When you’re dating and you’re having sex, it’s always fresh. The sex is always fun, it’s always new and exciting. You’re really exploring a new person, there are always new ways to connect with each other, and every day it feels like you’re finding out something new about each other.
But in relationships, the sex can get monotonous.

Let’s talk about something today. It’s called a backup. Do you guys have a backup? Actually, what I’m talking about is not really a plan, it’s a person. Do you have a backup girl or a backup guy?
You know, when you’re dating someone and all of a sudden the shit hits the fan, suddenly you’re alone. The person you were really jazzed about blows you off, the relationship is over and done with, and you’re back to the starting line again.

Hey guys, Shogo here with another Friday post to get you rolling for the weekend! It”s the weekend, so what is our theme? Not dating, not relationships, not communication, not self-love….it’s BARS! Yay.
Several clients who come to us are essentially reformed Pick Up Artists, and we spend a lot of time with them deprogramming their brains from the PUA techniques they learned, and getting them to start over and learn how to be as real and sexually mature as possible.

I had a client one time named Amulus. He was in his 30s, overweight — not grossly overweight — but just overweight. But he didn’t feel that way at all. He swore he had man boobs. I mean he had every excuse in the book. First day that I worked with him I looked at [...]

So your sitting across the table from your fantasy woman, and all of a sudden you think. “Wow I need to get sexual with her right now so she gets turned onto me” So you space out for a second and you stop listening to what she is saying. You then go into deep thought [...]

Man, I gotta tell ya, jet lag is brutal the first day. I tossed and turned last night, but nothing beats jet lag like walking it off around London, a nice breakfast, and interacting with all the people out on a Friday morning. London really is one of my all-time favorite cities.
As I was tossing and turning in my bed last night, I was thinking about what men and women think about each other after their first night sleeping together

This is a blog that women are going to love, and by which they might at times may make them feel a bit threatened. Men are going to read this blog and be thinking, “I want to have that. I want to possess the power of the penis.”
So what am I talking about here? What is the power of the penis?

Have you ever been involved in a relationship where it just went the other direction, and you always think about what it was like the first three months or the first six months?
It seems like in the first three to six months of a relationship, you actually do things for the other person. You make nights special. You light candles for each other. You make sure nights are romantic. You make love for hours instead of minutes.

Are you insecure in dating because of your race? Do your friends make fun of your physical imperfections? Well, maybe it’s time for you to find some new friends. Or MAYBE it’s all just in your head…. In keeping with our new found tradition of answering all of your best questions on Podcast Wednesday, today’s [...]

You guys seemed to really like the blog about dating more than two people at the same time.
Let’s go a little further today and talk about sleeping with two people at the same time. I’ve got to admit, I’m guilty of it myself. While I was dating heavily in my 20s and even a bit in my 30s, I did sleep with two people at once. No, get your mind out of the gutter-I did not have a three-way. I wasn’t sleeping with two women at the same exact time, but I was dating and sleeping with multiple partners at the same time.
At the time, I found it fun.