The last few days on the blog have been an awesome debate.

If you missed all the fun check it out right here before you read today’s post.
Anyway Eric from the blog posed this question to me and I thought it would be great to post…..

When you look back at all your past relationships, what is the one thing that sticks out in your mind? Think for a minute.
If at this moment you have any negative feelings or emotions then you really need to sit back and listen to what today’s podcast is all about.

Got a surprise in store for all of you. You’re going to be shocked to hear this.

Are you an ‘armchair quarterback?’ Are you constantly thinking about what somebody said, or are you interpreting things they said (or wish they had said)?

That is what an armchair quarterback does. An armchair quarterback will break down a conversation they had with a woman (or a man if you’re a woman).

If you are an armchair quarterback, what you’ll do is grab the ear of one of your friends and break down the entire exchange — line by line. What happens here is that you end up breaking down and interpreting the situation based on a want or a need, and you end up skewing it in your direction.

Are you willing to put your life on the line today?

Do you know a surefire sign that your relationship is on the edge, and is going downhill? It’s when you start masturbating again, and actually start enjoying it. Think about your past relationships at the point they were ending, or at the point when you and your partner were “on the outs.” All of a sudden you get to a point in the relationship where you’re having sex, you’re fighting, and you’re not really connecting.

How do these things make you feel? How do you feel if someone cheats on you? How do you feel if someone steals your cell phone out of your car? How do you feel if someone slept with somebody else? We’re getting to the real root of cheaters right now. You’ve been cheated on in the past. If someone asks you what happened in your past relationship, is your answer…

One thing you notice when you get to the breakup point is that you actually fight less with your partner. You fight less because in your mind and in your heart you start detaching yourself from the other person, and you don’t care as much anymore. You have already made a determination that they don’t understand you, that they will never understand you and that the relationship just won’t work out with them. So, all of a sudden…

Do you know what’s funny about relationships? Let’s talk about something no one seems to want to talk about when it comes to relationships. When you have a new relationship, you’re just in la-la land. I mean, it is the greatest feeling in the entire world. You want to tell the entire world how much…

We never really talked about breaking up in the blog. Today is going to be the first of a few blogs in which I will talk more about this. In this blog, I want to discuss something called “the breaking point.”
A lot of you have been in multiple relationships. I would say all of you have probably been in at least one relationship. No matter in how many relationships you’ve been, however, all relationships have what I call a breaking point.