Today we’re going to talk about cheaters. You’re going to learn about how I feel about cheaters. If you get cheated on, are you actually just as responsible as the person who did the cheating? How does that question make you feel?

Do you ever suffer from breathing issues, where you feel like each breath is laboring through your body? Every breath you take hurts. Every step you take hurts. I am not talking about a case of the swine flu. I am talking about heartache. We don’t ever really talk about heartache. Do you ever get into a huge fight with your significant other, and you just feel like it’s the end of the world? How about if your significant other breaks up with you, or you break up with them?

So you walk up to a woman and you start talking to her. It could be about anything. It could be about something really simple. Say you are looking at a sushi bar and you say to her, “Man, there’s a lot of different colors here” and she ignores you. What do you do next? A lot of guys…

Never be looking for validation from other people. If you changed yourself every time someone said something about you, you would be nothing more than a human diaper. The only people in your life who should prompt change in you are your close friends and family. Feedback should only be listened to in retrospect, and only from people you love and trust. Strangers know nothing about who you really are. So when they pass judgment on you, they are doing so based on nothing but superficial things.

You are flaking . . . and I’m not talking about your scalp or the tip of your nose. I’m talking about you flaking on people. You can’t make commitments. You cancel at the very last minute. You say yes to something, but then you always tend to blow it off. Are you someone who decides you want to go to an event, but you blow it off at the last minute because no one else will go with you? Do you know what flaking says about your personality? It shows…

You get in a fight with your partner. They did something that really angered you. You didn’t like their behavior or the way they treated you. Whatever it was that they did, has that ever caused you to basically mirror that behavior back to them? Then you start blaming them for being the way that you are at that moment. You start getting angry at them for making you this way. Sometimes you just…

How many times when dating have you had someone flake on you? How many times do you think to yourself, “God this woman (or this man) just keeps flaking on me. Why do I keep giving them a third, fourth and fifth chance?” The reason why you do is because…

Here is a great question a reader just asked me. He asked, “David, how do seem open to people and be yourself if they reject you?” Here is the answer: Who cares about what someone who rejects you thinks about you? The only question that matters is asking…

Neediness is one of the biggest turnoffs in the world. So many times, we just want to be self-satisfied. Why didn’t that person call me back? Why didn’t they call me when they said they were going to call me? I really wanted to talk to them. I needed them to talk to me. These are all needy thoughts.

Today is going to be another day I want you to watch instead of read. In this LIVE In-Field video filmed at a recent Bootcamp, I talk about 3 keys to becoming a master communicator. I go step-by-step through…