I woke up this morning and realized the end is near. Ok…not the end of the world. Nor the end of the day. But the end of the year. So I took a long walk along the beach and thought about this: How many of you had the year that you expected? How many of you were able to create that incredible dating life this year that you know deep down inside that you could have ? And now how many of you are already thinking about next year and how next year will be different than this year? All of you need to sit yourselves down in a room and listen to today’s podcast. I am about to share with you some hard facts and wake you up to what reality is really all about.

For some reason so many guys always try to be too nice.

I like to be more mysterious, because I know that’s what will drive the women to really want me.

“Oh my god, my ex is such an a-hole!”

“My ex just texted me…look at this text.”

“Oh, that totally reminds me of this time I was with my ex…”

Is the topic of talking about exes a big no-no for you? Does it make you feel uncomfortable?

Hey Guys, Shogo here with another weekend blog for you guys!

I know that our usual weekend topic is nightlife and bars, but let’s switch it up a little for today. Today let’s talk a little bit about when you’ve got a date.

So you’re having trouble meeting somebody. You’ve read everything on how to meet somebody. You’ve used all different approaches and methods for how to meet somebody. Yet it’s still not happening for you. Why isn’t it working for you? Meeting someone is not just about memorizing approaches or methodologies. That’s only part of the equation…

The question I always get all the time is where do you go on a first date.
I’ll tell you where you don’t go. You don’t go to a movie, you don’t sit there in silence, wondering what she’s thinking, who she is, and feeling all uncomfortable wondering what to say after the movie.

When you’re dating and you’re having sex, it’s always fresh. The sex is always fun, it’s always new and exciting. You’re really exploring a new person, there are always new ways to connect with each other, and every day it feels like you’re finding out something new about each other.
But in relationships, the sex can get monotonous.

The other night I was out, when all of a sudden I got caught in a powerful smell. I wasn’t sure what the smell was at first, or from where it was coming.
I smelled something that almost smelled like the International Terminal at JFK. It stunk!
I wasn’t sure what it was. Was it hand lotion? Perfume? Cologne?

There you are. You’re walking down the aisle.
You can’t believe that you’ve made it this far.
The date that you have planned for tonight? Well, it’s worked out. Oh yes, you know everything about it! It doesn’t matter that it’s presently 2011–it doesn’t matter at all. You can see the future. Years down the road, you’re able to look into the future and know exactly how that date’s going to go tonight.

If you’re actively trying to meet somebody, but yet every time you meet someone you’re so busy that you’re next available time to go on a date with someone is ten days away, why bother dating??
Dating is all about creating time in your life to connect with other people. If you’re out there on the market and your next available date time is two weeks away, take yourself off the market until you’re able to balance your time.