the moment without awareness…
Even when living in the present, you have a vision of the future, serving as a trajectory; otherwise you can’t make decisions…

]]> By: Ken E. http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/do-you-have-scarcity-mentality/541/#comment-15536 Ken E. Sat, 14 Jun 2008 05:03:52 +0000 http://blog.davidwygant.com/?p=541#comment-15536 Marcus, It's funny that one remedy for being stuck in the head is to pay attention and think about everything around you... Another method someone taught me is to pay attention to your hands and feet and all their sensations. I think it's a matter of bringing a balance to the triad of heart, mind and body. They all need to talk to, and listen to, the other two. The mind isn't in a conversation when it's doing all the talking and not listening. I don't believe in meditating to silence the mind, it has limited application when interacting in "the real world". If you're going to meditate do it to hear the body. (And even the mind has things to say that you haven't been listening to. Listen without an agenda.) - Shouting is a sign of not being heard. The other week I was walking when my knees and legs started hurting, sudden and strong. I asked myself, what I was just thinking about; something I might not want to admit... As soon as I realized what it was, the pain went away. Scarcity has it's place too; you can't spend $100 if you only have $20. Yet scarcity can get out of hand and limit the "ability to see alternatives". The best approach I've found is to have an intent, then be open to how it will be satisfied. Time and again I get what I was asking for, but in a way I never would have guessed. I've had many interactions with women where I've gotten what I needed, but not what I've wanted. :( Marcus,

It’s funny that one remedy for being stuck in the head is to pay attention and think about everything around you…
Another method someone taught me is to pay attention to your hands and feet and all their sensations.

I think it’s a matter of bringing a balance to the triad of heart, mind and body. They all need to talk to, and listen to, the other two. The mind isn’t in a conversation when it’s doing all the talking and not listening.

I don’t believe in meditating to silence the mind, it has limited application when interacting in “the real world”. If you’re going to meditate do it to hear the body. (And even the mind has things to say that you haven’t been listening to. Listen without an agenda.) – Shouting is a sign of not being heard.

The other week I was walking when my knees and legs started hurting, sudden and strong. I asked myself, what I was just thinking about; something I might not want to admit… As soon as I realized what it was, the pain went away.

Scarcity has it’s place too; you can’t spend $100 if you only have $20. Yet scarcity can get out of hand and limit the “ability to see alternatives”.

The best approach I’ve found is to have an intent, then be open to how it will be satisfied. Time and again I get what I was asking for, but in a way I never would have guessed. I’ve had many interactions with women where I’ve gotten what I needed, but not what I’ve wanted. :(

]]> By: Reynold http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/do-you-have-scarcity-mentality/541/#comment-15535 Reynold Sat, 14 Jun 2008 04:40:57 +0000 http://blog.davidwygant.com/?p=541#comment-15535 great blog! this is why learning from David is so special, its not just about picking up chicks (although that part is awesome), but it is really about how to lead a fulfilling life. at times i have scarcity mindset hovering over my mind whether its girls, money, or whatever. It is nice to be remind myself that life is full of experiences and gifts with what David is saying! thanks man. great blog! this is why learning from David is so special, its not just about picking up chicks (although that part is awesome), but it is really about how to lead a fulfilling life. at times i have scarcity mindset hovering over my mind whether its girls, money, or whatever. It is nice to be remind myself that life is full of experiences and gifts with what David is saying! thanks man.

]]> By: Taras http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/do-you-have-scarcity-mentality/541/#comment-15534 Taras Sat, 14 Jun 2008 03:47:37 +0000 http://blog.davidwygant.com/?p=541#comment-15534 Wow, this blog could not have come at a better time for me... Last night there was this amazing DJ performing at my favorite club, but I decided at the last minute not to go. Then today, I've had like 4 friends call me to let me know that I apparently missed out on a party of a life time. Needless to say I was pretty bummed :( I was kicking myself earlier, but at least now I'm seeing things from a more useful perspective. So yeah... I feel better. Thanks! Wow, this blog could not have come at a better time for me…

Last night there was this amazing DJ performing at my favorite club, but I decided at the last minute not to go. Then today, I’ve had like 4 friends call me to let me know that I apparently missed out on a party of a life time. Needless to say I was pretty bummed :(

I was kicking myself earlier, but at least now I’m seeing things from a more useful perspective. So yeah… I feel better. Thanks!

]]> By: David Wygant http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/do-you-have-scarcity-mentality/541/#comment-15532 David Wygant Fri, 13 Jun 2008 23:06:13 +0000 http://blog.davidwygant.com/?p=541#comment-15532 Markus You know this blog was all about that last night in Amsterdam! I used it for inspiration!! Great post!! Markus

You know this blog was all about that last night in Amsterdam!

I used it for inspiration!!

Great post!!

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