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Wednesday, August 25th, 2010
So you’re in a relationship and your woman starts nagging. She tells you that you just don’t understand her, and that she really wishes that you would just do more “little things.”
It’s not the big things that make women happy, it’s paying attention to the little details and showing you care that is really meaningful to them. Women are really simple. They don’t need lavish gifts – they need to know you’re thinking about them.
Here are some ideas to get you started doing these “little things” your woman really wants:
1. Rub her feet instead of asking her if she wants you to rub her feet. Make it look like you want to do it.
2. Make her dinner one night instead of having her make you dinner. Don’t ask her if she wants you to make dinner. Make her dinner before she gets home.
3. Open the bottle of wine instead of sitting there on the couch waiting for her to open it. Get up and open it yourself.
4. Light the candle so that she arrives home to a nice environment instead of coming home to the glaring lights of the television and other things.
5. Send her a text in the middle of the day telling her “I miss your smile from this morning” or “Last night was amazing!” or “The conversation we had last night was great.”
6. Send a free ecard in the middle of the day . . . something cute to remind her how much you really care about her.
7. If she’s going on a business trip, offer to drive her to the airport or pick her up to make her life that much easier.
8. Let her have control of the remote control. Don’t monopolize it for a change. Just give it to her and let her actually sit there and enjoying watching one of her shows. Then you can share one of her interests by watching it with her.
9. Offer to iron one of her shirts or take her clothes to the dry cleaner instead of her being your live-in maid.
10. Clean up the bathroom without being asked. Don’t just sit there and ignore the mess around the toilet – Clean it up! Clean up. If you know it drives her crazy to see water splashed all around the sink, dry that area after you use it.
11. If you work out together, offer to train her instead of rushing through your own workout and then not letting her workout at the same time.
12. Take a shower together, then wash her hair, scrub her back and give her a spa treatment. Do this and enjoy it!
13. The next time she gives you a massage, give her a massage the next day. Offer it! Don’t just say you’ll give her a massage . . . do it!
14. Surprise her by making plans. Tell her “We’re going out tonight honey.” You can even just go out for a drink or dinner somewhere. It’s taking the initiative that’s important.
15. Decide on and set aside one night a week as date night. Have a date like when you first started dating.
16. Call her in the middle of the day and just say hello. Don’t wait for her to call you.
It’s very simple to keep women satisfied. It’s not about what you give them financially or what gifts you give them. That’s a cop out. It’s the little things. The guys who make the biggest mistake are the ones who ignore their woman then all of a sudden give them an expensive gift to make up for it. That doesn’t make up for it at all.
Popularity: 5%
Tags: advice, dating, Dating Advice, dating advice for men, david wygant, meet women, understanding women
Posted in Relationships, Sexual Turn-Ons, Understanding Female Psychology & Mindset | 6 Comments »
Thursday, August 5th, 2010
Not too long ago in the blog, we talked about guys who act like an ass in the bar. For any of you who didn’t catch that other blog, I talked about how to deal with the annoying guy (who we’ll call “Mr. Attitude”) who comes and starts talking to a woman you’re talking to in the bar — particularly the guys who try to get the woman to walk away with them.
In that blog, I gave some advice on how to handle that situation, including leaving the decision of whether to stay talking to you or to leave with Mr. Annoying up to her. A few days after I posted that blog, I got an email from a guy who told me he had tried what I said and that it had worked! This guy said what I recommended in that blog, and (not surprisingly) the woman chose to stay with him instead of leaving with Mr. Annoying.
This guy was not just writing to let me know how well this technique worked though. His email went on to say that after the woman rejected Mr. Annoying, he started to try to pick a fight with this guy right there in the bar.
Here’s a guy who just can’t handle that someone else talked to the girl to whom he wanted to be talking. So what do you do in that situation? Here’s exactly what you do.
You take the girl by the hand, look at her and say, “Let’s go sit down over there with some of my friends. I want to introduce you to my crew.” Then you take her by the hand and sit down with your friends, or grab a table if you’re not there with friends.
In other words, you walk away. Mr. Annoying is a bully. You walk away from bullies.
Mr. Annoying is so sexually frustrated in his life, that all he wants to do is fight. Bullies like that are so pissed off that they don’t get what they want, that they go out at night with aggression and ready to fight. So you walk away.
There is power in walking away, because real men will walk away from Mr. Annoying. Less powerful men will challenge Mr. Annoying. They will engage with him.
A powerful man doesn’t do this. You are not only being a powerful man when you do this, but you are also showing that woman that you are a powerful man who has restraint as part of your personality.
That woman is going to admire the fact that you don’t have a temper. Women don’t want to be with a guy like that, because it reminds her of so many other guys she has known in the past.
Men are very testosterone-laden and women don’t want to see that crazy hot-tempered side of you. Women want men who are very even-keeled and can handle all situations.
