So you are out on a date with somebody, it goes fairly well. Pretty soon, you’re waiting for them to call you back and you become obsessed about that person. You call up all your friends to try to figure out what you did right, what may have gone wrong, when they might call you, or why didn’t they haven’t called you yet. “How come they didn’t call! What did I do wrong?” …

Why do we always have to know why a relationship didn’t work out, or why someone didn’t call back, or why someone isn’t into us anymore? Why do we always need an answer? Why…

Let me tell you something: if you’re not getting the reaction you want from somebody take control. You’re the one that needs to be the leader. You’re the one that needs to decide what dynamic you want in your life…

So you are recently divorced. I was about 33 when I got divorced. After my divorce, I remember my buddy Rich and I went out to a bar. I was standing in that bar drinking a Margarita, and all of a sudden I realized I was “him.” I was that older guy in a bar full of 20-somethings, nursing a drink and…

Hey readers, Shogo here. Fresh back from London from an amazing weeklong program and weekend boot camp, and I’ve got another Friday edition for you!

This Friday’s blog was going to be another tip from me on navigating the bar scene. I was going to talk about cockblocking, but I’ve been reading some of the recent comments on the blog, and instead I want to write today’s blog in response to some of the comments. We’ll talk about cockblocks next week.

Are you a rehasher?

No, not somebody who orders eggs and hash browns at the diner, takes them home, and then rehashes them the next morning.

The other rehashing.

I had an interesting conversation with somebody not too long ago, and he was really living in the past. Not only that, but he was living in someone else’s past. He was allowing somebody else’s experience he had witnessed dictate how his experiences in the future were going to be.

You always hear the saying, “Get out of your head,” but a lot of people don’t know what that really means or how to do it. I get asked all the time how to do this.
The way I do it is really easy. I happen to have been born with a zipper on my skull, so all I have to do is peel back my toupee, unzip the back of my head, and crawl out (usually feet first). It’s a really interesting phenomenon to watch me, because I’ll just be there laying on the ground and then all of a sudden I’ll whip my toupee off, unzip my head and crawl right out.

I think we have a new tradition here on the blog.
Every Wednesday, I pick out the weeks best posting or email and turn it into a podcast.
Now before you jam my in-box with emails for next week. I want to set the record straight.

Do you suffer from Scarcity mentality? Do you believe that there are no good single people left in the world. Or to be more specific in your world, in your town, on your block.