Comments on: Celebrate Your Love Every Day http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/celebrate-your-love-every-day/1109/ Sex. Relationships. Dating. That's what I'm talkin' 'bout. Sat, 21 Nov 2009 09:04:02 -0600 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: Scott http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/celebrate-your-love-every-day/1109/#comment-19989 Scott Wed, 26 Nov 2008 04:34:03 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1109#comment-19989 I am in a relationship with a woman that I met on World of Warcraft. We have that magical moment when we met. We met on a boat in this virtual world. Well to make a long story even longer I have moved across the country to be near her. Thats where this blog comes in. I try to celebrate our love every day. We hit it off good immediattely. But now that we are past the honeymoon stage, I find myself still in that validation zone with her. I constantly try to get her past it as I feel I am opening up to her with my deepest thoughts and desires. I am looking for the way to get her past this point. I know she loves me but she is not in the same place as I am. So I find myself wanting her validation, when deep down I want to get to that magical level of connection. I am 38 and I am at that point in my life where I want that deepest form of connection. She is 32 and I dont know if she is there or not. I am in a relationship with a woman that I met on World of Warcraft. We have that magical moment when we met. We met on a boat in this virtual world. Well to make a long story even longer I have moved across the country to be near her. Thats where this blog comes in. I try to celebrate our love every day. We hit it off good immediattely. But now that we are past the honeymoon stage, I find myself still in that validation zone with her. I constantly try to get her past it as I feel I am opening up to her with my deepest thoughts and desires. I am looking for the way to get her past this point. I know she loves me but she is not in the same place as I am. So I find myself wanting her validation, when deep down I want to get to that magical level of connection. I am 38 and I am at that point in my life where I want that deepest form of connection. She is 32 and I dont know if she is there or not.

]]> By: Jordan http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/celebrate-your-love-every-day/1109/#comment-19925 Jordan Sun, 23 Nov 2008 07:12:01 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1109#comment-19925 This is a great post. It makes me feel romantic again :) This is a great post. It makes me feel romantic again :)

]]> By: JustMe http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/celebrate-your-love-every-day/1109/#comment-19826 JustMe Wed, 19 Nov 2008 13:57:07 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1109#comment-19826 Hi, David. I'm back, hehe.. :P Been away from your blog for too long a while now, I realize. Anyways, I like this blog.. it's simple and important. I love this post: "The process of knowing and being known is, potentially, never-ending, as there is always more that can be revealed, always more that can be discovered. The relationship, therefore, is far more likely to remain interesting, exciting, stimulating. Being together - whether talking over a coffee, caring for children, or making love - becomes so much more meaningful and pleasurable when our focus shifts from validation to knowing and being known.” This is the perfect example of why so many relationships go down the drain, we don't realize our own dynamics and how we have all the potential in the world to develop ourselves, and that for a relationship to remain interesting, exciting etc it takes nothing more than to know each other and wanting to get to know each other's developments.. Some relationships are doomed even before they start to develop because both or one of the partners are not willing to share.. it's sad...I'm in a relationship now with this amazing guy and this blog made me realize how I need to celebrate our love.. Even though we're both 20.. it's all about sharing :) Have a nice day!! Hi, David. I’m back, hehe.. :P

Been away from your blog for too long a while now, I realize. Anyways, I like this blog.. it’s simple and important. I love this post:

“The process of knowing and being known is, potentially, never-ending, as there is always more that can be revealed, always more that can be discovered. The relationship, therefore, is far more likely to remain interesting, exciting, stimulating. Being together – whether talking over a coffee, caring for children, or making love – becomes so much more meaningful and pleasurable when our focus shifts from validation to knowing and being known.”

This is the perfect example of why so many relationships go down the drain, we don’t realize our own dynamics and how we have all the potential in the world to develop ourselves, and that for a relationship to remain interesting, exciting etc it takes nothing more than to know each other and wanting to get to know each other’s developments.. Some relationships are doomed even before they start to develop because both or one of the partners are not willing to share.. it’s sad…I’m in a relationship now with this amazing guy and this blog made me realize how I need to celebrate our love.. Even though we’re both 20.. it’s all about sharing :)

Have a nice day!!

