I wrote a recent blog about fuckation, which is when you’re in a
relationship, you just go and screw each other’s brains out for 48
hours in a random hotel and have a blast. A lot of you got appalled.

Such a random day today.

Doesn’t matter what day it is on the calendar, doesn’t matter what month it is.

It could be any day on the calendar, it could be any month.

So the other night after getting out of a massage, I went to grab some dinner to take home at a nearby restaurant. It was a cute and quiet little vegan restaurant that a lot of people go to on a date. It’s one of those places that have only about seven tables in the whole restaurant, so it’s a great place to bring a date.

She’s sexy. She’s hot. She turns you on more than any woman you’ve ever been with. Are you excited yet? Is there any problem that you can see in the foreseeable future?

Here’s a quote that I want you guys to pin up on your board. You’re going to need it throughout your entire life. You’re going to need it in everything you do, from relationships to dating to work. Here’s the quote:
“Decide what you want, and learn how to ask for it.”

When you’re dating and you’re having sex, it’s always fresh. The sex is always fun, it’s always new and exciting. You’re really exploring a new person, there are always new ways to connect with each other, and every day it feels like you’re finding out something new about each other.
But in relationships, the sex can get monotonous.

Recently I did a podcast about what your past dictates, what you can learn from it, and how you can formulate a whole new future. One thing you should know about me is that when I coach others (by doing things like creating my podcasts), I really learn a lot about myself.
I learn about my own issues and my own “stuff,” like my own fears that I may not even have realized I had. I am not talking about fears having to do with when I coach guys how to approach women. I have zero apprehension about that.

Whether you understand it now or not…
Whenever people tell me they’re in pain, or they feel like the world’s coming apart, I always tell them everything happens for a reason. There’s a lesson in everything.

What a great group of men at this bootcamp, we’ve been having such a blast so far! This morning we were at Borough Market in London meeting new people, engaging so many interesting women, and generally just having a great time and sending out a great vibe.
The food at Borough Market is always fantastic. I’m such a food guy too, what I really wanted to do was sample some of everything. I wanted one big, gigantic combination plate of the best food that the market has to offer.

When we get involved in a relationship, why are we always searching for that perpetual carrot?
It’s amazing that when we’re unsatisfied in a relationship — feeling like our partner is not satisfying our needs, wants and desires — that we feel afraid to tell them. It’s amazing that we are afraid to be that open, honest, raw and vulnerable with our partner.