Do that, and she’s going to look at you as someone with strength. It’s actually probably going to turn her on. The fact that you walked away from the idiot will turn her on, because a lot of guys would have just gone ahead and engaged with him (and maybe even got into a fight with him).
Let me tell you something, if you get into that fight with Mr. Annoying then neither of you would end up with that woman. Both of you would have gone home alone.
The lesson here guys? Walk away.
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Popularity: 7%
Tags: advice, attract women, attracting women, Date, dating, david wygant, how to attract women, how to be a better communicator, how to handle conflict, how to meet women, meet women, meeting women, meeting women in bars, tips, understanding women, when to walk away
Posted in College Dating, How To Be A Better Communicator, Life Style 101, Night Game, Understanding Female Psychology & Mindset | 13 Comments »
Saturday, July 3rd, 2010
How does this make you feel.
Self Perception is everything.
How does that relate to the way you conduct your life everyday?
Are you even aware of what your energy, attitude and the way you feel about yourself convey to others.
It really is everything that determines whether you are going to be successful in whatever you are doing at this present moment.
This weekend is all about chasing the 4th of July festivities. Are you really in tune with yourself and when you arrive at your destination what do you think people see?
I want you all to think about this today.
Popularity: 8%
Tags: 4th of July, attitude, energy, everyday, july 4th, Mindset, perception
Posted in Dave's Faves, Mindset, Money & Success, Understanding Female Psychology & Mindset, Understanding Male Psychology & Mindset | 9 Comments »
Tuesday, June 15th, 2010
It seems like it’s all I hear: friend zone, friend zone, friend zone. I’ve done blogs on the friend zone. I’ve done podcasts on the friend zone. Nevertheless, I still get emails practically every day about the friend zone.
How many times do I need to tell you guys that the reason you end up in the friend zone, is because the woman never looked at you as a sexual being. She’s never felt that you turned her on sexually and emotionally.
It’s all about how you got involved with her in the beginning. Instead of asking her out, you said, “Let’s hang with a group of people” or you would just kind of run into her over and over again. You acted like a friend.
If you want to get out of the friend zone, the next time you first meet a woman you need to ask her out. You step up to the plate. You get some balls and you ask her out.
If you’re friends with a woman and you have a crush on her, stop. Ask her out. You can always go back to being a friend again.
If you’re a woman who’s stuck in the friend zone with a guy, look at him and say “Look, I have feelings for you. I’d like to explore this more. Are you up for it?” If the guy is not up for it, he’ll tell you. He’ll say he enjoys the friendship.
Do these things so you no longer have to email me and tell me you’re stuck in the friend zone. Do this so you can move forward. So many people waste time pining away for people they’re never going to have.
So today your challenge is to get out of the friend zone. Approach those two people in your life with whom you’re stuck in the friend zone, and either ask them out or state your intentions.
The real reason why you’re friends with them is because you’re hoping one day they will wake up and fall in love with you. So why don’t you take control of it? Get out there and do this today.
Popularity: 13%
Tags: advice, Date, dating, Dating Advice, david wygant, friend zone, tips, understanding women
Posted in Attract and Approach Women, College Dating, Sexual Turn-Ons, Understanding Female Psychology & Mindset | 10 Comments »
Wednesday, June 9th, 2010
I really thought this was a great subject, and one I haven’t tackled in a long time. Here is an email I just received from a woman:
“Dear David,
My self-confidence is really a problem. I’m 42 years old, never married, and very inexperienced with sex. Other stuff not a problem. I’ve had long relationships in my past and those guys were okay with it. Plus, I was younger and many of those guys were not interested in becoming fathers then either.
I made a choice to not risk an unwanted pregnancy in my 20s and 30s in conjunction with my personal beliefs and values. When guys did try to have sex with me, it was not in the context of a relationship. I had reached a point where I just wanted to know what it was like, and I’m sure I did not learn a lot from that.
While I’m not worried about it now as I have no intention of sleeping with someone just to enjoy dating, I want to know a man’s take on discovering this about a woman, especially later in life.
Anonymous”
This email at first kind of threw me. There are so many different religious beliefs about sexual intercourse, and I think they are very very antiquated. I really do.
I think sex is a wonderful thing. I think sex between two consenting adults is a wonderful thing. There are so many kinds of birth control out there nowadays that you don’t have to worry about getting pregnant.
I really truly believe that sexual experience is just a great thing to have, and that it’s great to explore and learn about your own sexuality. This woman is 42 years old, and she’s missed a lot of years of great sex due to her personal beliefs.
My advice to this woman, and to anybody in a similar situation and point in their life, is to really just explore sex and enjoy it. Tell men that you’re inexperienced, but that you’re willing to learn. Be open to the experience.
If I was with a woman who said she was very sexually inexperienced, I wouldn’t judge her at all. I would just enjoy it, teach her and explore her sexuality with her.
