Sometimes dating can be really frustrating.  Sometimes you can feel like you’re on a highway and there’s absolutely nowhere to go.  Let me explain.  Ever drive down a road and the road is moving super fast, and you think to yourself, perfect timing today. Then all of the sudden, somebody blinked their eyes, like a giant genie, and the entire road just sucks.

You’re in bumper to bumper gridlock. You don’t move at all.  You feel the stress.  You feel the tension through your body.  You start to get really annoyed.  You look around and you see other drivers getting annoyed.  You start to think to yourself, “How could this possibly be?” Then, after 10 minutes of sitting in bumper to bumper traffic, the road just opens up again, like magic.

“It’s bizarre”, you think to yourself.  How did that possibly happen?  How could we go from being wide open, to being in gridlock, to being wide open again?  Where did all the cars go, how did they disburse?

Traffic is always around you. There’s nothing you can do about it except remain positive. Remain calm, and realize that traffic is going to start moving again. It’s a lot like when you’re dating.  You ever go through a period where you’re just not meeting a lot of people.  The more you think about it, the more frustrated you get. The more frustrated you get, the less chance you’re going to meet people.

When you’re frustrated in dating, you tend to stay frustrated for a long time. But what if dating is just like traffic? What if these frustrating moments are just temporary moments?

Let’s say, for instance, you try to approach a woman, and it doesn’t work.  You get frustrated for a period of time, and miss all the other women passing you by, like cars on the freeway. Start thinking about dating like traffic, and watch today’s video.  It’s going to help you change your perspective.