]]> By: DanTheOriginal http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/celebrate-your-love-every-day/1109/#comment-19825 DanTheOriginal Wed, 19 Nov 2008 13:46:46 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1109#comment-19825 RJ: 3some with a woman but I am not opposed to play with another couple or more, the more the merrier:-) Lexi: I have put that book on my to read list, thanks. >>>>>>>I think there is nothing wrong with you letting her know you want a threesome, and I think there is nothing wrong with her not wanting one. Can you accept each other in spite of it? Well, I sure don't but we need to accept each other for the sake of our kids. Long story, it gets complicated. I will be in Vegas soon and what I do there it will stay in Vegas:-) RJ:

3some with a woman but I am not opposed to play with another couple or more, the more the merrier:-)

Lexi: I have put that book on my to read list, thanks.

>>>>>>>I think there is nothing wrong with you letting her know you want a threesome, and I think there is nothing wrong with her not wanting one. Can you accept each other in spite of it?

Well, I sure don’t but we need to accept each other for the sake of our kids. Long story, it gets complicated. I will be in Vegas soon and what I do there it will stay in Vegas:-)

]]> By: Lexi http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/celebrate-your-love-every-day/1109/#comment-19820 Lexi Wed, 19 Nov 2008 09:16:40 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1109#comment-19820 Dan, Be sure and read the whole book. I think there is nothing wrong with you letting her know you want a threesome, and I think there is nothing wrong with her not wanting one. Can you accept each other in spite of it? Lexi. LOL RJ Dan,

Be sure and read the whole book. I think there is nothing wrong with you letting her know you want a threesome, and I think there is nothing wrong with her not wanting one. Can you accept each other in spite of it?

Lexi.

LOL RJ

]]> By: Khiem http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/celebrate-your-love-every-day/1109/#comment-19807 Khiem Wed, 19 Nov 2008 01:09:42 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1109#comment-19807 Love is an act of daily self-expression and self-creation in relation to your lover. You can only develop true intimacy if you both share yourself with one another. Love is an act of daily self-expression and self-creation in relation to your lover. You can only develop true intimacy if you both share yourself with one another.

]]> By: RJ http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/celebrate-your-love-every-day/1109/#comment-19805 RJ Wed, 19 Nov 2008 00:59:27 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1109#comment-19805 DanTheOriginal - would that include a 3some with another man? or woman? DanTheOriginal – would that include a 3some with another man? or woman?

]]> By: C http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/celebrate-your-love-every-day/1109/#comment-19803 C Tue, 18 Nov 2008 17:42:05 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1109#comment-19803 Another great blog! Anyone wanting to read about true life love like this.... read Robert Browning & Elizabeth Barrett Browning! Another great blog!

Anyone wanting to read about true life love like this…. read Robert Browning & Elizabeth Barrett Browning!

]]> By: DanTheOriginal http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/celebrate-your-love-every-day/1109/#comment-19799 DanTheOriginal Tue, 18 Nov 2008 12:21:33 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1109#comment-19799 Lexi, I really enjoyed that excerpt you posted here....So much so I am showing her to my wife to reignite the 3some conversation she did not like too much when I raised it:-) Lexi,

I really enjoyed that excerpt you posted here….So much so I am showing her to my wife to reignite the 3some conversation she did not like too much when I raised it:-)

]]> By: j-dude http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/celebrate-your-love-every-day/1109/#comment-19794 j-dude Tue, 18 Nov 2008 07:32:48 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1109#comment-19794 Cat, So would you consider the following a good example of connecting? Me: "Baby, come get some" Her: "Yum yum, give me some!" :) Cat,

So would you consider the following a good example of connecting?

Me: “Baby, come get some”
Her: “Yum yum, give me some!”

:)

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