Thanks for your insights from the guys perspective. Didn’t mean I don’t want any of the ladies to add their voice to it.
So many different scenarios, but yeah, mainly play with it. The situation, not really the person.
I guess I wasn’t awake enough to phrase it very well; it had a lot to do with seeing the genuiness of an approach and how people feel about it. Which totally may vary across situations. But in that overall sense, more often for ” what’s on the inside”.

Don’t forget that other people find the blog plus some people hang out and never post.

Note: Not sure how 2 versions of a post I made above showed up- sorry for that.

You should not worry about us copying DW. It was all for shit and giggles.

Yakub and I were the David Wygant Jrs…. ;p

You know which one you like best, right?

So what if you immediately feel someone only wants that date, sex, phone number or business deal?

Well what would you feel like doing?
Do you want to give in? Do you want to get out? Do you want to play? Do you want to diss them in front of the entire supermarket? just kidding

Seeing as maybe you wanted to get what us men would do, I’ll share what I would do: I’d play
We can have fun with it. That’s what I like to do. And who knows you’ll enjoy the other person after all!

Joan: let’s hope Yakoob is pumping some iron and not steroids…they have factories of that stuff in LA!

Spent a couple of nights at the Beverly Hilton last month and visited Venice Beach, Santa Monica, Long Beach and Malibu…I am not saying with who;-)

Oh yes, Patrick, you did understand what I was asking. Thank you for answering and for a really great answer. I was looking for some perceptions, possibly. And perhaps if how often and if many people are just keyed in to the PUA and the genuine approaches.
Your answer was a really great way to put what not to do and what to do in trying to start a conversation. And I was really hoping that one of the guys would answer, so Thanks, again.
And while that answer may seem obvious to many, it is not to just as many more. It what’s on the inside that counts.

Oh yes, Patrick, you did understand what I was asking. Thank you for answering and for a really great answer. I was looking for some perceptions, possibly. And perhaps if how often and if many people are just keyed in to the PUA and the genuine approaches.
Your answer was a really great way to put what not to do and what to do in trying to start a conversation. And I was really hoping that one of the guys would answer, so Thanks, again.