This blog is directed at all the men who have large egos who wish that they were dating Jennifer Aniston, because she’s hot. But here’s the real deal, if I was single, I’d much rather date Jennifer Aniston, because she’s rich.

Think about it. First class all the time

Are you a rehasher?

No, not somebody who orders eggs and hash browns at the diner, takes them home, and then rehashes them the next morning.

The other rehashing.

Here is the definition of a Wannabe: a Wannabe usually has a job that they do not like-maybe they have two jobs that they do not like-and they “want to be” something else.

They usually do a very mediocre job at what they already are doing for work

Remember the movie A Few Good Men, when Jack Nicholson looked at Tom Cruise and said, “You can’t handle a good blow job!”

Well, ok, he didn’t really say that. But in my version he did.

So you meet a new woman

Maybe you have a friend who — no matter what happens — will always try to want to hear about your life, listen to you for two seconds and then go off on whatever topic of that person’s life at the time.

We all have a friend like that. We all have those types of friends that are constantly bitching and complaining about their life bitching and complaining about their situation, but they never really listen to you.

These girls are my favorites. They love to threaten. They are constantly threatening: “If you don’t drop everything right now and show up, I am never seeing you again.”

What? Even if you’re actually busy? I can’t believe that.

Today during my seminar today in NYC one of the guys asked me to share something personal and what my definition of going deep was. Let me share this with all of you right now.

I’m going to tell you exactly the way that I feel about something that is really personal to me.

I am off to NYC this weekend for my Art Of Communication Seminar and I was thinking.
You know what my favorite part of a relationship is? The part of the relationship where you have to prove that you love the other person. Prove that you love me. If you love me, you will do this for me. People are nuts when they do that crap.

So you’re having trouble meeting somebody. You’ve read everything on how to meet somebody. You’ve used all different approaches and methods for how to meet somebody. Yet it’s still not happening for you. Why isn’t it working for you? Meeting someone is not just about memorizing approaches or methodologies. That’s only part of the equation…

In your marriage, was there ever a time when you forgot to be your spouse’s husband or wife? I want you to think about this for a minute. Whether you are currently married or are recently divorced, I want you to think about whether there was ever a time that you really forget that you [...]