Comments on: Do You Ever “Just Know” It’s Right?

By: Dan

Dan — Mon, 14 Sep 2009 04:39:05 +0000

I have only experienced this twice in my life, and both women got away. But I don’t regret “just going with it” because there are few times you will get to experience this. I’m still good friends with the first one, I have no idea about the second one. She broke up with me right before she left for 3 months, so maybe I’ll run into her when she gets back, haha. All I know is that sometimes, it seems as though you were meant to meet someone, and you can just tell.

By: Poppy

Poppy — Tue, 18 Aug 2009 02:57:04 +0000

I live with a man who blew me away the second time I met him. The first time I was unfortunately not in a place in life to think about him in any other way than friendship. Thankfully he waited patiently for my life status to change.

By: Matt

Matt — Mon, 17 Aug 2009 20:15:37 +0000

This feeling and thought process is definitely lovely, but it can be dangerous.

These feelings can often lead to acts of irrationally and can lead to loss of control.

Acting out of control can lead to undesirable consequences.

Yes, one should go with this feeling and foster it. So long as the feeling is mutually shared. That both parties are full of love. If this feeling is not in balance between the lover’s, tragic things can result.

By: Jonathan

Jonathan — Mon, 17 Aug 2009 13:48:03 +0000

Sh*t man.. this is great timing reading this. I had a powerful attraction to my ex-girlfriend with whom I broke up (mutually) about 6 weeks ago. I’m meeting her again briefly later today, in passing (on the way to a coffee with a female friend). My hormones and adrenaline are going crazy just at the thought of it…but I know she didn’t make me feel the way you describe in the blog. I knew that this wasn’t ‘it’. She could have been, but ultimately her personality wasn’t compatible with mine. We were crazy in love but that deep soul connection was lost and we couldn’t develop it because she had an inability to communicate, to process emotions, she was a very closed person, and that made me very frustrated.

It’s difficult when I’m still feeling so much for her but the thought in this blog that there is somebody like this for me, with whom I can truly flourish, is a strong one to hold on to. Thanks!

By: Caribbean Girls

Caribbean Girls — Mon, 17 Aug 2009 04:59:10 +0000

Interesting post Mr. David! I always love reading your entries because your blog is so simple and easily be digested through my mind. Thanks for sharing this good thoughts.

By: Noah

Noah — Mon, 17 Aug 2009 02:19:00 +0000

This just happened to me a month ago. And it never happens. Met a girl that floored me. We’ll see what happens…

By: Diego R+R

Diego R+R — Mon, 17 Aug 2009 02:16:54 +0000

kismet, thank you for your answer!

By: kismet

kismet — Mon, 17 Aug 2009 01:32:41 +0000

Diego:

The candybar thing is just a coincidence. But something memorable if you two like eachother.

By: crissy

crissy — Mon, 17 Aug 2009 01:17:56 +0000

I thought I had that once… I still have a strong connection. I always know when something is happening to him. He called me to tell me how much he dislikes me though and that everything is my fault. Has done this at least 3 times in the last 2 years now. then at the end of the conversation he says he’s sorry for how badly he treated me and that he used me. why on earth would I have a connection to someone who wants to be a jerk like that?

By: kismet

kismet — Mon, 17 Aug 2009 01:09:30 +0000

And did he just pull a classic “its not you, its me move” on me?