Comments on: Do You Desire A Blond Or A Peach? http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/do-you-desire-a-blond-or-a-peach/1512/ Sex. Relationships. Dating. That's what I'm talkin' 'bout. Fri, 10 Feb 2012 02:15:04 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v= By: K http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/do-you-desire-a-blond-or-a-peach/1512/#comment-27435 K Tue, 12 May 2009 03:26:53 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1512#comment-27435 Khiem - what are you to do? Simple - share the love! Khiem – what are you to do?

Simple – share the love!

]]> By: Sandra http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/do-you-desire-a-blond-or-a-peach/1512/#comment-27343 Sandra Mon, 11 May 2009 19:43:59 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1512#comment-27343 Kheim Each person to their own preference. But me I am a burnette with a few grey hairs. If you want to see a pic of me you can go to facebook.com and look under Sandra Hutchens it also has pics of my daughters. Kheim
Each person to their own preference. But me I am a burnette with a few grey hairs. If you want to see a pic of me you can go to facebook.com and look under Sandra Hutchens it also has pics of my daughters.

]]> By: Marina http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/do-you-desire-a-blond-or-a-peach/1512/#comment-27342 Marina Mon, 11 May 2009 19:43:33 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1512#comment-27342 Khiem, no offense most blonds are brunettes naturally, I guess you lucked out, you can still have both. (-: Khiem,

no offense most blonds are brunettes naturally, I guess you lucked out, you can still have both. (-:

]]> By: Khiem (DW Coach) http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/do-you-desire-a-blond-or-a-peach/1512/#comment-27336 Khiem (DW Coach) Mon, 11 May 2009 19:19:51 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1512#comment-27336 I typically like brunettes... there's something exotic about their darker features... but right now, I'm feeling for blondes too! What am I to do? :P I typically like brunettes… there’s something exotic about their darker features… but right now, I’m feeling for blondes too! What am I to do? :P

]]> By: Sandra http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/do-you-desire-a-blond-or-a-peach/1512/#comment-27331 Sandra Mon, 11 May 2009 14:25:22 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1512#comment-27331 You know the saying blondes have more fun not so...Burnettes can too. You know the saying blondes have more fun not so…Burnettes can too.

]]> By: Jim C. http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/do-you-desire-a-blond-or-a-peach/1512/#comment-27328 Jim C. Mon, 11 May 2009 03:02:27 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1512#comment-27328 Kelly, Interesting there.. where exactly did this take place? But the guy was pretty gutsy for saying something so elaborate like that, and thick-skinned I suppose. :) Kelly,

Interesting there.. where exactly did this take place? But the guy was pretty gutsy for saying something so elaborate like that, and thick-skinned I suppose. :)

]]> By: Kelly http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/do-you-desire-a-blond-or-a-peach/1512/#comment-27322 Kelly Sun, 10 May 2009 21:23:21 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1512#comment-27322 Yesterday, a guy approached me and asked me out by saying, "you're really the type of girl I'm looking for. You're the right height for me, and you're beautiful, and yours is the body type I like." It was really a turn off because it was clear that I was just this list of physical attributes (which I have no control over anyway) and I didn't get the impression that there was anything about ME, really, that he found interesting. Had he done what you describe - learned something, anything, about me, and was able to have something to say about it later, it would have gone completely differently. I would have thought that he had listened, and heard me, and was attracted to who I was, instead of the fact that I am 5'8''. Yesterday, a guy approached me and asked me out by saying, “you’re really the type of girl I’m looking for. You’re the right height for me, and you’re beautiful, and yours is the body type I like.” It was really a turn off because it was clear that I was just this list of physical attributes (which I have no control over anyway) and I didn’t get the impression that there was anything about ME, really, that he found interesting. Had he done what you describe – learned something, anything, about me, and was able to have something to say about it later, it would have gone completely differently. I would have thought that he had listened, and heard me, and was attracted to who I was, instead of the fact that I am 5’8”.

]]> By: Lexi http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/do-you-desire-a-blond-or-a-peach/1512/#comment-27320 Lexi Sun, 10 May 2009 18:56:01 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1512#comment-27320 "Either I’ve really growing up or I’m really in love. " Maybe it's both. “Either I’ve really growing up or I’m really in love. ”

Maybe it’s both.

]]> By: Jim C. http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/do-you-desire-a-blond-or-a-peach/1512/#comment-27316 Jim C. Sun, 10 May 2009 17:06:48 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1512#comment-27316 Great thing you said there K... however, there's the other side of the spectrum too with some people, that they don't talk and contribute enough and so you have to try your damndest to draw them out. Which requires of course another skillset. Great thing you said there K… however, there’s the other side of the spectrum too with some people, that they don’t talk and contribute enough and so you have to try your damndest to draw them out. Which requires of course another skillset.

]]> By: K http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/do-you-desire-a-blond-or-a-peach/1512/#comment-27312 K Sun, 10 May 2009 07:05:44 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1512#comment-27312 Years ago, the work division that I was in at the time made ALL of the employees take a "people skills" class. Basically, it was a couple of days of how to talk to others without the subject being about YOU. They had exercises on listening skills where in one example, one person told a story and the other was the listener but could not talk other than short affirmative responses, nodding, asking short, relevant questions for the speaker to answer or expand on but absolutely NO talk about the listener. They timed us for 15 minutes and then reversed roles. Man, did that ever point out how poor most of us are at really listening to what others say! Try it sometime just with your good friends where there is no performance anxiety - we're still so focused on what we are going to contribute to the conversation that we don't hear much at all. Think about it - would you really want to go out with someone who didn't hear a word that you said while you were trying to get to know them? It makes me try much harder. Years ago, the work division that I was in at the time made ALL of the employees take a “people skills” class. Basically, it was a couple of days of how to talk to others without the subject being about YOU. They had exercises on listening skills where in one example, one person told a story and the other was the listener but could not talk other than short affirmative responses, nodding, asking short, relevant questions for the speaker to answer or expand on but absolutely NO talk about the listener. They timed us for 15 minutes and then reversed roles. Man, did that ever point out how poor most of us are at really listening to what others say! Try it sometime just with your good friends where there is no performance anxiety – we’re still so focused on what we are going to contribute to the conversation that we don’t hear much at all. Think about it – would you really want to go out with someone who didn’t hear a word that you said while you were trying to get to know them? It makes me try much harder.

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