So if you truly want to learn about men and how to have great sex, this is how you do it. You need to just be honest with them. If you’re honest, then things will be great.
This is a really interesting topic. Guys, what are your thoughts on this? Have you known women who are really sexually inexperienced?
To the women, have any of you waited your whole life for the right man to come along, he hasn’t shown up, and now you’re in your 40′s with little or no sexual experience? What do you do about this situation?
I would love to hear from all of you on this.
Popularity: 14%
Tags: advice, david wygant, how to talk about sex, Sex, sexual double standards, sexual inexperience, tips, understanding men
Posted in Attract and Approach Men, Foreplay & Sexual Communication, Sex, Understanding Female Psychology & Mindset, Understanding Male Psychology & Mindset | 9 Comments »
Monday, June 7th, 2010
So many guys worry about the kiss at the end of the first date, because they really think it seals the deal (or, in guy terminology, that it “closes” her). In reality, though, the kiss is actually the least important part of the date.
The kiss means absolutely nothing unless you’ve done all the rest of the stuff right. I feel that if you pay attention to what the woman has to say — if you listen, react to her, smile in her presence and enjoy the date — that the kiss is really easy.
Not ending the date with a kiss is so different from how most guys think. I truly believe that you shouldn’t play tonsil hockey at the end of the first date. There is no reason to do that.
That’s a sexual thing. That’s a male thing. That’s an ego thing. It’s a man who is acting like a little boy who feels like he has to prove to everyone that he can get a kiss from a girl.
A real man couldn’t care less about the kiss at the end of the first date. A real man builds attraction by listening to her, talking to her, enjoying her company and asking her out for the second date. Those are the things that a real man does on a first date.
The best “kiss close” you can do at the end of a first date is to look into the woman’s eyes, reach in, give her a kiss on the lips, pull back and smile at her. That alone is so much more powerful that figuring when to jam you tongue in her mouth.
That subtle little kiss, in conjunction with asking her out at the end of the first date, will keep her thinking about you way more than any makeout session. So come on guys, do you want to be a boy or would you rather be a man?
Popularity: 16%
Tags: advice, Date, dating, Dating Advice, david wygant, first date kiss, first kiss, kiss close, kissing, Sexual Turn-Ons, tips
Posted in Body Language, Dating Etiquette, Foreplay & Sexual Communication, How To Start A Relationship, Sexual Turn-Ons, Understanding Female Psychology & Mindset | 10 Comments »
Tuesday, May 25th, 2010
It’s funny. If you ask a guy about a woman and say “What do you see?”, he will always pick out the most obvious things. He’ll say “She has great blonde hair” or “I like her body” or “She’s tall” or “She’s wearing a read shirt.” Women, on the other hand, notice totally different things about men.
Let me ask you a question. How many times have you been talking to a woman and, like magic, other women come over and start talking to you?
Guys always think this phenomenon is the result of women thinking you have a girlfriend and thus must understand how to talk to women. In reality, this phenomenon is totally attributable to an energy thing.
When you’re flirting, smiling and being real with a woman, other women see this energy that you’re putting out and the way the woman you’re talking to is responding to it. Women want emotions. Women can sense emotions. It is called women’s intuition.
Have you ever came home from work, and even though you told your girlfriend that you had a great day, she says, “Something is wrong.” They’re always right about it too. That’s their intuition.
Women read emotions better than men. They’re more in tune with emotions than men are.
So when they see you talking to a waitress in a restaurant, and the waitress is smiling and laughing, you will notice that other women will all of a sudden come and sit down next to you.
Why do they do that? They do that for a few reasons.
For one thing, you will stand out as being different from almost every other guy and how almost every other guy acts. Two, your energy will be very open. Three, they see how other women respond to you.
This is why talking to everyone all day long is equally important to meeting great women as going directly up to the women you want to meet. It’s really as simple as that. It’s an energy thing. Women love to talk to guys who bring good energy to other people.
Popularity: 14%
Tags: advice, attract women, attracting women, Date, dating, david wygant, how to attract women, tips, understanding women
Posted in Attract and Approach Women, Body Language, Understanding Female Psychology & Mindset | 26 Comments »
Wednesday, May 19th, 2010
Do you ever wonder why when you approach a woman, that the woman runs away?
They will say, “But I went up to her and did everything right. I observed, I reacted to the situation, but yet she didn’t respond.”
Do you have any idea what turned her off?
In today’s podcast, I am going to let you know exactly what turned her off and why.
This is an eye-opening (or more accurately and ear-opening) podcast . . .
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Popularity: 18%
Tags: advice, approach women, approaching women, Date, dating, david wygant, how to approach women, how to talk to women, talk to women, talking to women, tips
Posted in Attract and Approach Women, College Dating, How To Ask For A Date, How To Be A Better Communicator, Understanding Female Psychology & Mindset | 29 Comments »
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